The Nightly Show Panel - Black Women And Dating

[KenyaDoll]

A single woman needs more money than a single man.

That oil change? It costs 20 for a man to do, but a woman is going to pay 45 because she can't do it herself. If she had a man, it would cost her 20, or maybe even nothing.

That leaky faucet? $100/hr for a plumber that she has to call. A man in the house and that sink is fixed for half that.

The lawn? $50/month, unless her husband handles all that, then she doesn't have to spend a dime.

Babysitter? Electrical repairs? Bug/Insect Killings? Men are valuable. Even though society says otherwise, you've got to come out of pocket for those services as a single woman.

I don't know any man in the 21st century doing ANY of those things himself. Most people, regardless of gender, are at instant oil change places.

You are talking about skills that men in the older generation (like my dad) has.

 

[MikelArteta]

Girl he is lying. I wasn't playing when I said he goes home to his parents. He still lives with them. I am dead ass serious.

i live in a million dollr house and my parents are gone for half of the year, your not on my level. I start my cushy job tom in finance at a hospital

and oh my becky is with me

go choke on a dikk southernbelle

 

[KenyaDoll]

dont worry brehs if your not "good" enough for these black women, there are oodles and oodles of other women out there willing to welcome you with open arms, but then if you do that and you climb up their ladder, then you are a sellout

I think y'all should do that instead of complaining about black women so much. However, all of the women and asian women I go to school with are messing with minimum wage men either.

They are dating doctors, lawyers, and high salary men. I don't know who told you otherwise.

 

[Blackout]

I don't know any man in the 21st century doing ANY of those things himself. Most people, regardless of gender, are at instant oil change places.

You are talking about skills that men in the older generation (like my dad) has.

Really?

I can do a good bit of those stuff.

 

[William F. Russell]

Black men in graduate programs have NO trouble finding women. NONE what so ever so y'all are just making things up. School is the easiest place to find a like minded partner.

Biggest lie in this thread. And that's saying plenty, given who's been posting in it.

 

[KenyaDoll]

i live in a million dollr house and my parents are gone for half of the year, your not on my level. I start my cushy job tom in finance at a hospital

and oh my becky is with me

go choke on a dikk southernbelle

I will when he gets back home from the hospital (he's a doctor )

I beyond your level idiot. Anyone can live off their parents.

 

[MikelArteta]

I think y'all should do that instead of complaining about black women so much. However, all of the women and asian women I go to school with are messing with minimum wage men either.

They are dating doctors, lawyers, and high salary men. I don't know who told you otherwise.

black men eat regardless anywhere, regardless of status or income in any community.

my becky right now is pushing plus 6 figures

southernbelle!

 

[Still Benefited]

Oh, I wasn't discussing the average and I agree that this, like most of our representation in white media, is obviously skewed to fit a certain narrative.

I jumped in to better explain @Yup stance because she was speaking in regards to a particular situation (Black women who are financially successful and their problems with dating life) because I understood her point.

Most women, black or otherwise, aren't content with bringing a larger chunk of money but being told to handle all the domestic duties because those are duties usually reserved for the less competent provider. She was saying that if women changed their standards to account for good black men who might make less than them, good black men should be willing to meet them halfway and change their standards for how the domestic duties are handled to account for good black women who make more than them.

Oh so you not Yup....You just happened to show up to cosign her as she disappears to explain her stance better than she can?And to give it some sort of credibility being its coming from a man? She can also verify you do well for yourself financially? If you not Yup you tryna fukk Yup which forces us wonder if you actually mean what you are saying,or if you just want the puzzy.....You two have the exact same beliefs and enjoy ask the same questions over and over again while making no statements about anything women may be doing wrong.....You two would make a great couple actually....If your a white man of course

 

[MikelArteta]

I will women he gets back home from the hospital (he's a doctor )

I beyond your level idiot. Anyone can live off their parents.

I don't live off my parents

he's prob fukkn all them white nurses, pm me when he leaves your ass so i can laugh

 

[KenyaDoll]

Biggest lie in this thread. And that's saying plenty, given whose been posting in it.

If you can't find a woman then there is something wrong with YOU sweetie. Look at yourself because even the least attractive black men I know in graduate programs have options...lots of them.

 

[KenyaDoll]

I don't live off my parents

he's prob fukkn all them white nurses, pm me when he leaves your ass so i can laugh

You WISH...my man is satisfied. You are the one who can't keep the person of the opposite sex satisfied. You are miserable so you hope everyone else is...

 

[Adebisi_Said]

Didn't watch the video. What did Jacquie Reid have to say?

 

[Canon]

"successful black women" (and that's if we define success monetarily) are a statistical anomaly.

These panels are very misleading because they don't represent the average.

Where are the black women on there to explain why they have 3 children by 3 different men?

Where are the black women on there who are 40 lbs over weight who wonder why they can't find a man?

Unfortunately, that is far more representative of what the "average" black woman is like rather than the panels up there with lawyers, judges, hedge fund managers and PhD recipients.

Then on top of that, this misrepresentation up there has the cojones to speak stereotypically of how the "average" black male is below them.

And then you have people actually entertaining these discussions

The average black male makes more than the average black female, and most people of any race do not hold a college degree.

The whole debate is a farce. The reason a large majority of black women have trouble finding husbands has NOTHING to do with money or education, because statistically the average one has neither of the two.

yup but i see @Yup game tho

just straight bullshyt and lies mixed up in bedwenching

 

[MikelArteta]

You WISH...my man is satisfied. You are the one who can't keep the person of the opposite sex satisfied. You are miserable so you hope everyone else is...

not at all
i'm pretty sure he's stepping out, i mean you already have experience with men looking elsewhere to get their fix

 

[AtomicUse]

I don't know any man in the 21st century doing ANY of those things himself. Most people, regardless of gender, are at instant oil change places.

You are talking about skills that men in the older generation (like my dad) has.

LMAO!

What grown man is taking his car to an oil change place? He doesn't own a jack, jack-stand, pan, and socket wrench? I haven't had another man change oil in my cars since I started driving at 16.

No other man has cut the grass, shoveled the snow, killed bugs, fixed sinks/drywall/electrical issues at any house of mine since I or my brothers were old enough to do those things.

I'm not laughing at you, I'm laughing at what you said because its tragic to hear. Are you saying you don't know ANY man (your age) that is doing these things for himself?

I do not believe that, because I do all those things and Im not superman. I consider myself Extra-Regular.