The DATING GAME for the 35 & Up Guys with NO Kids (NO CHILD SUPPORT / ALIMONY GMB MAFIA)

[Mowgli]

Damn why they bush the brother.

He make some white people mad?

 

[DamienWayne]

Op ww speaking too much fax , I'm 33 and rack up on dating apps . Imagine being 30 and getting with a 30 year old women . If a woman is 32 she tried and failed to get married .

 

[Ashley Banks]

The way I see things like that, if she's so awesome and great how come she ain't been locked down already?

Tread carefully. In the beginning these females wear a series of masks and hide how they really are until they get super comfortable (securing the ring or a baby) or just get tired of acting. You also have to keep a keen eye. Pay close attention to those little slips in character. Don't just brush them off as a harmless outlier. Chances are they will be greatly augmented once she has you.

I'm not just being negative or cynical. These older experiencee women know the game. If I were you I would give it a solid two or three years living under the same roof. If you not living with a female you really don't know how she is. I've learned that the hard way

Y’all do know relationships end right? How is a woman supposed to “get locked down” if every guy is looking at her like “hmmm she’s great why hasn’t someone wifed her”. I never understood that logic is a woman supposed to stay single if a relationship ends after 30? You say you aren’t being negative or cynical but you’re literally making a woman a bad person because she’s single and 34. You can be great and awesome and your relationships can end.

 

[Menna]

Im 36 no kids never married make 100K+ and I will be moving to Charleston SC in a few months...Looking to do things on my terms and enjoy...PPl say I look 30 anyway...

 

[CW_1991]

Y’all do know relationships end right? How is a woman supposed to “get locked down” if every guy is looking at her like “hmmm she’s great why hasn’t someone wifed her”. I never understood that logic is a woman supposed to stay single if a relationship ends after 30? You say you aren’t being negative or cynical but you’re literally making a woman a bad person because she’s single and 34.

Sounds like my cautionary statements hit a little close to home for you.



I'm not saying all single middle-aged ish women are damaged goods or anything like that, I'm just saying dudes need to be wary. Many of the catches out here are usually caught early on.

 

[Ashley Banks]

She could've been the one to break it off if the nikka cheated or even say it had been hella years in the relationship and breh didn't want to propose. Point is it's a lot of possibilities. You just gotta keep your third eye open and move with caution like you should even if she had all the same traits but was 24.

just cause a chick 34 don't automatically mean something wrong with her

Exactly I never understood that thought process. You see so many men taking good women for granted what do they think happens when the woman leaves? She’s single. Do they just want the woman to just disappear if her relationship ends how do y’all think so many men have a “the one that got away”.

 

[richaveli83]

I'm in my late 30s and no kids and never married. I definitely want to be married and have children but I'm not trying to be married multiple times or have children with different women. I'm doing well for myself financially. Not 6 figures gang but upper five figures with potential to make 100k.

Seeing some of the shyt some of my family and friends go through with child support and baby mama/ex-wife drama makes me but at the same time

As far as dating, I look for women between 27-33. Can go as high as 35 and MAYBE as low 25.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Sounds like my cautionary statements hit a little close to home for you.



I'm not saying all single middle-aged ish women are damaged goods or anything like that, I'm just saying dudes need to be wary. Many of the catches out here are usually caught early on.

You clearly don’t know me. I’m still married and I’m not 34. The point of a discussion forum is to have a discussion, not everything is personal.


Anyways, you keep saying that “if she was a catch she would have been caught early” do you believe that relationships can’t end? She could have been in a relationship and for some reason the relationship ended does that automatically make her damaged goods?

 

[Maquina]

you're putting off the inevitable

statistically you will end up single with a kid anyway. Being 35+ no kids only counts if you made the most of your 20s and 30s - and if you did then you'd be ready for that next chapter, cuz bagging new chics every weekend gets old. Being the old head at lounges and bars gets old

 

[CW_1991]

You clearly don’t know me. I’m still married and I’m not 34. The point of a discussion forum is to have a discussion, not everything is personal.


Anyways, you keep saying that “if she was a catch she would have been caught early” do you believe that relationships can’t end? She could have been in a relationship and for some reason the relationship ended does that automatically make her damaged goods?

I'm not speaking in absolutes. I'm just saying it's possible.

If something hasn't worked out and stuck in 15 to 20 years of being in the dating market, I'm going to scratch my head and wonder why.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

There's nothing wrong with women in their 30s. There are advantages and drawbacks no matter what.

Women in their 20s experience quarter-life crises as they realize they're heading into their 30s without having done the shyt they're 'supposed' to do before then so they'll dump a dude to live a series of hot girl summers.

Women in their 30s might be bitter because they didn't get the kind of commitment they felt they should've had in their 20s, or they did what the former group did and left a good dude to live out their youthful fantasies and now it's too late. He found himself a new woman he's happy with or he's single and doesn't want her back.

Everyone is looking for assurances. 'If I date a younger woman she'll treat me right! If I date a foreign woman she won't finesse me! If I date an older woman she's more mature and knows what she wants!' Aint no guarantees in anything in life except death, and dudes look childish trying to protect themselves from heart break by building their dating preferences on assumptions around age, ethnicity, etc.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I'm not speaking in absolutes. I'm just saying it's possible.

If something hasn't worked out and stuck in 15 to 20 years of being in the dating market, I'm going to scratch my head and wonder why.

Maybe she’s someone’s “the one that got away” either way hes 36 year old man I’m sure he knows how to pick who is and isn’t quality but a woman being single doesn’t automatically make her a shytty person. I hope you aren’t just disqualifying women for being single because a lot of women stay in toxic sometimes deadly situations because they’re afraid of people judging them just like you are.

 

[CW_1991]

Maybe she’s someone’s “the one that got away” either way hes 36 year old man I’m sure he knows how to pick who is and isn’t quality but a woman being single doesn’t automatically make her a shytty person. I hope you aren’t just disqualifying women for being single because a lot of women stay in toxic sometimes deadly situations because they’re afraid of people judging them just like you are.

It's all a case by case basis. That's why I said to be scrupulous.

You really should be scrupulous with any potential partner.

 

[Ashley Banks]

There's nothing wrong with women in their 30s. There are advantages and drawbacks no matter what.

Women in their 20s experience quarter-life crises as they realize they're heading into their 30s without having done the shyt they're 'supposed' to do before then so they'll dump a dude to live a series of hot girl summers.

Women in their 30s might be bitter because they didn't get the kind of commitment they felt they should've had in their 20s, or they did what the former group did and left a good dude to live out their youthful fantasies and now it's too late. He found himself a new woman he's happy with or he's single and doesn't want her back.

Everyone is looking for assurances. 'If I date a younger woman she'll treat me right! If I date a foreign woman she won't finesse me! If I date an older woman she's more mature and knows what she wants!' Aint no guarantees in anything in life except death, and dudes look childish trying to protect themselves from heart break by building their dating preferences on assumptions around age, ethnicity, etc.

This. You might say you won’t date younger than 25 but what if you a great woman that’s 24?? You gonna pass her up because you believe 24 year olds aren’t mature? You gonna pass up a 31 year old that’s perfect for you because you think women can’t be single after 30?? I’m sure people miss out on good people having these kind rules.

 

[Menna]

At the end of the day you need wisdom too...Take your dating and life experiences go out with a women for a few months and put in the math and make a decisions...Also could be 1.5 years in and the women switches up...life isnt fair and women can be fickle with their decisions they want something in Feb and then by Nov its different and you couild have done everything correct....You need luck too

1st long term relationship women broke up with me on Christmas after he mom died of cancer and she had me carry the coffin

2nd long term relationship I got a job away from our home she insisted in moving in with me even though I said I can do long distance a few months later she said it was too quick and left...

ive been single for 6 years now and I am 36...Im moving down south with a good paying W2 job...Ill be dating and using my life experiecne to try and make the best decisions for me and my future family but I need luck on my side too...Theres not much I could of done dif 24-30 in those relationships to change the course maybe not be so nice but thats about it...What can ya do and then in order to get a career and money right it takes time and here I am single at 36 ready to get back into it...Not everything works out and it takes time to build and get over shyt...