The fact remains, women have no good reason to wear weaves.

[PartyHeart]

First of all

BIG difference, sweetheart. We never relaxed,

Second of all,

applied, or installed waves into our head like ya'll do weaves. BIG difference, sweetheart. No other race can achieve waves like us. That's OUR style. So your comparison failed.

This is why I say men shouldn't get in the hair debate. Y'all have no idea about hair at all because as I said y'all just shave yours off or brush it constantly to look less Black/mixed. Ask a white/asian/latina woman if she can use her straight her and "install" the styles Black women can when they straighten theirs. Other races of women's hair will not hold. They cannot "achieve" those styles anymore than any other race of men can "achieve waves". So explain to me how Black men's behavior is somehow not self hate and Black women's is?

 

[Spoonz]

We don't ADD to something we don't have...

Keep reaching.

if they love black hair so much then why don't the majority grow it out? They shave it off because white people tell them it looks unkept.

 

[Pursuit & Seduction]

Shaming-tactics 101

 

[Blackout]

That was the 70s. And many Black folks were still rocking chemicals in the 80s.

Like I said, you are making it so that the vast majority of self hating behavior is going to be Black women by default because it is only women who do things like dye their hair. Its ridiculous. Self hate is you altering the natural curl pattern in your hair to something that its not. Black men do that ALL the time. It is not a minority of Black men who do this, yet y'all act like y'all are exempt and not perpetrators of the same stuff you gleefully try to shyt on Black women for.


So if I could straighten my hair right now without any grease or chemicals, it would not be a reflection of some form of self hate?? If I did that consistently it'd be all good just because I didn't use weave and chemicals??

Stop pretending. It is about altering the uniquely African curl pattern (or getting rid of it entirely). It doesn't matter in what way it is done.

I never said that black males hating their natural hair and putting grease in their hair to hide it is a good thing so cut the crap.

 

[Busted_Toes]

Yep, i was waiting for the number 1 shaming tactic "Your gay". Typical, so typical.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

Ya'll love to call nikkas gay instead of addressing the fact you HATE your genetically gifted hair.

We see right through you.

 

[Ice Water]

How does a thread about weave hit 22 pages on a male dominated website?

Cause the revolution has begun. Death to the c00nskin cap.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

White people told me that? Dude this is 2013 not back in the days where we thought columbus discovered america.

We all have varying traits but straight hair and blond hair is a mixed and white trait not a black one.

Dislike of natural hair is the issue. There are even women who look down on other women who choose to show their natural hair. Natural hair among black women is under oppression and your delusional ass cant even see it.

Your daughter was born with straight hair naturally. We are reffering to females born with black hair.

Misguided standards? If promoting self acceptance is a bad thing then your delusional.

White people told you what "black" people look like. The traits that you attribute to "black" people are the traits that they attributed to black people.

You keep trying to distance what you think are "black" and "mixed" trates, when in reality, they told you what those traits should be in the first place. So by trying to reject what you say is "white women beauty" you are holding black women to standards that are still not their own.

SOME black women do dislike "natural" hair. SOME black men do as well.

But just because a woman wears weave/relaxers it doesn't mean she is a part of that group.

Black women (and men)in general are under oppression, you adding to that oppression with hateful rhetoric does not help the cause.

My daughter has "black" hair just as much as anyone else. She is black.

You have not promoted self acceptance, you have promoted what you deem as attractive. And what you deem as "natural"

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

if they love black hair so much then why don't the majority grow it out? They shave it off because white people tell them it looks unkept.

OR because they work in a place that says NO ONE can have facial hair. These standards don't just exist for black men in corporate america.

I work in a profession where I'm valued for my WORK and my INTELLECT...not appearance. They need me more than I need them.

So yeah. I've got a beard.

 

[Busted_Toes]

if they love black hair so much then why don't the majority grow it out? They shave it off because white people tell them it looks unkept.

You are absolutely retarded. So according to you black men cut their hair due to white people.

 

[Blackout]

Would you rather if we simped you and tell you every lie that you wanted to hear.

Hey look its another female that cant handle the truth.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

White people told you what "black" people look like. The traits that you attribute to "black" people are the traits that they attributed to black people.

You keep trying to distance what you think are "black" and "mixed" trates, when in reality, they told you what those traits should be in the first place. So by trying to reject what you say is "white women beauty" you are holding black women to standards that are still not their own.

SOME black women do dislike "natural" hair. SOME black men do as well.

But just because a woman wears weave/relaxers it doesn't mean she is a part of that group.

Black women (and men)in general are under oppression, you adding to that oppression with hateful rhetoric does not help the cause.

My daughter has "black" hair just as much as anyone else. She is black.

You have not promoted self acceptance, you have promoted what you deem as attractive. And what you deem as "natural"

If your daughter wants to get a weave, will you let her?

 

[Chris.B]

most black men shave their hair off, they're no better than weave wearers in my opinion.

Whose hair is these black men cutting off?

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

Would you rather if we simped you and tell you every lie that you wanted to hear.

Hey look its another female that cant handle the truth.

Yeah. They're running out of options so now the "gay" comments gotta come out

 

[Spoonz]

You are absolutely retarded. So according to you black men cut their hair due to white people.

the majority of black men are bald (at least in america). If they were so damn proud they'd at least grow a one inch fro