The Nightly Show Panel - Black Women And Dating

[Draje]

Exactly why you on the c00n list.........

I'm a c00n because you're being a dumbass?

If unsuccessful nikkas want successful black women to consider them, they either gotta ease up on their "wants" (She's sexy and in shape, she cooks, cleans, etc) and be willing to help out around the house like the less successful is supposed to do.

Stop expecting head of household privileges when you not making head of household money. Head of household privileges dictate that your partner will handle more domestic duties because you're doing more providing.

Better pick up a broom and some oven mitts, you broke fakkit.

Expecting black women to lower they standards in men but you nikkas want a virgin freak who cooks, cleans, and sucks your dikk like a vacuum, on demand that has no problem with you contributing your McDonalds's paycheck to the finances and bring your musty ass home to watch the game.

 

[Medicate]

But this is an increasing reality and for bw een more so.

Then why would a BW take on a MAN that is not working at all.....that falls on you.....The point is that many BM are educated and have jobs/careers, but because it may be less than in relation to the woman, he must also be LESS THAN as a MAN....this is

 

[boyboy]

BM being less represented in the top fields is a reality amd their stats to back that up. Then you add attractiveness/etc...

I'm not understanding. BW are less represented as well. Nothing new. Everyone has known this like..... forever, what's your point?

As I keep saying Black people have been oppressed since they have been here, not surprising that they are behind white people.

So if we simply basing it on who have the most money then that mean BW aren't fit to date either and BM should all be trying to get with WW. Obviously I disagree with that.

 

[Kane]

High quality black women have no problem finding high quality black men.

 

[Yup]

Noticed how you just glossed over the post. Men, will go after what they want....duh. So will women.

The problem here is that the discussion from BW is dishonest. If some BW came out and said you know BM just don't find me attractive so I'm going to date WM I would respect that a lot more than some made up BS about all BM being broke. Because in about 5 posts I just prove that wasn't the case and you had nothing to counter with.

You dIdnt prove anything and the stats show that bw unemplyment remain unchanged from a year ago 10.6% while black men decreased from 13.4% to 10.8%.

The point is there are still unemployed bm than bw and even more so last year. This is not just about attractiveness, the numbers play a big part in this discussion.

 

[Yup]

I'm not understanding. BW are less represented as well. Nothing new. Everyone has known this like..... forever, what's your point?

As I keep saying Black people have been oppressed since they have been here, not surprising that they are behind white people.

So if we simply basing it on who have the most money then that mean BW aren't fit to date either and BM should all be trying to get with WW. Obviously I disagree with that.

I am not comparing to whites though. I am comparing how the disparity in the genders affect black relationsHips.

 

[Yup]

High quality black women have no problem finding high quality black men.

High quality is subjective to the individual. I am talking about the average bw/collective

 

[Yup]

I'm not understanding. BW are less represented as well. Nothing new. Everyone has known this like..... forever, what's your point?

As I keep saying Black people have been oppressed since they have been here, not surprising that they are behind white people.

So if we simply basing it on who have the most money then that mean BW aren't fit to date either and BM should all be trying to get with WW. Obviously I disagree with that.

Men don't chase women for money no? They chase women for looks.

 

[Blackout]

And this is where I agree with you. Bw need to just do it and stop talking about it publically.

Your mind is warped.

Instead of assessing yourself and your superficial judgement and interest in emasculation in men you want to place the blame on black men and jump ship.

 

[Yup]

Then why would a BW take on a MAN that is not working at all.....that falls on you.....The point is that many BM are educated and have jobs/careers, but because it may be less than in relation to the woman, he must also be LESS THAN as a MAN....thi is

Now yoy are changing your posts @Medicate essentially both gendees need to accomodate one another for the reality they both face if things are to.improve.

 

[Draje]

So basically you want black men and black women to change roles because black women make more than their partner?

Your too focused on money miss.

Sounds like emasculation of black men as well.

You expecting black women to play Suzie homemaker while ALSO providing for the family financially and to be COOL with that?

nikkas want the benefits of a traditional woman without the hardship of being the primary provider

Money aside they still gain everything else that a relationship brings.

So you'd date and marry a female that didn't cook, clean, keep herself up physically, or do housekeeoing duties but still expected to provide her and used the stupid excuse "Besides being a homemaker and nurturer, I give you all the other nenefits a relationship brings!"

Without a man, you are useless in life. You need a man to create your family and future. Without that a woman is a walking whore.....You're simply looking for a man you can match looks, bank accounts and paper degrees with.....

And you need a woman to have that life created. You don't get to pass on your seed if the women you fukked decides she don't want your seed.

If a women is useless without a man, she should strive for the best man she could get.

That's why the two mates WORK TOGETHER, it Means SHARED BONDING and SHARED PROGRESSION....we seem to have adopted cacs greed and selfish mentality. It doesn't matter HOW MUCH each mate has....get that out of your head....it matters HOW MUCH each MATE is willing to put in to the partnership to love and care for each other and make the family unit work.

We come from a culture in the motherland where we believed in BUILDING WITH EACH OTHER......not these "levels" which creates the same arrogance and superior thinking that this devil has.

I agree with this actually as long as you're saying that working together means that each partner is giving an equal amount to the relationship. If the black women is the breadwinner, the black mean needs to swallow his pride and put in work around the house when it comes to cooking, cleaning, and nurturing the family unit.

If the man is earning more, the women should be willing to do the same. But a man shouldn't be bringing less financially and doing less At the house simply because "a women is supposed to do housework".

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

many bus drivers make 60-100k a year

same with many cleaning men

a lot black women with degrees would never fukk with a black man that's a plumber, sanitation worker, or bus driver because it's not a good title

meanwhile he probably makes more than she does without the degree and ridiculous debt

 

[Yup]

Your mind is warped.

Instead of assessing yourself and your superficial judgement in men you want to place the blame on black men and jump ship.

Instead of assessing your unrealidtic demands of bw yiu'd ratehr berate them for the choices they choose to make due to what they are confronted to. BM have been selfish for a long time and I think some black women are tired of it.

 

[Medicate]

Now yoy are changing your posts @Medicate essentially both gendees need to accomodate one another for the reality they both face if things are to.improve.

Nothing changed about my posts.... .....What you're saying is what i've said in regards to "sharing" in all my posts....

 

[_Anghellic_]

i don't see how asians or non-white latinas are representative of white beauty. lucy lui or christina milian look nothing close to pamela anderson imo.

are u saying that white men will only date non-white women who look more European? therefore, lighter skinned black women are more likely to date white men than darker skinned black women?

Bottom line miss Exnat is that whites are not checking for sistas. If they're going to step out Asian/Hispanic is going to be their preferred choice.