Nah you got exactly what I was getting at. That's exactly what I was saying and the main reason I think people feel more stress free over in them other places because of that mainly. I never said or didn't mean to if I did say you can't live a stress free life in the states. It just seems that's how a lot of cats make it seem when IMO its just a matter of making money to be comfortable where you are because if you do the same things over here with the right amount of money most would be pretty stress free here too for most people.
That is true for the most part, but at the same time, America is a very stressful place, you have to go through a lot of hurdles just to live ok, and you are paying more here for those same nice quality of life in some of these foreign countries.. Even if I was rich I would spend most of my time somewhere else, because the fact is as a black man, I am always treated better everywhere else than at home, and regardless of why people assume that is, it is what it is. Who wouldn't want to stay somewhere that treats you better?
I never plan on giving up my citizenship, but after being away for the last few months, I am seriously considering getting dual citizenship somewhere else, that why I have the best of both worlds..
Yeah I think everyone is right to a certain extent. A lot of cats who go to Brazil are paying for sex because they are bitter with American women. But you can't generalize all black men who go to Brazil cause I met a lot of genuine dudes who actually like the culture and language like me. The dudes in that documentary weren't good representations.
But yeah I don't care why they go either lol.
I know for ME, I when I was In brazil at first I didn't want to pay to play, but I then realized that
1. I am only here for a few days, I don't have time to build a relationship with some chick.
2. I don't speak Portuguese good enough to talk to the local like that
3. and most importantly, it was fun, they handle "tricking" or "prostitution different down there. I was like I'm a enjoy myself F what that nikkas that aint here or never been here think..
Once I accepted that, I enjoyed myself more, that doesn't mean I cant get women in the us or I was bitter. I understand what you are saying and agree that you shouldn't generalize people, but that's what makes these threads go 5-6 pages..