still trying to be 'that guy' I see.....cause the shyt you asking for from supe was displayed in MoS...he was exactly like that most of the movie except for when he was fighting...also, bats isnt a lighthearted character, so why would you want a defined big screen version?...hell, now that i think, we already got that version: George Clooney's batman.....
marvel hasnt gotten their characters 'right' meaning like they are in the comics, what are you talking about?.....they've made all the characters the same: witty and smartasses like iron man...when the only one that should be like that is iron man...not thor, cap, ant-man, falcon, black widow, hawkeye, etc...
....like I suggested early: stop trying to be that guy, stop trying to find reasons why not to like this shyt, and just enjoy...cause the only person you ruining this shyt for is yourself....