I'm sorry but when it comes to the Coli, I would suggest any Black women who doesn't want to be emotionally/mentally abused to do the exact OPPOSITE of everything y'all say y'all like on here so she can avoid attracting men who will assault her self esteem.
However because I know good men irl do appreciate Black women's natural beauty I do encourage all my sistas to get off the relaxers, etc. when they can. Its more about calling out the hypocrisy of the BW-hater brigade that likes to point out every self hate characteristic of BW while ignoring and even defending Black men's. I can't get over Black men thinking this is natural for Black women
and this is natural for Black men
I guess y'all think we come from different wombs