The DATING GAME for the 35 & Up Guys with NO Kids (NO CHILD SUPPORT / ALIMONY GMB MAFIA)

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I always thought the more money and freedom I had, I would just ht up women I knew to go to Miami for a weekend, and I can, but it wasn't as easy as I thought it would be, unless there's some commitment attached.
34-37 chicks did that when they were in their 20s. They tryna settle down with a husband now. If the weekend getaway bae lifestyle is what you want you need to pitch that to early mid 20s chicks who still in YOLO mode. They not worried about commitment yet.
 

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Thinking of marrying this one armed ho.

She bad af and the poozy is on fuego. She young too , like str8 outta college

My only issue is she has one arm.


I messed with a chic with one arm - didn’t realize until like the 2nd time smashing and she was riding , it was dark and I thought my eyes were playing tricks on me. But yeah she put her hands up , while she was on top and it was like this ✋….not sure how I missed it the other times I seen her
 

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There's nothing wrong with women in their 30s. There are advantages and drawbacks no matter what.

Women in their 20s experience quarter-life crises as they realize they're heading into their 30s without having done the shyt they're 'supposed' to do before then so they'll dump a dude to live a series of hot girl summers.

Women in their 30s might be bitter because they didn't get the kind of commitment they felt they should've had in their 20s, or they did what the former group did and left a good dude to live out their youthful fantasies and now it's too late. He found himself a new woman he's happy with or he's single and doesn't want her back.

Everyone is looking for assurances. 'If I date a younger woman she'll treat me right! If I date a foreign woman she won't finesse me! If I date an older woman she's more mature and knows what she wants!' Aint no guarantees in anything in life except death, and dudes look childish trying to protect themselves from heart break by building their dating preferences on assumptions around age, ethnicity, etc.

You're making this complicated.

Older women tend to have kids with the ex still in the picture. Older women without kids get desperate and push for kids in less than a year in the relationship.

Young women aren't perfect but the possibility of properly starting a family is way higher.
 

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As an early 30s breh creeping up on 35, thread is hitting home.

Worked extremely hard in my late 20s and early 30s to be making good money...so if I get even the hint that a woman was just having "too much" fun in her 20s and now wants to settle down with me, it's a huge turnoff. Too much being a higher body count than me.

I dated a woman who'll turn 33 next year - our chemistry was great, but I just could not shake that feeling (based on comments here and there) that her body count was higher than mine. I just couldn't. Did that for a few of months after starting out casual, it felt like a waste of time in retrospect, so now it's purely casual or going for broke on the marriage tip.

I also have an ex that I dated in my late 20s who I'd wife up in a heartbeat...she's just not discovered herself as a sexual person or comfortable with it. Prettiest girl I've ever dated but she's just blocked on that front. Hardest breakup I've had and low key sent me into a mini-depression after doing it.

But I keep pushing. :yeshrug:

Why are y'all letting these dudes shame and control you into dating older women?:hhh: You're a grown ass man, if yo ass don't find a 23 yr old and settle down. Stop listening to these dudes:hhh:


Older women:

-Kids and exes in the picture.
-Biological clock desperation.
-High chances birth defects.


I don't hate older women, but the above rings very true.
 

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I had my fun, but this girl was a hard partier in her 20s. I'm talking I think her count is 20 if not 30+, which is too much for me personally. If I were to find out she was at 15 or less that'd be doable. I'm in the 20 range myself w/ some 2 and 3 year, faithful-except-for-1 relationships sprinkled in my 20s.
If she party hard AND didnt have a long term relationship to take her off the market for long periods of time, her number probably 20+ before 20.. at 30 it dont even make sense to do the math..
 

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I messed with a chic with one arm - didn’t realize until like the 2nd time smashing and she was riding , it was dark and I thought my eyes were playing tricks on me. But yeah she put her hands up , while she was on top and it was like this ✋….not sure how I missed it the other times I seen her
Wtf?
 

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So then the income means nothing outside of long-term commitment/marriage, which isn't "feasting".
This is a failed leap of logic. I said correlation not causation. Extrapolate however you may wish. Doesn’t change my view or experiences.
 

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This not a failed leap of logic. You made an original statement far too simple for what actually occurs. Doesn't change mine either.
I literally said correlation which means other variables are at play in ADDITION to what I said. I never said money is the ONLY thing relevant.

Can’t believe I’m explaining this.
 

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I literally said correlation which means other variables are at play in ADDITION to what I said. I never said money is the ONLY thing relevant.

Can’t believe I’m explaining this.
You said correlation AFTER someone else challenged your original statement with a question. Your original statement made no mention of other superficial factors playing into a man's success in dating, strictly 100K in low income state = "feasting" on high level women.

Every other variable listed would see a man have casual/short-term dating success almost regardless of income. I am simply taking most chances I get to push back on this notion that a certain level of income guarantees a good or great dating life because it's a half-truth, your experiences be damned.

I can't believe I'm explaining this either.
 

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You said correlation AFTER someone else challenged your original statement with a question. Your original statement made no mention of other superficial factors playing into a man's success in dating, strictly 100K in low income state = "feasting" on high level women.

Every other variable listed would see a man have casual/short-term dating success almost regardless of income. I am simply taking most chances I get to push back on this notion that a certain level of income guarantees a good or great dating life because it's a half-truth, your experiences be damned.

I can't believe I'm explaining this either.
He didn’t challenged me, he wanted clarity and I provided it. nikkas like you take shyt so literal. I never once said a certain income guarantees you a dating life. You’re dyslexic maybe, I’m done :dead:
 

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Why are y'all letting these dudes shame and control you into dating older women?:hhh: You're a grown ass man, if yo ass don't find a 23 yr old and settle down. Stop listening to these dudes:hhh:


Older women:

-Kids and exes in the picture.
-Biological clock desperation.
-High chances birth defects.


I don't hate older women, but the above rings very true.
I'm honestly confused as to why you quoted my post. I'll date whoever I want at whatever age...dating women in their early 30s is a mixed bag in most major cities. Anything beyond that is an exaggeration honestly. I would like to get with a 27 or 28 year old though. Women mature more slowly these days so these 22-25 year olds have my eyes glazing over trying to talk to them.
 

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He didn’t challenged me, he wanted clarity and I provided it. nikkas like you take shyt so literal. I never once said a certain income guarantees you a dating life. You’re dyslexic maybe, I’m done :dead:
So this post here


Isn't you using income to and income only to suggest a great dating life?

Nobody here is dyslexic but you, while simultaneously being feminine based on your argument methods :dead: which I knew and forgot :lolbron:

Or maybe I'll try this

Od ouy dnatsrednu tahw I dias, htcib aggin?
 
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