The Nightly Show Panel - Black Women And Dating

[BlackManLiveFromLondon]

Honestly, I have never seen a group of BW where at least one person has not acknowledge the struggles that BM face but I see time and time again BM dismiss the struggles of BW as unimportant or non-existent. Personally, I understand that BM have it bad but I do not agree how some try to use it to excuse every negative behaviour they exhibit.

I understand but women who are constantly told that they don't measure to white/Hispanic/Asian women are not going to sit around to be berated constantly for the sake of black unity especially if the men are not equally as committed to it.

Frankly, BW have more been committed to 'black love' than black men have been and due to this they are being ridiculed for it whenever, they try to enforce it. BW should not guilt their own race men t date them...if some feel they have to do that than it is a big problem.

It's not just about the numbers, it's about the attitude. BW value black love more than BM on average. A BM willnot wait around for a BW to marry if he finds a suitable mate in other races and nor that he feels hes obligated to. BW are made to feel they are traitors and call names for it and very little BW venture out anyway.

And while BM are wading through their molded perceptions there are bw women who want to get married/have relationships. BM know what the deal is with this society just as much as BW do; the reality some care, others do not and some call it preference. I say BW give their attentions to those who are showing them interest and in doing so including men of other races in that pool will not hurt them. Nobody is talking about chasing white men!

lol! Nah it's sunny all year round. I bet I'll see it more from BM than BW

quoting a statistic without giving context means nothing. An individual's dating patterns will be affected by their immediate environment/culture/age/looks/etc...

@7Revo why are you even entertaining a bedwench

When have you ever seen a white woman panel live on TV with white women criticizing white men?
When have you seen a panel for asian women live on TV with asian women criticizing white men?

Theres a reason shes deep in the red, finding a quality post from her is like finding an 100 dollar bill in Midtown Manhattan

You will never see white women promote the idea of dating out, they'll do it but they'll never advertise it
Likewise with asian women...
So why is it just a feature some black women have? Why do they feel the need to promote interracial dating?

 

[Yup]

Finally we are making progress here. First of let me address the black employment question. Just like everything else that's effecting black people, things are pretty similar for both sides. Here is an article about that....titles "american black women face grim unemployment statistics" which tell you all you need to know.

http://www.ibtimes.com/american-black-women-face-grim-unemployment-statistics-1680172

Unlike you I'm not out here criticizing these women because I understand why they are having such a hard time. Just like black men they are facing institutional racism. It's not that they are unqualified to work. But instead of getting to the real issue people like you are stuck on BS.

Now as far as looks. I was just about to bring this up again. First let me say BW make it seem like the average BW is making 80K and can't find a man. Obviously that's false. Most BW like their male counterpart is stuck in some impoverished area slaving away for chump change. Again, as black people we should be focused on the WHY this is(we know why), but most importantly what we can do about it instead of looking down on each other.

Now for that SMALL percentage of BW who actually do make 80k and above there is a small percentage of BM who also make 80K and above. So if those women aren't getting chosen by those men then that mean they simply aren't getting chosen. But there is an equal number of BM out there making as much as BW. Probably the reason they aren't getting chose is they are the most attractive, just being honest.

Surely you aren't suggesting these 80k BM date women they don't find the most attractive because when I suggested BW be realistic about things such as looks you flew off the handle.

I didn't fly off the handle and you confirm my point. Men will go after what they want but tell women what they should accept.

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

@Yup

I see your ultimate plan was to earn a high salary to attract a white man

Then you will quit your job to live off hhim

Thereby making him the workhorse

You ain't slick that's why you so worried about if the man makes more than you

You want to quit working and be a freeloader

I see you boo lol

For these women it's never been about finding a good mate. It's more about finding an instant jackpot. Then when reality hits and they can't find the jackpot, they complain about a lack of good men. I think it's best to avoid these type of women.

 

[Yup]

@7Revo why are you even entertaining a bedwench

When have you ever seen a white woman panel live on TV with white women criticizing white men?
When have you seen a panel for asian women live on TV with asian women criticizing white men?

Theres a reason shes deep in the red, finding a quality post from her is like finding an 100 dollar bill in Midtown Manhattan

You will never see white women promote the idea of dating out, they'll do it but they'll never advertise it
Likewise with asian women...
So why is it just a feature some black women have? Why do they feel the need to promote interracial dating?

And this is where I agree with you. Bw need to just do it and stop talking about it publically.

 

[Taadow]

I've been reading your posts and I'm sorry to say you seem to be out of touch with reality. You keep pointing to white women as 100% of them are married to handsome, six figure white guys. They are not. Alot of them are single and baby mommas just like black women. Admittedly not nearly as many but there are valid reasons for that. Some BW can control and others they can't.

Of the WW that are married to successful WM, many of those guys are unattractive. Yet many BW want the perfect BM, handsome, successful, swagger, etc. If a WW living in a country built for WHITE people can accept a man that is "flawed" in some way why can't a BW living in a country that wasn't built for BW?

So since BW seem to be SO damn jealous of how much dikk WW are getting why don't BW start being like WW and forget about looks, swag, what type of shoes a nikka is wearing or what type of car he is driving.

Also there just like there are many WW with unattractive WM, there are many WW married to WM who make no more than 40K per year. That's a fact, not an opinion. And we know 95% of white dudes don't have swag so WW aren't getting a man with swag either.

And lastly but certainly not least anybody that's comparing BM and WM financially without talking about oppressing and the legacy of slavery is being dishonest. That's not to say that a BM can't be successful. There are a lot of BM such as myself pulling in the big checks each week but we are in the minority so let's not pretend otherwise. And I just said oppressing and the legacy of slavery is a big reason for that, not the only one but a big reason.

So if BW want to do something to improve their odds of landing a black man that's balling how about standing up and fighting institutional racism instead of enabling it.

I swear some of you BW act like y'all don't have no damn sense.

The red part is the only part of this post that I question, because I conject just by the numbers game there are probably more
"single and baby mommas" that are white women than black. But anyway...

...the rest of this is on point.

The deck is stacked against the Black male real early. On this panel, Dr. Greer was the only one who brought this up
(with other salient points).





...also while we're at it, notice how Dr. Greer was the only lady on the panel who:
- was married
- spoke the most softly
- talked the least

do what you will with that info.

 

[boyboy]

I didn't fly off the handle and you confirm my point. Men will go after what they want but tell women what they should accept.

Noticed how you just glossed over the post. Men, will go after what they want....duh. So will women.

The problem here is that the discussion from BW is dishonest. If some BW came out and said you know BM just don't find me attractive so I'm going to date WM I would respect that a lot more than some made up BS about all BM being broke. Because in about 5 posts I just prove that wasn't the case and you had nothing to counter with.

 

[Yup]

For these women it's never been about finding a good mate. It's more about finding an instant jackpot. Then when reality hits and they can't find the jackpot, they complain about a lack of good men. I think it's best to avoid these type of women.

Because I said bw want to find men in their professional circles that's akin to hitting the jackpot? Getting a jackpt would be having a billionaire/millionaire for a huband and you be a socialite/housewife.

 

[Yup]

The red part is the only part of this post that I question, because I conject just by the numbers game there are probably more
"single and baby mommas" that are white women than black. But anyway...

...the rest of this is on point.

The deck is stacked against the Black male real early. On this panel, Dr. Greer was the only one who brought this up
(with other salient points).





...also while we're at it, notice how Dr. Greer was the only lady on the panel who:
- was married
- spoke the most softly
- talked the least

do what you will with that info.

None of these things bw have not heard before. BM have it bad in society, but at the same time their foucs on themeselves unables them to see how bw are affected too and how they suffer for it.

 

[_Anghellic_]

Why y'all wasting your time with ****?

 

[Medicate]

Of course looking at how a man treats you and family background is.important, I have never said otherwise. All I keep saying is that income also must factor in the equation. If for example, I am unable to work or I am on maternity leave. Changes happen in a relationship, that can make household operate on a single income.

according to the coli money doesn't matter at all.

Ok so then the type of LIFESTYLE you're trying to live comes into equation and why savings, investments and just being smart financial wise would come into play. You're making excuses to counter your arguments that have been invalidated. Changes happen all the time in relationships financially, but two people who Love each other and want to make sure their family survive will make sure it does. A REAL man would never let his family starve.

There should never be any household nowadays where a man isn't working whatsoever and bringing in income.

 

[freetroit]

@Yup

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[Yup]

@7Revo why are you even entertaining a bedwench

When have you ever seen a white woman panel live on TV with white women criticizing white men?
When have you seen a panel for asian women live on TV with asian women criticizing white men?

Theres a reason shes deep in the red, finding a quality post from her is like finding an 100 dollar bill in Midtown Manhattan

You will never see white women promote the idea of dating out, they'll do it but they'll never advertise it
Likewise with asian women...
So why is it just a feature some black women have? Why do they feel the need to promote interracial dating?

You see how you compare bw to ww? Do white women share the same circumstances that bw do?

But I as a bw cannot compare bm to wm but I can be compared to every race of women that's out there.

 

[Medicate]

@Yup

I see your ultimate plan was to earn a high salary to attract a white man

Then you will quit your job to live off hhim

Thereby making him the workhorse

You ain't slick that's why you so worried about if the man makes more than you

You want to quit working and be a freeloader

I see you boo lol

 

[Yup]

Ok so then the type of LIFESTYLE you're trying to live comes into equation and why savings, investments and just being smart financial wise would come into play. You're making excuses to counter your arguments that have been invalidated. Changes happen all the time in relationships financially, but two people who Love each other and want to make sure their family survive will make sure it does. A REAL man would never let his family starve.

There should never be any household nowadays where a man isn't working whatsoever and bringing in income.

But this is an increasing reality and for bw een more so.

 

[Yup]

Noticed how you just glossed over the post. Men, will go after what they want....duh. So will women.

The problem here is that the discussion from BW is dishonest. If some BW came out and said you know BM just don't find me attractive so I'm going to date WM I would respect that a lot more than some made up BS about all BM being broke. Because in about 5 posts I just prove that wasn't the case and you had nothing to counter with.

BM being less represented in the top fields is a reality amd their stats to back that up. Then you add attractiveness/etc...