Can y'all elaborate on this more? I struggle bad with cold approaching. I'm guessing you go out running errands and if you see a bad broad you approach? Messing with broads I work with is way more my comfort zone.
I think I need to change my mentality to where I'm better than these hoes.
Let me help you out.
First thing you need to understand is that there is nothing you can say that will make a broad sexually attracted to you. If any dude on the Coli tells you it's possible, ask them for examples.
I used to be afraid of approaching women too until I learned this fact.
Once I learned that women make their decision the moment you open your mouth or even BEFORE that, I lost all anxiety.
I became so much more confident and less scared to approach because I knew they usually already made up their mind.
THE ONLY THING YOU HAVE TO DO IS NOT BE NEEDY
This means do not show any signs of desperation--make sure your actions do not give off the impression that you don't get women. Essentially just act normal. You don't need to have a silver tongue. If she wants you, she'll help the conversation flow. Even if the conversation doesn't flow, just get through the basics and get the number.
If you accept that she has already made up her mind, you will become less self-conscious.