The epidemic of women marrying 'provider' men while cheating on the side with men they are really

[Surreal]

Women choose men for sex

Men choose women for relationships

Choose wisely

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Never hear this type of advice

How much you think one of those ejection seats cost?

Priceless

 

[seabreeze80]

A cheater will cheat regardless of any of the advice given in this thread.

 

[JLova]

Silly conversation. Most people settle in some way or another. It’s called making difficult life choices.

Women oftentimes settlemfor security.

Men do it as well. Most men have had a female in their life who was the baddest chick they ever knew in one way or another. Conversation interests sex looks etc, but she may have been somewhat of a ho or had some other huge red flag. Dudes then marry the responsible chick who may not necessarily be a 10.5/10 and can’t deepthroat a mfer while p*ssy popping on a handstand.

Preaching.

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

YEAH BUT MOST OF YA'LL OKAY WITH A SIDE BISH.

 

[JackRoss]

A surefire way to know that your wife is feeling another man at work and plans to have an extramarital affair is if she starts doing her hair and wearing clothes in ways she didn't before.

That shyt ain't to impress you, it's to impress some other man!

Some women are smart though and make sure not to change up anything so their man doesn't get suspicious.

She could be feeling another dude if she does change shyt up but she could also be feeling another dude if she doesn't change anything up?

 

[HarlemHottie]

bytches is trifling why you thank ain't none in here

You shoulda mentioned some, then.

Lastly, look at her past boyfriends who she was with in her prime or when she had no baggage. If they don't resemble or aren't similar to you in character then shes looking at the bigger picture for herself and settling for you.

I think this is key. I always dated the same type of dude, so when I got with my man, he was who I'd always wanted. I honestly never even thought about cheating, I will make this work. He feels the same bc I'm also his type.

 

[Thegospel]

This whole thread

 

[lightbearerchef]

You shoulda mentioned some, then.


I think this is key. I always dated the same type of dude, so when I got with my man, he was who I'd always wanted. I honestly never even thought about cheating, I will make this work. He feels the same bc I'm also his type.

I should've but I'm pretty sho yall seen tha thread love.

 

[HarlemHottie]

I should've but I'm pretty sho yall seen tha thread love.

I ain't really been on all day, just catching up. It's Sunday night, brehettes be busy.

 

[lightbearerchef]

I ain't really been on all day, just catching up. It's Sunday night, brehettes be busy.

I feel that, but tell me this, why would I mention you ina derogatory post when I actually got respect for you?

 

[HarlemHottie]

I feel that, but tell me this, why would I mention you ina derogatory post when I actually got respect for you?

Awww. Well thanks. I'ma let you cook then.

 

[lightbearerchef]

Awww. Well thanks. I'ma let you cook then.

Hey, you tha only hottieinharlem I see

 

[International Playa]

@ "epidemic"

It's always been this way, women have always married "providers" for resources/financial reasons

Women rarely marry that bad boy they had the best sex with, but he has access to her p*ssy at any given time

 

[FeverPitch2]

Myths I've seen in this thread

1. Stay in shape to keep your lady from cheating on you

The phrase "anybody can get it" should stay fresh on your mind
Everyone gets cheated on, breh
In shape and attractive people are no exception.
Um, trust me.
Don't believe me?
Halle Berry will spend tonight by herself, as will Sanaa Lathan
Gabby Union got dumped by Jason Kidd and is on her 2nd marriage and has to cover her eyes to avoid seeing Wade's 3rd son.
J-Lo claims Puff cheated on her constantly and is about to embark on her 3rd marriage
Prince, who was the Master of Hoes, died alone in his studio.
Dorothy Dandridge died alone as well
Coupling is about far more than looks, brehs

2. You should just give up. Never fall in love. Never get married. Never have kids.
Look. It's the same for brehs as it is for brehettes.
Choose better.
There's good women out there but you have to make the effort to go beyond the superficial and find one.
So many nikkas choose poorly, it's a shame.
Mostly because nikkas think with their dikks.
How many rock stars and actors have model or Playboy thot wives?
Vince Neil used to fukk with Tommy Lee by reminding him that he fukked Pamela Anderson first
Look at Soulja Boy simpin publicly over an IG thot
I'm surprised anyone would be seen with Erica Mena, yet she keeps a dude
And the Queen Thot, Amber Rose, could have most nikkas paychecks if she wanted them.

An even softer point on a man is his ego.
A chick who makes you feel good about yourself, 9 times out of 10, has you wrapped around her finger.
If he's a simp and she's allowing his simping with open arms? He's food.
Dont lose your head because a bad bytch is diggin you or letting you smash.
Keep your wits about you and you wont go out like Sam Rothstein
Unscrupulous people give you signs as to what they're really about
Don't be so blinded by feelings that you miss those signs.

Look. There's no way to insure that you won't get cheated on. But you can reduce the risk.