The "Black women have limited options to pick from" narrative

[Tropical Fantasy]

black women saying that are speaking in code

"Limited options" = not enough rich black men who are willing to put up with my bullshyt

 

[mamba]

Compared to nonblack women, black women have limited options, I can be objective and see it. Just because there are many good black men doesn't mean there are enough.

The assumption is that the majority of Black women are good women and only a small minority of Black men are good men.

I'd argue that Black women tend to overestimate the number of good Black women and severely underestimate the number of good Black men.

 

[The_Truth]

The assumption is that the majority of Black women are good women and only a small minority of Black men are good men.

I'd argue that Black women tend to overestimate the number of good Black women and severely underestimate the number of good Black men.

Most women think they are good women simply because they are women.

 

[mamba]

Most women think they are good women simply because they are women.

Exactly.

 

[Yup]

[QUOTE="The_Truth, post: 14985928, member: 18610"]They do the same to us.....so fukk 'em. That's how I roll now.[/QUOTE]

How so?

 

[Yup]

Most women think they are good women simply because they are women.

A lot of guys on here think they are entitled to, a woman of above level attractive just because their male.

 

[Blackout]

The assumption is that the majority of Black women are good women and only a small minority of Black men are good men.

I'd argue that Black women tend to overestimate the number of good Black women and severely underestimate the number of good Black men.

 

[mamba]

A lot of guys on here think they are entitled to, a woman of above level attractive just because their male.

That's not true at all. Most dudes don't walk around with a sense of entitlement simply because they are men.

A nikka dropping French fries in grease at McDonalds doesn't realistically think he deserves a fine sistah who is degreed up and making moves in corporate America.

But, a woman dropping French fries in grease at McDonalds will not hesitate to say what she deserves in a man, which is usually some outrageous shyt in terms of looks, salary, career, etc.

Men don't walk around carrying that sense of entitlement. We learn early on that the vast majority of us are going to work for everything we want in life.

 

[Yup]

That's not true at all. Most dudes don't walk around with a sense of entitlement simply because they are men.

A nikka dropping French fries in grease at McDonalds doesn't realistically think he deserves a fine sistah who is degreed up and making moves in corporate America.

But, a woman dropping French fries in grease at McDonalds will not hesitate to say what she deserves in a man, which is usually some outrageous shyt in terms of looks, salary, career, etc.

Men don't walk around carrying that sense of entitlement. We learn early on that the vast majority of us are going to work for everything we want in life.[/QUOTE/)

Is that so...that's not what I see here or offline.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

The problem is that the average blk man and woman don't want each other. They've been conditioned to shoot above their level. Those complaining the most seem suspect to me. If there really is a shortage of good blk men and women, why are you still here? No one else wanted you? Not even the magical PAWG or the white prince...?

Hmmm...

 

[Yup]

The problem is that the average blk man and woman don't want each other. They've been conditioned to shoot above their level. Those complaining the most seem suspect to me. If there really is a shortage of good blk men and women, why are you still here? No one else wanted you? Not even the magical PAWG or the white prince...?

Hmmm...[/QUOTE)
TRUE...but dudes will swear that they are not at fault but it'seems a chick back in 6th grade that rejected him which is why black women are this or that or whatever.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

that's what a lot of this is about. Early rejection. Some people never let it go.

 

[Magic 8 Ball]

The problem is that the average blk man and woman don't want each other. They've been conditioned to shoot above their level. Those complaining the most seem suspect to me. If there really is a shortage of good blk men and women, why are you still here? No one else wanted you? Not even the magical PAWG or the white prince...?

Hmmm...

There is some truth in there ...

 

[philmonroe]

That's not true at all. Most dudes don't walk around with a sense of entitlement simply because they are men.

A nikka dropping French fries in grease at McDonalds doesn't realistically think he deserves a fine sistah who is degreed up and making moves in corporate America.

But, a woman dropping French fries in grease at McDonalds will not hesitate to say what she deserves in a man, which is usually some outrageous shyt in terms of looks, salary, career, etc.

Men don't walk around carrying that sense of entitlement. We learn early on that the vast majority of us are going to work for everything we want in life.

If that's the case why these dudes on here who don't have shyt going on think they deserve a fine chick then? Unless you believe they all square ballers or some shyt. Wish we could see how the dudes complaining about chicks are really,living so we can put this dumb shyt to rest. Most guys that have their life together and can talk to girls aren't having problems dating period.

 

[The ADD]

That's not true at all. Most dudes don't walk around with a sense of entitlement simply because they are men.

A nikka dropping French fries in grease at McDonalds doesn't realistically think he deserves a fine sistah who is degreed up and making moves in corporate America.

But, a woman dropping French fries in grease at McDonalds will not hesitate to say what she deserves in a man, which is usually some outrageous shyt in terms of looks, salary, career, etc.

Men don't walk around carrying that sense of entitlement. We learn early on that the vast majority of us are going to work for everything we want in life.

We don't but that's just the differences in men. Not many men think they don't deserve what ever they consider their ideal female. The difference is that for men that ideal will less likely to be based on status.