The epidemic of women marrying 'provider' men while cheating on the side with men they are really

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Don't get married.
Don't get a girlfriend.
Don't fall in love.
Don't have babies.


From what I've read on the coli, I ain't see no one mention in this thread to:

-Always be in shape and work on yourself

-Flirt with women to keep a tight mouth piece

If your wife/gf know other girls are attracted to you that keeps her on her toes

Workout, avoid being lame and simpy and don’t marry strictly for looks

Yup, didn't see this post but I agree. It makes sense
 

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From what I've read on the coli, I ain't see no one mention in this thread to:

-Always be in shape and work on yourself

-Flirt with women to keep a tight mouth piece

If your wife/gf know other girls are attracted to you that keeps her on her toes



Yup, didn't see this post but I agree. It makes sense
those certs always on hand too
 

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From what I've read on the coli, I ain't see no one mention in this thread to:

-Always be in shape and work on yourself

-Flirt with women to keep a tight mouth piece

If your wife/gf know other girls are attracted to you that keeps her on her toes



Yup, didn't see this post but I agree. It makes sense
Fit nikkas get cheated on too.
 
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As I get older and lose my hairline but gain more $$$...how does a nikka like me not fall in that "provider" role like bmoregorilla :mjcry:



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You're still afflicted with the beta mentality. Unfortunately it takes you actually having your heart broken to fully understand that these women are grimy. I'm actually glad I went through my experience and I chuckle to myself when i see dudes head over heels knowing that I been there done that and never again. But I'm rambling

Stay in shape and keep yourself looking good and you'll be straight. And remember that every woman is talking to AT LEAST 4....yes FOUR other nikkas on the side and you'll approach things much differently.
 

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A surefire way to know that your wife is feeling another man at work and plans to have an extramarital affair is if she starts doing her hair and wearing clothes in ways she didn't before.

That shyt ain't to impress you, it's to impress some other man!

Some women are smart though and make sure not to change up anything so their man doesn't get suspicious.
good advice breh. shyt.
 

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From what I've read on the coli, I ain't see no one mention in this thread to:

-Always be in shape and work on yourself

-Flirt with women to keep a tight mouth piece

If your wife/gf know other girls are attracted to you that keeps her on her toes



Yup, didn't see this post but I agree. It makes sense
I'm seeing how important this is. It is very vital to be speaking with women everyday to know how to speak to them and bag them. All that focus on your purpose, go to gym etc is correct but do not ignore women. Speak to them.
 

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There's a black woman at one of my old jobs just like this. She's slim, got absolutely no ass but decent breasts. In her late 30s but looks young for her age.

She straight up talks white. I ain't never heard a hint of slang come out her mouth before. Shorty even says okie dokie like whaaaatt??? :dahell:

Anyways, I could tell early on her and my manager had something going on, and both got families. One time I parked in the front parking lot, so when I go into work I'd walk past her. Manager questioned me about it asking me why I did it on some jealous shyt. Dude left the job for "personal reasons" but I think his wife found out of his affair and made him quit.

Another time when I would talk to her, he would rush me ending the conversation.

Anyways, something was telling me she had a white husband. So I did some googles and found her IG and facebook page. lo and behold she's with a white dude that looks like a skinny redneck with bad skin and hair.

But.. this woman is thirsty asf. It's only young black men that be working at this company, and she legit thirsts after every single one of them that works at the job.

It's a small company too, like legit 5-6 people.

She got her provider husband and her mixed baby, but on the low secretly lusting, sucking and fukking black men.

I genuinely feel sorry for these men. I know a good amount of couples where a dude made a thot a wife and is getting cheated on while having no clue.

LOL I knew a broad like that years ago.

A total oreo from her head to her feet, was with a white dude but had a 'thing' for brothas in the same way a curious white chick would. It was weird.
 

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As I get older and lose my hairline but gain more $$$...how does a nikka like me not fall in that "provider" role like bmoregorilla :mjcry:



Talk to me beloveds


Fred


You have to understand and know why your girl is with you. For a lot of women many will settle into a relationship, settle meaning - 'They accept that they cannot attract the guy/s they want to commit to them so they chose the beta male who will provide them with stability and financial secruity'

Ask yourself what are your qualties that got this chick sticking with you and be honest with your analysis. Is she with you for your personality/looks or for your potential?

Next ask yourself, in her prime (18-26... age where girls get the most attention and offer from a plethora of different types of men) would she date me? If you can't see her dating you in her prime then somethings wrong.

Lastly, look at her past boyfriends who she was with in her prime or when she had no baggage. If they don't resemble or aren't similar to you in character then shes looking at the bigger picture for herself and settling for you.

Now your ass is in the provider role and in a few years her ass will be getting buss down from the guys she was messing with in her prime years
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You have to understand and know why your girl is with you. For a lot of women many will settle into a relationship, settle meaning - 'They accept that they cannot attract the guy/s they want to commit to them so they chose the beta male who will provide them with stability and financial secruity'

Ask yourself what are your qualties that got this chick sticking with you and be honest with your analysis. Is she with you for your personality/looks or for your potential?

Next ask yourself, in her prime (18-26... age where girls get the most attention and offer from a plethora of different types of men) would she date me? If you can't see her dating you in her prime then somethings wrong.

Lastly, look at her past boyfriends who she was with in her prime or when she had no baggage. If they don't resemble or aren't similar to you in character then shes looking at the bigger picture for herself and settling for you.

Now your ass is in the provider role and in a few years her ass will be getting buss down from the guys she was messing with in her prime years
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Eloquent and astute. Hold this rep :ehh:
 

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Nothing wrong with being a provider just marry a woman u can satisfy
If shes got a white liver :ufdup:
 

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Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall
A surefire way to know that your wife is feeling another man at work and plans to have an extramarital affair is if she starts doing her hair and wearing clothes in ways she didn't before.

That shyt ain't to impress you, it's to impress some other man!

Some women are smart though and make sure not to change up anything so their man doesn't get suspicious.
I’ll add this...
If she start talking about how much she hates a nikka name Demetrius, Tony or Mark...
Or..
How a nikka named Richard, James, Dwight always doing nice things for his girl...
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Silly conversation. Most people settle in some way or another. It’s called making difficult life choices.

Women oftentimes settlemfor security.

Men do it as well. Most men have had a female in their life who was the baddest chick they ever knew in one way or another. Conversation interests sex looks etc, but she may have been somewhat of a ho or had some other huge red flag. Dudes then marry the responsible chick who may not necessarily be a 10.5/10 and can’t deepthroat a mfer while p*ssy popping on a handstand.
 
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