The OFFICIAL Red Flags When Dating Men Thread

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Men who frequently refer to women as "females" tend to have many undesirable qualities.

Men with a lot of women as "friends" would sleep with them if given the opportunity. There are very few exceptions to this.
Are you not a female?
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What are some of the red flags women should watch out for?

1. Overly concerned about what you wear and tries to influence this

2. Ducktales to make himself look a certain way

3. Telling you what he thinks you want to hear and not having a real conversation

4. Doesn't include you in the big decisions

5. His actions don't match his words


Great topic!!


A man who has God kids and gives them child support. Keep I mind, those aren't his kids and you never met them or his best friend which is female. He Has an attitude when you mention meeting them.


When he falls for you very quickly. It's on thing to fall for one person but I remember I dated this guy and in like 3 weeks he told me that he loved me. He had mommy issues.

A man who brags/ talks about himself and never asks you anything


A man who hypothetically talks about strangling a woman

A man who admits and enjoys watching gay porn. To each his own but if he's heterosexual...

His body language and mannerisms should tell you some things.
 

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Someone said it's a red flag if a man refers to a woman as a female..... :gucci:

Are you not a female?
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I said men who frequently use that word tend to have undesirable qualities... Such as being crass. And it's true. Let's not pretend that men who refer to women as "females" are aren't about to say something disrespectful 98% of the time.

A true gentleman recognizes the subtleties in language. A "female" can be, but is not necessarily human. A female can be a dog, a cat, or a roach. So :camby:if that is how you prefer to refer to women and ladies.
 

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Great topic!!


A man who has God kids and gives them child support. Keep I mind, those aren't his kids and you never met them or his best friend which is female. He Has an attitude when you mention meeting them.


When he falls for you very quickly. It's on thing to fall for one person but I remember I dated this guy and in like 3 weeks he told me that he loved me. He had mommy issues.

A man who brags/ talks about himself and never asks you anything


A man who hypothetically talks about strangling a woman

A man who admits and enjoys watching gay porn. To each his own but if he's heterosexual...

His body language and mannerisms should tell you some things.
:russ: drop those stories brehette
 

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Yes!! Even when the woman is on her cycle. He feels she should at least give him oral. And some women feel toes aired so they will do it not by choice but due to pressure
Some women expect massages and cuddling during their cycle as well. Not to mention us dealing with mood swings every other day. Red flag that
 

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I'm born and raised in NY, and if all you have are timbs and Jordans, it's a turn off. It's especially a turn off seeing long lines at the shoe store way before it's even open. :yeshrug:



Will invest in some shoes that will be out of style in 3 months. But will refuse to court a woman. I never pay these types any mind. I don't date me Who are sneaker heads at all.
 

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I said men who frequently use that word tend to have undesirable qualities... Such as being crass. And it's true. Let's not pretend that men who refer to women as "females" are aren't about to say something disrespectful 98% of the time.

A true gentleman recognizes the subtleties in language. A "female" can be, but is not necessarily human. A female can be a dog, a cat, or a roach. So :camby:if that is how you prefer to refer to women and ladies.
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