The epidemic of women marrying 'provider' men while cheating on the side with men they are really

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I actually disagree,once you are married or have kids with a woman you have to treat her as if you do own her. Maybe "own" is a bad word,but you have to treat her like she is your child. Would you not do your best to protect your child from bad influences?Would you not do your best to protect your child from potential molesters?If your child was acting weird,would you not invade your childs privacy to find out whats really going on? This is your investment now and it is your job to keep it together,and protect your woman from herself for her own protection,your protection,and the family as a whole. Men have gotten too afraid to seem "controlling" because we have been brainwashed to think its a sign of abuse. Or that you are a simp for "cuffing" your woman,keyword YOUR woman which is subjective,so please know who is your woman and who ain't. Being possesive is the healthy alternative, as opposed to letting your woman run wild and loose out here in a hellhound playing field.



Note-A man who is possessive can be a sign of abusiveness,but I think it would be easy to spot the difference based on his reasoning for being controlling.
It's not about what you think... It's about what she thinks. And for many women raised in this feminist Western society the results will be bad

Marriage can only work with submissive women. I guess every woman has the potential to be submissive so men have to find a woman that will or at the very least one that will follow their lead. Otherwise don't bother
 

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It's not about what you think... It's about what she thinks. And for many women raised in this feminist Western society the results will be bad

Marriage can only work with submissive women. I guess every woman has the potential to be submissive so men have to find a woman that will or at the very least one that will follow their lead. Otherwise don't bother

Bingo,the problem isn't that women aren't submissive,the problem is that feminized Western men are more submissive. Why?because the feminist won a long time ago but as women,they are too emotional to realize it. You ever been in a argument with a woman and she is emotional,and you stopped caring about the argument 20 minutes ago,but she's still going? That is feminism in todays times,they already won the fight because the modern man has BEEN broken,and doesn't care or have passion enough to stand his ground and protect his manhood. But instead of claiming victory they are still continuing the argument,why?because its a womans nature to want correction,women are waiting on men to stand up and counter and tell them to shut that bullshyt up,and this is how we are running things:henbron:. Women get more outrageous by the day begging for men to finally say "enough is enough".
 

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Not married, but only thing you can do is keep your eyes open. Dont purposely look away from funny stuff.

IMO I dont think a woman is truly submissive, they just playing the part. They dont always have to suck dikk to survive in the western world anymore, but it's an option, not a necessity. Seen ideal wives destroy marriages as well.

Theres more to it than putting in cheat codes to make her submissive, you have shyt like Post-Partum that has them contemplating everything involving existence.

This is where I sound like a feminist panderer, but they arent sex food servents brehs, this where yall get blindsided, you thought you put the cheat code in and she actually gamed you the whole time.

They like most people, act like Claudius's under the reign of Caligulas
 
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Man if somebody gonna cheat they gonna cheat...I been with my wife since I was 17, I never cheated and she hasn’t that I know of...in the event she ever does...

Imma probably cry like a lil bihh:mjlol:

And imma keep it pushing...life goes on...I’m not changing who I am just to keep someone that I’m not even sure wants to be there.

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Been with my man since we were 19, same shyt. I had a friend tell me we were "too intertwined." :rudy: If we broke up, I would be crushed... but I'd manage just fine. I don't have nikkas in the wings, I just keep a loose eye on the market. :ld:
 

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While this is 100% true, it also make a lot of women insecure.

I mean @Deacon Frye got cheated on. His ex wife had to know that women, were throwing themselves at ol boy every time he left the crib.

I'm not bad looking either, so I've dealt with insecure women who've said as much and probed for bs.


The fukked up thing is that women can be insecure af and be on yo dikk and still fukk behind your back, they have zero morals.
 

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Been with my man since we were 19, same shyt. I had a friend tell me we were "too intertwined." :rudy: If we broke up, I would be crushed... but I'd manage just fine. I don't have nikkas in the wings, I just keep a loose eye on the market. :ld:


I think all women take break ups better than men because they know another will be waiting right there for them.
 

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The fukked up thing is that women can be insecure af and be on yo dikk and still fukk behind your back, they have zero morals.
If we keeping it 100, a nikka will fukk around on his wife for no reason either. People can be grimy, petty and self centered at a moment's notice. Just gotta be hyperaware of when you're being feed bs.
 

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Bingo,the problem isn't that women aren't submissive,the problem is that feminized Western men are more submissive. Why?because the feminist won a long time ago but as women,they are too emotional to realize it. You ever been in a argument with a woman and she is emotional,and you stopped caring about the argument 20 minutes ago,but she's still going? That is feminism in todays times,they already won the fight because the modern man has BEEN broken,and doesn't care or have passion enough to stand his ground and protect his manhood. But instead of claiming victory they are still continuing the argument,why?because its a womans nature to want correction,women are waiting on men to stand up and counter and tell them to shut that bullshyt up,and this is how we are running things:henbron:. Women get more outrageous by the day begging for men to finally say "enough is enough".
meh...I agree with you to a degree and was even saying te bolded to a friend recently but its too far gone
women have been coddled and dont necessarily want correction anymore. they want the man to do what they want them to do.
the man no longer arguing to them is a sign he doesnt care and likely wont correct his behavior as they see fit

i'm the argumentative dude you speak of who doesnt back down. all it does is create more arguments or a woman to conclude you have different views and arent "compatible"
 

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Eve spoke and congregated with God himself and decided to betray him for personal pursuit. So is the nature of female, Lucifer showed you the blueprint for accessing the females mind

I have discovered through my research and through discernment that the "devil" is actually a female,or at should I say a representation of female energy. And Eve is just a human embodiment of what that is. God is a representation of masculine energy,and what happens when you allow the "devil"/feminine energy to run wild. Read the bible and see how the devil often plays with gods masculine ego,just like a woman would. See how the snake was able to convince Eve to feel oppressed by God(masculine energy) rather than protected,very similar to feminism. God basically through his woman out for being disobedient,and now she is out here running wild. God in this case is an example of what not to do,you can't just disown or throw your woman away. The world won't be right until feminine energy is contained,given proper guidance and uplifted. This is why I say the black woman is god or the key to becoming god,black men can't ascend and become whole without uplifting his womans mind out of the gutter first:respect:
 

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It's more than just being fit though.

Having hobbies, making great money, traveling, etc. If you happy with yourself as an individual then cheating won't matter in the grand scheme. You should always put yourself first and foremost

Yall say this ,but then what is the point of trying to obtain sex/relationships?
 

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meh...I agree with you to a degree and was even saying te bolded to a friend recently but its too far gone
women have been coddled and dont necessarily want correction anymore. they want the man to do what they want them to do.
the man no longer arguing to them is a sign he doesnt care and likely wont correct his behavior as they see fit

i'm the argumentative dude you speak of who doesnt back down. all it does is create more arguments or a woman to conclude you have different views and arent "compatible"

This all goes back to what we just talked about,those women just weren't YOUR women.The problem is all men aren't on the same page as you. There are certainly men out there who they would be submissive too and take correction from. We should always give correction to a woman when neccessary,while realizing we may not be the one meant to make her submit and not to waste too much of our time on. I'm a firm believer if you are that one,it shouldn't take long at all to see it taking shape and see her grow.
 
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I have discovered through my research and through discernment that the "devil" is actually a female,or at should I say a representation of female energy. And Eve is just a human embodiment of what that is. God is a representation of masculine energy,and what happens when you allow the "devil"/feminine energy to run wild. Read the bible and see how the devil often plays with gods masculine ego,just like a woman would. See how the snake was able to convince Eve to feel oppressed by God(masculine energy) rather than protected,very similar to feminism. God basically through his woman out for being disobedient,and now she is out here running wild. God in this case is an example of what not to do,you can't just disown or throw your woman away. The world won't be right until feminine energy is contained,given proper guidance and uplifted. This is why I say the black woman is god or the key to becoming god,black men can't ascend and become whole without uplifting his womans mind out of the gutter first

Both male and female were removed from their privileged existence, it wasn’t a gender specific punishment. Through the women, man fell but through the woman would man find salvation.

“And I will put enmity between thee and the woman, and between thy seed and her seed; it shall bruise thy head, and thou shalt bruise his heel.” Genesis 3:15

That seed would be the coming messiah, or more relevant soon to return
 
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