The DATING GAME for the 35 & Up Guys with NO Kids (NO CHILD SUPPORT / ALIMONY GMB MAFIA)

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I’d rather date a 30 year over 20 year old

Theses cats live their lives based on podcasts


It goes both ways. Of course not all 30 yr old women are down bad, but at that age a lot tend to have kids and exes. And what about the biological clock? Does she want kids? How much time do you have?
 

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nothing, if she's a unicorn (childless, has had less than 2 abortions , happy on her own, logical)

a woman in her 30s is likely desperate to find a mate she wants despite what she says.

younger women tend to have less baggage all thing being equal...it's just math breh it's just math
Not one lie was told by you . Especially the unicorn statement. Because once you interact with the 40 and up, that unicorn had its horn broken off and put down

Women use the same gauge we do when it comes to age, unless they are out for self and just don’t care.
 

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I'm 36, just started dating a woman who just turned 34.

She has a good career & paid, no kids, nice body, respects me, feminine, family oriented, home owner. We both want to settle down & have a family. If things are still good after 1 year, I'm locking this one down
 
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I'm 36, just started dating a woman who just turned 34.

She has a good career & paid, no kids, nice body, respects me, feminine, family oriented, home owner. We both want to settle down & have a family. If things are still good after 1 year, I'm locking this one down
Where’d you find her? I think I’m gonna throw in the towel
 

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I did the whole Family man thing with my last girlfriend. Leaving together, work and coming home. It was cool for a while, but the sex starting falling off and the arguments increased. And her wanting me to allows be home with her and I really enjoyed her company. I just don't think that's the life for me. Unless the woman is really awesome, bcuz my ex was awesome day to day and us chilling.
The sex started falling off and arguments increased because she was fukking some other nikka

I don't do serious relationships anymore because women don't know how to be faithful.

If she has kids, it's gonna be casual and I'm not meeting the kids ever.

If by some miracle she has no kids then we can maybe consider something serious
 

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I'm 36, just started dating a woman who just turned 34.

She has a good career & paid, no kids, nice body, respects me, feminine, family oriented, home owner. We both want to settle down & have a family. If things are still good after 1 year, I'm locking this one down

The way I see things like that, if she's so awesome and great how come she ain't been locked down already?

Tread carefully. In the beginning these females wear a series of masks and hide how they really are until they get super comfortable (securing the ring or a baby) or just get tired of acting. You also have to keep a keen eye. Pay close attention to those little slips in character. Don't just brush them off as a harmless outlier. Chances are they will be greatly augmented once she has you.

I'm not just being negative or cynical. These older experiencee women know the game. If I were you I would give it a solid two or three years living under the same roof. If you not living with a female you really don't know how she is. I've learned that the hard way
 

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I'm 36, just started dating a woman who just turned 34.

She has a good career & paid, no kids, nice body, respects me, feminine, family oriented, home owner. We both want to settle down & have a family. If things are still good after 1 year, I'm locking this one down
Careful breh…the new p*ssy feeling have brehs in cloud 9
 

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The way I see things like that, if she's so awesome and great how come she ain't been locked down already?

Tread carefully. In the beginning these females wear a series of masks and hide how they really are until they get super comfortable (securing the ring or a baby) or just get tired of acting. You also have to keep a keen eye. Pay close attention to those little slips in character. Don't just brush them off as a harmless outlier. Chances are they will be greatly augmented once she has you.

I'm not just being negative or cynical. These older experiencee women know the game. If I were you I would give it a solid two or three years living under the same roof. If you not living with a female you really don't know how she is. I've learned that the hard way

Careful breh…the new p*ssy feeling have brehs in cloud 9
I agree. That's why I said I would assess where we are in 1 year & move accordingly

The main reason why I think why she ain't been lockdown, she is average in looks but with a decent body, so many brehs would have overlooked her because she is not a dyme or lightskin.
 

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Careful breh…the new p*ssy feeling have brehs in cloud 9
Dude username used to be Playa, and he was making the same mistakes a late teenager would. Not to say people can’t make mistakes, but some people always have their capes on. He’ll see why she was single soon enough. Unless she was already married, a decent woman being single at that age is an issue.

Talking about marrying a serially-monogamist 34 year old woman, that he just met a year ago. Ok champ. :francis:
 

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I’m not washed up so I don’t see why I would wife someone up with baggage, resentment issues, trust issues and all the above. My situation is not perfect by any means but I do well for myself, in the best shape I’ve been since my early 20s (36) and continue to get better and better.
 

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The way I see things like that, if she's so awesome and great how come she ain't been locked down already?

Tread carefully. In the beginning these females wear a series of masks and hide how they really are until they get super comfortable (securing the ring or a baby) or just get tired of acting. You also have to keep a keen eye. Pay close attention to those little slips in character. Don't just brush them off as a harmless outlier. Chances are they will be greatly augmented once she has you.

I'm not just being negative or cynical. These older experiencee women know the game. If I were you I would give it a solid two or three years living under the same roof. If you not living with a female you really don't know how she is. I've learned that the hard way
Could've gotten out of a long term relationship that didn't work out. If she's a dentist there was probably a lot of schooling that may have taken up a lot of her time to date
 

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Could've gotten out of a long term relationship that didn't work out. If she's a dentist there was probably a lot of schooling that may have taken up a lot of her time to date

Who knows. But if I met me a good looking chick that has a good head on her shoulders and educated and all that other great stuff, I'm not going to just let her go because she's working on her career.

It would take her being disrespectful or just the vibe being way off for me to dead the whole thing.
 

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Who knows. But if I met me a good looking chick that has a good head on her shoulders and educated and all that other great stuff, I'm not going to just let her go because she's working on her career.

It would take her being disrespectful or just the vibe being way off for me to dead the whole thing.
She could've been the one to break it off if the nikka cheated or even say it had been hella years in the relationship and breh didn't want to propose. Point is it's a lot of possibilities. You just gotta keep your third eye open and move with caution like you should even if she had all the same traits but was 24.

just cause a chick 34 don't automatically mean something wrong with her
 
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