The fact remains, women have no good reason to wear weaves.

[ebonykiss]

exactly breh, she comparing nation building to weaves

Whats funny is the amount of time ya'll want to spend on something that is already being addressed by the women themselves, instead of nation building which is a far bigger concern, weaves is an issue not it's not as detrimental as your poor leadership skills

 

[Pursuit & Seduction]

What do you mean who cares enough? The men commenting about it with such passion. One would think they would care enough not to get involved with women who represent what they vehemently dislike. The number of insults towards weave wearers is indication of their level of hatred so why even fukk a girl that has a weave?

And you're being extreme with your other comment.

Reverse-psychology.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

But But but what about Global Warming

Monstanto!

Vaccines!

Chemtrails!

FEMA CAMPS!

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

Whats funny is the amount of time ya'll want to spend on something that is already being addressed by the women themselves, instead of nation building which is a far bigger concern, weaves is an issue not it's not as detrimental as your poor leadership skills

oh ok.

We'll ignore the fact that you hate how you look each day in the mirror.

Like I said in the original post, we can agree to disagree that you embody weakness.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Yea we all are mixed but some traits are attributed to a race.

That's because white people told you that. In realty brown skin people from all over the world have wildly varying traits. White people decided what the image of a black/African person is. And y'all dudes don't know that you are trying to hold women to the other standards they made up.

Blond hair, straight hair and such is attributed to the white race because its thanks to mixing that occurs.

Black/African women have been dying their hair for ages.

The issue occurs when that traits is put down by others and disowned by the person affected by that trait.

If my 7 year old daughter was to hear some of the nonsense you dudes spew, she's think she was "unnatural"

You are contributing to the negative body images and self esteem of our women, you are not helping them.

You bring up men who hate women with natural hair and say to go at them and dont go at the women who hate their own naural hair.

I say go at both.

Thats the difference between me and you.

I didn't bring up anyone or say to go at anyone. Thats where yall falter, you feel you need to "go at" somebody or call them out. You can influnece real change without eoing either. There is a better way to go about influencing change then hateful language an misguided standards.

 

[LA Fisher]

So far as i can tell from this thread black women dont care if we like weaves or not. Shouldn't how we feel be of any concern? Dont yall want to be attractive to us? Why do you like weave? I still havent heard a straight answer, online or in real life. "Because you like it" is not a valid answer, because its only repeating the question "why do you like it".

The hallmark of a brainwashed person is someone who does something unquestioningly without knowing why. I feel like black women have been brainwashed from birth to not love their natural hair. From baby dolls to tv shows there are no positive images of natural black hair. I'm sure if all the successful black men we saw in the media looked like this

black men would be wearing hair hats too, and black women would be saying the same thing we are, take that stupid shyt off and be natural.

It's because they could care less if we're attracted to them or not. You can tell them that you don't like weave and they'll say they don't care. If you turn around and get with a white woman with straight cac hair then you're a self hater. Lowkey, a lot of them hate us. Why do you think there are a bunch of threads on here praising the beauty of black women but no female threads praising black men. Ask yourself, have you ever heard a black woman refer to a black man as a king?

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

Why aren't ya'll talking about the debt ceiling?

 

[ebonykiss]

oh ok.

We'll ignore the fact that you hate how you look each day in the mirror.
Like I said in the original post, we can agree to disagree that you embody weakness.

I don't hate black hair or how I look, but if black men were serious they would focus on nation building and create institutions to combat white supremacy all these symptoms of that will work themselves out. But I get it , its a lot easier to attack black women the victims of white supremacy, instead of the white man and his institutitions... especially if you depend on them so heavily

 

[MeachTheMonster]

It's all in the brush

If you have 360s with just some water/grease/oil and a wavebrush then you have plenty of "non black" in your bloodline

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

What type of flawed ass logic is this?

Weave is a signal of WEAKNESS.

Not of whether or not I can stick my member in you.

And why are you making it sound like this isn't a big deal? We're talking about it, ain't it?
Whats up with ya'll trying to redirect the topic of convo and trivializing mere discussion? Are you all trying to hide something?

If I don't like men that look a certain way, Im sure as hell not going to fukk them and give them the false belief that I'm ok and accepting of the way they look when in reality I strongly hate it.

 

[Busted_Toes]

Whats funny is the amount of time ya'll want to spend on something that is already being addressed by the women themselves, instead of nation building which is a far bigger concern, weaves is an issue not it's not as detrimental as your poor leadership skills

here we go, "well well what are you doing?.. huh" I'm not posting resume or projects online for your approval. Go outside, find a bush and throw yourself in it.

 

[Uncle Kingpin]

. Ask yourself, have you ever heard a black woman refer to a black man as a king?

Everytime i hit it. They cant scream my name without the "king"

 

[MeachTheMonster]

false.

You can't fake "waves"

You either got them or you dont.

its simply curly hair.

All black people have curly hair. In order to get waves you need soft/loose curls.

Black men who do not have loose curls, use relaxers in order to loosen them.

 

[ebonykiss]

here we go, "well well what are you doing?.. huh" I'm not posting resume or projects online for your approval. Go outside, find a bush and throw yourself in it.

I don't hate black hair or how I look, but if black men were serious they would focus on nation building and create institutions to combat white supremacy all these symptoms of that will work themselves out. But I get it , its a lot easier to attack black women the victims of white supremacy, instead of the white man and his institutitions... especially if you depend on them so heavily

 

[Busted_Toes]

I don't hate black hair or how I look, but if black men were serious they would focus on nation building and create institutions to combat white supremacy all these symptoms of that will work themselves out. But I get it , its a lot easier to attack black women the victims of white supremacy, instead of the white man and his institutitions... especially if you depend on them so heavily

Nation building isn't microwaving food. You act like black men havent attempted to do this at all.