The Nightly Show Panel - Black Women And Dating

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Bring less to the table than your women but expect to be treated like the head of the household solely because you're black, brehs.

Imagine how a frumpy looking black women would be received if she said that she doesn't cook, clean, or handle any kind of housework but thought she deserved a loyal, respectful, and handsome provider of a black man because she was a black women with a decent jobs. She's be laughed off this board.

how are you bringing less?

my mom made double than my dad did, but the bills were stil split evenly
 

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Dude, I make good money. Ask @Yup because she knows. Most educated and successful black women I deal with have no problems doing domestic duties when dealing with me.

But you're asking blacl women to sacrifice and to handle being the primary bread winner and the house maker while allowing her less financially secure husband the privileges of the HOH...and wondering why women are complaining about that?

"I bring more money to the house but in still expected to cook, clean, and handle all the household duties?"

But go look for those attractive black women who are dying to date an average looking nerdy dude that makes less than them and expects them to also be to handle all the domestic duties. I'm sure you'll find them.
We all have our biological differences. I will do what she can't do at home since I'm a man like carpentry and plumbing and such so she does certain domestic things at the house as a trade off.

What we make is a combined income so we won't be stressing who makes more than who. I am looking for a teammate not competition and I'm financially stable

My father and mother operated this way and are still married after 30 years.

So yea I will follow their example since it works :umad:

I won't be emasculated by the racist white man using some c00ns as a proxy so I will avoid those type of women at all costs while looking for the right one.
 
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this is why black women continue to remain single, a man even making 30k a year 5 years from now will not be making 30k, same as in ten

base everything on $$ brehettes

the barren fingers, empty beds and cobweb wombs brigade

I wouldn't marry a fat chick just because I was single on the off chance that she might get skinny later.

Why should brehettes get with a dude making 30,000 just because he might get money later. That broke nikka better look for other broke females.
 

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this is why black women continue to remain single, a man even making 30k a year 5 years from now will not be making 30k, same as in ten

base everything on $$ brehettes

the barren fingers, empty beds and cobweb wombs brigade

Let's say this man is 38 and works in the mail room and the woman is 32 and working as a manager. Would you say:

A) She should nail him down because this man could be a manager some day too
B) She should keep looking for a black man on her level
C) She should try looking for a man outside of her race on her level
D) She should just remain single

:sas1:
 

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What do you propose to black women who complain about datinh?
Start with looking in the mirror and do an honest assessment. People don't do enough introspection because it's way too easy to find someone that will tell them what they want to hear.
 

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I wouldn't marry a fat chick just because I was single on the off chance that she might get skinny later.

Why should brehettes get with a dude making 30,000 just because he might get money later. That broke nikka better look for other broke females.

the avg black male makes 32k
only 30% of all black households make over 50k
 

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Let's say this man is 38 and works in the mail room and the woman is 32 and working as a manager. Would you say:

A) She should nail him down because this man could be a manager some day too
B) She should keep looking for a black man on her level
C) She should try looking for a man outside of her race on her level
D) She should just remain single

:sas1:

in all honesty if black women want to dig their own graves then go right ahead
at my old job there was a black dude working in the mail room prob making like 16 a hour, he was married to a black woman and they had 3 kids. Dude works hard and is faithful and loves his family.

to you barren fingers, empty beds brigade that may be scust, but who is winning and who is losing?
 

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this is why black women continue to remain single, a man even making 30k a year 5 years from now will not be making 30k, same as in ten

base everything on $$ brehettes

the barren fingers, empty beds and cobweb wombs brigade
Yeah it's pretty sad. Then get mad when black men date out of race. It's insanity.
 

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The average black male makes more than the average black female, and most people of any race do not hold a college degree.

The whole debate is a farce. The reason a large majority of black women have trouble finding husbands has NOTHING to do with money or education, because statistically the average one has neither of the two.
 

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Yeah it's pretty sad. Then get mad when black men date out of race. It's insanity.

im not even saying this to bash bw or anything, but i've dated a white lawyer, accountant and model who all made 6 figures plus sometimes double/triple than me.

I "wasn't on their level" monetary speaking, but I was still the man.
 

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how are you bringing less?

my mom made double than my dad did, but the bills were stil split evenly

You're contributing less to the total economic worth of your household. If we're splitting all the bills evenly and I'm dropping 40,000 into our savings and you're dropping in 10,000...who is contributing more to our overall wealth?

We all have our biological differences. I will do what she can't do at home since I'm a man so she does certain things at the house as a trade off.

What we make is a combined income so we won't be stressing who makes more than who. I am looking for a teammate not competition.

My father and mother operated this way and are still married after 30 years.

So yea I will follow their example since it works :umad:

I won't be emasculated by the racist white man using some female c00ns as a proxy so I will avoid those type of women at all costs while looking for the right one.

So you're saying you gonna bring less to the table than your woman but expect to get treated like the head of the household because that's what your broke ass daddy did?

You offer some plumbing and yardwork as a way to compensate for up to 10 to 20 thousand dollars a year difference?

Lmao good one, go find you that chick who has no problem making more money and doing more around the house than you while you sacrifice nothing but offer the handy ability to mow a yard, you bum.

If black women are gonna be expected to be Suzy homemaker for dudes they make more than, they might as well be Suzy homemakers for the broke ass nikkas who they're attracted to and not average looking lame dudes.
 

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im not even saying this to bash bw or anything, but i've dated a white lawyer, accountant and model who all made 6 figures plus sometimes double/triple than me.

I "wasn't on their level" monetary speaking, but I was still the man.
I think people get bashing confused with truth sometimes. I'm just stating the facts. Why are they the only women complaining? This isn't the 1940's anymore, there are a lot of cases where women make more money than men and not just in black race. So that whole he has to be on my level is out the door IMO. Providing the fact guy is good guy. A women may have to either get a guy that maybe not on their level or be single. :yeshrug: Men have been doing it for years before women got in the job scene.
 

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Some black women acting like black women out earn black men.

Average black male makes $667 a week, average black woman makes $602 a week.

:skip:

I was under the impression that this conversation was typically dealing with the problems that more financially successful black women have with dating black men.

Middle class to lower middle class black people (And everything lower) have no problem finding black partners. Most black people marry other black people.
 

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You're contributing less to the total economic worth of your household. If we're splitting all the bills evenly and I'm dropping 40,000 into our savings and you're dropping in 10,000...who is contributing more to our overall wealth?



So you're saying you gonna bring less to the table than your woman but expect to get treated like the head of the household because that's what your broke ass daddy did?

You offer some plumbing and yardwork as a way to compensate for up to 10 to 20 thousand dollars a year difference?

Lmao good one, go find you that chick who has no problem making more money and doing more around the house than you while you sacrifice nothing but offer the handy ability to mow a yard, you bum.

If black women are gonna be expected to be Suzy homemaker for dudes they make more than, they might as well be Suzy homemakers for the broke ass nikkas who they're attracted to and not average looking lame dudes.

First off my "broke daddy" never had a credit card, my broke daddy has over 200k in savings in the bank account, my broke daddy retired early and lives in jamaica 6 months of the year, my broke daddy has never been in debt

The whole purpose of marriage is a union of love and building together for the future. My sister stays at home while my brother in law works, do you think he thinks damn im making 125k a year, the only one contributing to savings, the future?

only undeveloped minds think that way.

Keep it up black women as you get married to yourself
 
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