And how many of them were trying to build a family with you and a future with you? How many of them were planning on putting that wealth into the black community? Are those the women that sent your kids to the garbage chute?
The Nightly Show Panel - Black Women And Dating
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And how many of them were trying to build a family with you and a future with you? How many of them were planning on putting that wealth into the black community? Are those the women that sent your kids to the garbage chute?
"Bu bu but he's not in the same social circles as us professional black women
"A lot of these black women get some success and think they Oprah now,she flat out rejected the idea of a woman making 80K dating a man who makes 40K....But later said since 50K is CONSIDERED middle class income that would be okay....so a extra 10K a year?thats what this is all about
? Who would want to marry anybody that petty?They really think a man who makes 40K is going to marry her just so he can take half her money,thats how low these types think of us.....A man aint marrying no woman he aint attracted to or don't love just cuz she make a extra 40K,we talkin bout 40K
?Like i said my sister did just that,and she cooked and cleaned....Why?Because quite frankly he had a more physical,harder job working longer hours....she just happened to make more money.
As a woman you want to cook and clean because you WANT to cook and clean for your man,thats not something you magically are supposed to start wanting to do after marrying somebody who makes the same amount you do
....So most likely you women don't cook,clean or excel sexually right NOW
?But that cant be why your alone,you make 100K a year,you Oprah status right?,you aint gotta do all that huh
?But for real this is more dangerous for the division it causes between black men and women who DONT make nearly that much....This agenda isn't careful at all in stressing the fact that women making 30-40K a year shouldn't have it hard at all finding a good black man,unless they priorities are even more fukked up than the wench women who are focused on money...Nah they push the idea that on every level we broke,in jail,dead with multiple baby mamas
...Its a reason they don't want to be careful with they message though,you a fool if you don't see it
filial_piety
Banned
"successful black women" (and that's if we define success monetarily) are a statistical anomaly.
These panels are very misleading because they don't represent the average.
Where are the black women on there to explain why they have 3 children by 3 different men?
Where are the black women on there who are 40 lbs over weight who wonder why they can't find a man?
Unfortunately, that is far more representative of what the "average" black woman is like rather than the panels up there with lawyers, judges, hedge fund managers and PhD recipients.
Then on top of that, this misrepresentation up there has the cojones to speak stereotypically of how the "average" black male is below them.
And then you have people actually entertaining these discussions
No because your brother in law doesn't also come home to clean the house and do all the domestic duties, does he? He's the head of the household, he makes the breadwinner money, and so she's subservient in the house and has no problem doing so.
Almost no woman has a problem being subservient if the man is making more and being the provider. Most women will RELISH that opportunity. I know it because I'M living it. But women are having a problem with being the primary providers AND being asked to be Suzie Homemaker.
"Bu bu but he's not in the same social circles as us professional black women
A lot of these black women get some success and think they Oprah now,she flat out rejected the idea of a woman making 80K dating a man who makes 40K....But later said since 50K is CONSIDERED middle class income that would be okay....so a extra 10K a year?thats what this is all about
They really think a man who makes 40K is going to marry her just so he can take half her money,thats how low these types think of us.....A man aint marrying no woman he aint attracted to or don't love just cuz she make a extra 40K,we talkin bout 40K
Like i said my sister did just that,and she cooked and cleaned....Why?Because quite frankly he had a more physical,harder job working longer hours....she just happened to make more money.
As a woman you want to cook and clean because you WANT to cook and clean for your man,thats not something you magically are supposed to start wanting to do after marrying somebody who makes the same amount you do
But that cant be why your alone,you make 100K a year,you Oprah status right?,you aint gotta do all that huh
But for real this is more dangerous for the division it causes between black men and women who DONT make nearly that much....This agenda isn't careful at all in stressing the fact that women making 30-40K a year shouldn't have it hard at all finding a good black man,unless they priorities are even more fukked up than the wench women who are focused on money...Nah they push the idea that on every level we broke,in jail,dead with multiple baby mamas
1. black men marry lower than any other race of men
2. when black men marr yyou can be damn sure it ain't for "finances", they actually love the woman.
3 preach breh
so u are not going to answer the previous question
just the sistas huh
? so you're one of those guys. 
yes he does
because for almost a year and half my brother in law was unemployed and my sister was the only one working.
See marriage is a loving union with ups and downs, there is we and not the us mentality.
Instead of this man is only making 40k, it should be we are making 110k together but these broads dont think of it that way. But for the broads that do, they got the ring on teh finger, they got the baby kicking in the belly, they get teh respect and lovea nd admiration.
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
Doesn't matter if I bring less money or more. I'm going to do my best in this racist land and support my family and my own people. We will both have our duties in the household as i've said and I'm not changing my stance.
She could make more than me and I could make less and as long as she is cool with my way then we will be fine. I could even be the breadwinner and she could have no job and I would still love her. I have countless relatives who all are married for more than 30 years as proof that the way I chose works.
I don't care what names you call me I refuse to be emasculated.
"successful black women" (and that's if we define success monetarily) are a statistical anomaly.
These panels are very misleading because they don't represent the average.
Where are the black women on there to explain why they have 3 children by 3 different men?
Where are the black women on there who are 40 lbs over weight who wonder why they can't find a man?
Unfortunately, that is far more representative of what the "average" black woman is like rather than the panels up there with lawyers, judges, hedge fund managers and PhD recipients.
Then on top of that, this misrepresentation up there has the cojones to speak stereotypically of how the "average" black male is below them.
And then you have people actually entertaining these discussions
Oh, I wasn't discussing the average and I agree that this, like most of our representation in white media, is obviously skewed to fit a certain narrative.
I jumped in to better explain @Yup stance because she was speaking in regards to a particular situation (Black women who are financially successful and their problems with dating life) because I understood her point.
Most women, black or otherwise, aren't content with bringing a larger chunk of money but being told to handle all the domestic duties because those are duties usually reserved for the less competent provider. She was saying that if women changed their standards to account for good black men who might make less than them, good black men should be willing to meet them halfway and change their standards for how the domestic duties are handled to account for good black women who make more than them.
missyleebunny
Pro
Interesting conversation but nothing has been said that is hitting on the real problems.
Remind me again who you go home to at night?
Chances are she was making the same or less than him.
There's nothing wrong with a woman wanting a man on her level, black women are the only women who are told to settle for less.
You don't hear Asian fathers telling their daughters to stick with the man making less than her because he may be a great doctor one day. If she is a doctor he wants her with a doctor or similar. If she is working in the corner store he wants her with a man working at the corner store across the street.
Exactly this is not an issue that affects most black women because most black women are not in high earning positions. This is almost a non-issue because the average black woman will wind up with the average black man.
Breh what does this convo have to do with black men dating out. Why don't you skate with your subtle anti-black women rhetoric
Always making slick comments.
Tropical Fantasy
Superstar
Some black women acting like black women out earn black men.
Average black male makes $667 a week, average black woman makes $602 a week.
black women online act like every black woman has a degree and a great job
while every black man is doing nothing with his life
