The epidemic of women marrying 'provider' men while cheating on the side with men they are really

[Hiphoplives4eva]

This is true spit. One thing a woman can never fake is if she got that genuine raw lust to wanna fukk you all the time. If she can go weeks not really caring if yall fukk or not, she not really down for you

She may have a low sex drive breh.

 

[Balla]

If we keeping it 100, a nikka will fukk around on his wife for no reason either. People can be grimy, petty and self centered at a moment's notice. Just gotta be hyperaware of when you're being feed bs.

True, but I always feel a woman would take it better than a man could.

It’s like a woman could kind of guess the man flirts or talks to other women somehow, but when a guy trusts a chick, he really trusts that chick, and his whole world is shattered when he finds out the truth.

A chick would get mad, but a dude would be out of it.

 

[Payroll]

 

[Bumblebreh]

I actually disagree,once you are married or have kids with a woman you have to treat her as if you do own her. Maybe "own" is a bad word,but you have to treat her like she is your child. Would you not do your best to protect your child from bad influences?Would you not do your best to protect your child from potential molesters?If your child was acting weird,would you not invade your childs privacy to find out whats really going on? This is your investment now and it is your job to keep it together,and protect your woman from herself for her own protection,your protection,and the family as a whole. Men have gotten too afraid to seem "controlling" because we have been brainwashed to think its a sign of abuse. Or that you are a simp for "cuffing" your woman,keyword YOUR woman which is subjective,so please know who is your woman and who ain't. Being possesive is the healthy alternative, as opposed to letting your woman run wild and loose out here in a hellhound playing field.



Note-A man who is possessive can be a sign of abusiveness,but I think it would be easy to spot the difference based on his reasoning for being controlling.

Dude once you marry and she has your kids.She is either your biggest asset or she can become a tax liability.Some men know that they are at the mercy of their women.

 

[Ziploc]

I feel that the men in those relationships are just as much to blame for the position they got themselves into butnever been married and not going to happen in this lifetime but before i got into my commited relationships the women knew that however far they want to take the fukkery,i would one up them early.Loyalty has to be tested every now and then and the dynamics of a relationship are no different to me.I tell my girl straight up that being here is a choice not a circumstance.If she decides to test that

 

[Benefited]

Both male and female were removed from their privileged existence, it wasn’t a gender specific punishment. Three the women, man fell but through the woman would man find salvation.

“And I will put enmity between thee and the woman, and between thy seed and her seed; it shall bruise thy head, and thou shalt bruise his heel.” Genesis 3:15

That seed would be the coming messiah, or more relevant soon to return

The seed is the spirit,isn't the spirit of woman always in conflict with the spirit of other women,as well as itself?Exactly as it describes in that text. There is no talking snake anyway,it is just an allegory in my humble opinion,almost sure there is no Jesus either,or if so "Jesus" isn't as important as what he was meant to represent. I say this humbly as a Christian so people can no I'm not trying to be offensive to others beliefs about Christianity,but we really need to drop the fact that we take the bible literal. Its a book based on phsycology and science.But this is a whole other topic.

 

[Benefited]

Dude once you marry and she has your kids.She is either your biggest asset or she can become a tax liability.Some men know that they are at the mercy of their women.

Men who know that deserve what they get and are responsible for their own demise. You either entered into a losing situation,or didn't do the work to make sure your woman remained righteous.

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

Don't use money to pull women, if you approaching females with your credentials, you are bound to take an L. As women get older they are looking for the provider because it's a struggle for them to do it alone and furthermore they are tired of getting played for their p*ssy. Women don't have as many options as it seems because most dudes just want what's between their legs lol. It gets women really upset that the guy that they want only sees value and what's between her legs.

 

[360dagod]

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My dude she loved a nikka when he was riding a rusty ass beach cruiser back in ‘05 and didn’t have no damn car


In college I had to bum rides from my homies to see her in grambling


She gave me them food stamps when I lost my work study job.

We used to have to ride the city bus together in Shreveport just to go out to eat.


Fast forward to now we both getting bread and making moves out here.


But even with life as it is, if she decides to leave me, I’ll have to accept it and I’ll appreciate that it was a good run... and keep it moving...I can’t let nobody make me lose my happiness...control is all on me

Congrats my nikka...you got a good one

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

There is nothing you can do

women are no different than us

they like something strange or something NEW as well

cause everyone gets tired of fukking the same person no matter how good it is

all you can hope for is that YOU are NOT the sole provider in the relationship

makes sure she is contributing FINANCIALLY as well

its one thing to get fukked over emotionally

But your pockets as well..HELL TO DA NAW

 

[Creflo ½ Dollar]

There is nothing you can do

women are no different than us

they like something strange or something NEW as well

cause everyone gets tired of fukking the same person no matter how good it is

all you can hope for is that YOU are NOT the sole provider in the relationship

makes sure she is contributing FINANCIALLY as well

its one thing to get fukked over emotionally

But your pockets as well..HELL TO DA NAW

Real talk anybody can get it.


But you can lower the chances by picking the right chick...


But like u said the only thing u can do is protect your pockets

 

[semicko82]

Don’t marry, there is literally no advantage for a man to get married in this society

Preach

 

[semicko82]

Don't get married.
Don't get a girlfriend.
Don't fall in love.
Don't have babies.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

While this is 100% true, it also make a lot of women insecure.

I mean @Deacon Frye got cheated on. His ex wife had to know that women, were throwing themselves at ol boy every time he left the crib.

I'm not bad looking either, so I've dealt with insecure women who've said as much and probed for bs.

Your absolutely right. Matter fact it led to a lot of her insecurities within the marriage. She actually told me once it would be easier to trust me if I wasn’t good looking. Sounded like some bullshyt to me but people’s insecurties will have them throw all logic out the window

 

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I think all women take break ups better than men because they know another will be waiting right there for them.

To fukk...

Not to cuff, which is what they truly want. Never forget.