The DATING GAME for the 35 & Up Guys with NO Kids (NO CHILD SUPPORT / ALIMONY GMB MAFIA)

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You're making this complicated.

Older women tend to have kids with the ex still in the picture. Older women without kids get desperate and push for kids in less than a year in the relationship.

Young women aren't perfect but the possibility of properly starting a family is way higher.
How long do you think people should wait before getting engaged?
 

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I did the whole Family man thing with my last girlfriend. Leaving together, work and coming home. It was cool for a while, but the sex starting falling off and the arguments increased. And her wanting me to allows be home with her and I really enjoyed her company. I just don't think that's the life for me. Unless the woman is really awesome, bcuz my ex was awesome day to day and us chilling.
Yeah that's my biggest issue. That drop off when the chics get comfortable. It's happened to me a few times where the sex dropped off or their level of effort decreases. That's usually when I bush them especially if I'm still doing my part with buying roses and all that other stuff. They were all solid chics that had stuff going on in life which they used as their excuse. But I have stuff going on too and still made the effort to put in the work. These chics just get complacent when they think they've done enough to lock you down.
 

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I’d rather date a 30 year over 20 year old
Yep. Most of the 20 yr olds are fine but that's usually it. They're typically broke or subscribe to that city girl/ I want to be treated like a princess lifestyle. I'd rather spend time with someone that could pick up the tab from time to time. Or that could take a quick trip with me and not looking for me to pay for everything
 

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I just had to get rid of a chic I was talking to. She was 33 with 2 kids. But she had a good job and was fine. She was just trying to move too fast for me. I respect her for being up front about what she wants. But we've only been talking for 3 wks and she's doing too much after I've already warned her. So I let her go rather than stall her out and waste her time. Hopefully somebody else can give her what she's looking for.
 

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Y’all do know relationships end right? How is a woman supposed to “get locked down” if every guy is looking at her like “hmmm she’s great why hasn’t someone wifed her”. I never understood that logic is a woman supposed to stay single if a relationship ends after 30? You say you aren’t being negative or cynical but you’re literally making a woman a bad person because she’s single and 34. :dead: You can be great and awesome and your relationships can end.
Yeah, it works both ways. I saw a video of a single mom (you already know the race) saying men who are single and over 30 without kids are a red flag.
 

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As an early 30s breh creeping up on 35, thread is hitting home.

Worked extremely hard in my late 20s and early 30s to be making good money...so if I get even the hint that a woman was just having "too much" fun in her 20s and now wants to settle down with me, it's a huge turnoff. Too much being a higher body count than me.

I dated a woman who'll turn 33 next year - our chemistry was great, but I just could not shake that feeling (based on comments here and there) that her body count was higher than mine. I just couldn't. Did that for a few of months after starting out casual, it felt like a waste of time in retrospect, so now it's purely casual or going for broke on the marriage tip.

I also have an ex that I dated in my late 20s who I'd wife up in a heartbeat...she's just not discovered herself as a sexual person or comfortable with it. Prettiest girl I've ever dated but she's just blocked on that front. Hardest breakup I've had and low key sent me into a mini-depression after doing it.

But I keep pushing. :yeshrug:
That's the worse one breh.... Cause you can fill her up with compliments every day until you're blue in the face but if she's in her own head mentally, there's nothing you can do about it. Those are the wifey types though. They just aren't that adventurous in bed and it's frustrating. :mjcry:
 

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I'm 34...but I've been told I look 25-28..

The only thing that keeps me on the outside looking in is the opportunities are never in my favor...whether they away in college etc..

I tried a female in her 30s and it went downhill FAST...they want CONTROL and MICROMANAGEMENT...
Bro you are 34 talking about how you look 25 and then you blamed the 30 year old woman, when it's probably because mentally you are 20 year old ever thought of that?
 

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Why are y'all letting these dudes shame and control you into dating older women?:hhh: You're a grown ass man, if yo ass don't find a 23 yr old and settle down. Stop listening to these dudes:hhh:


Older women:

-Kids and exes in the picture.
-Biological clock desperation.
-High chances birth defects.


I don't hate older women, but the above rings very true.
You’re not being serious bro, most 23 yrs old are not serious about life at their stage. He should push towards 25+
 
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I just had to get rid of a chic I was talking to. She was 33 with 2 kids. But she had a good job and was fine. She was just trying to move too fast for me. I respect her for being up front about what she wants. But we've only been talking for 3 wks and she's doing too much after I've already warned her. So I let her go rather than stall her out and waste her time. Hopefully somebody else can give her what she's looking for.
Yeah, her baby daddy.
 

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So this post here


Isn't you using income to and income only to suggest a great dating life?

Nobody here is dyslexic but you, while simultaneously being feminine based on your argument methods :dead: which I knew and forgot :lolbron:

Or maybe I'll try this

Od ouy dnatsrednu tahw I dias, htcib aggin?
Yeah you definitely remedial..have a nice Saturday breh. :pachaha:
 

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I did the whole Family man thing with my last girlfriend. Leaving together, work and coming home. It was cool for a while, but the sex starting falling off and the arguments increased. And her wanting me to allows be home with her and I really enjoyed her company. I just don't think that's the life for me. Unless the woman is really awesome, bcuz my ex was awesome day to day and us chilling.
Sounds like you fumbled my G
 

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Late 30s women...nah bruh...

You would be better of finding where the 20 something women hang at.

Once I turned 35 I couldnt even stomach the covos I had 20 somethings. Yeah they looked good and I did smash, but that was it. That was just for me.

Glad Im back with my first BM...the streets wasn't fun anymore after 35 (for me at least)
 
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