The OFFICIAL Red Flags When Dating Men Thread

[Swirv]

Instructions?

Examples, please.

Anything your man asks whether cooking, doing laundry, helping to develop a business marketing plan if you're skilled at; pretty much anything that you can perform well and serves to advance him and you.

Doesn't know how the difference between leader and authoritarian is a red flag

Who is talking about you doing anything against your will?

Red flags when dealing with women: Doesn't know the difference between being a team player and a slave

 

[VFib]

These aren't instructions, though. These are what adults do.

Anything your man asks whether cooking, doing laundry, helping to develop a business marketing plan if you're skilled at; pretty much anything that you can perform well and serves to advance him and you.


Who is talking about you doing anything against your will?

Red flags when dealing with women: Doesn't know the difference between being a team player and a slave

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

Another red flag is he asks you for money


If you can see that he spends beyond his means and especially if he's doing this to impress others.

If he doesn't notice when you're down.

If he doesn't know how to handle it when you need emotional support and hadn't shown that he's willing to learn.




Screw you

Or if he has funds to travel and never invites you. Keep In mind that you two are exclusive but he's going to Paris next week and didn't invite you. Lol

 

[K.Dot]

If he's 45 and up and listens to future more than you, that's a problem. I've been there, done that

It's more of how he feels about and treats women. 45+ married and still out there with other women, obessed with flashy cars and clothes ECT. People always mistake him for my older brother and can never believe he's my father when we worked together though(but only when he had his hat on, the state of his hair line/head is just atrocious so he never takes off hat, it's comical and embarrassing).

 

[Bless't]

these bytches want everything but dont bring shyt to the table they broke as fukk but want mr perfect..bytch please you can get over with that shyt down south or east but out here nikkas dont play that shyt bytch you better have some money too

 

[Geek Nasty]

he's not me

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

It's more of how he feels about and treats women. 45+ married and still out there with other women, obessed with flashy cars and clothes ECT. People always mistake him for my older brother and can never believe he's my father when we worked together though(but only when he had his hat on, the state of his hair line/head is just atrocious so he never takes off hat, it's comical and embarrassing).

I will say, a RED flag will be if he dates younger women and not women his age.

I'm in my 20s and If a man 40 and up is trying to talk to me, something is up. I remember this guy told me the reason why he doesnt date women his age is because he likes to be spontaneous

 

[Gold]

3. Telling you what he thinks you want to hear and not having a real conversation

Contradictory

 

[Gold]

If you have a disagreement and he gives you the silent treatment

What is this a redflag for tho?

 

[K.Dot]

I will say, a RED flag will be if he dates younger women and not women his age.

I'm in my 20s and If a man 40 and up is trying to talk to me, something is up. I remember this guy told me the reason why he doesnt date women his age is because he likes to be spontaneous

Me and my stepmother is around the same age

 

[Gold]

Men who ask "what do you bring to the table" should be avoided because they don't understand the value of a woman.

 

[K.Dot]

What is this a redflag for tho?

I asked the same thing, she says it childish, talk about your problems. Makes sense to me

 

[Queen]

Men who think they are supposed to rule over a woman, but they admit that they are not driven and competent enough to advance their station in life without a woman's presence and labor. The lack of respect is amusing, but not worth bringing into your life.

 

[Gold]

I asked the same thing, she says it childish, talk about your problems. Makes sense to me

Yeah, i can see that.

Being generally a silent person is diff than giving the silent treatment

 

[K.Dot]

Yeah, i can see that.

Being generally a silent person is diff than giving the silent treatment

True, idk how to argue or express myself most of the time so silence is what you get