The "Black women have limited options to pick from" narrative

[mamba]

If that's the case why these dudes on here who don't have shyt going on think they deserve a fine chick then? Unless you believe they all square ballers or some shyt. Wish we could see how the dudes complaining about chicks are really,living so we can put this dumb shyt to rest. Most guys that have their life together and can talk to girls aren't having problems dating period.

I've never heard a dude say he deserves any woman! Only people we've seen on that tip have been wackos like that Elliot kid.

Most men know they have to have something going for them to get the type of women they desire. Even then, they know they still have to put in some legwork and stay sharp if they want to be successful and maintain in the game.

That's the opposite of a lot of women. Too many of them think that, just because they exist as a woman, they deserve a certain caliber of men.

 

[mamba]

We don't but that's just the differences in men. Not many men think they don't deserve what ever they consider their ideal female. The difference is that for men that ideal will less likely to be based on status.

I disagree. Most men may have wants and desires, but they don't tend to carry around a sense of entitlement, thinking their ideal chick is supposed to fall in their lap.

Most dudes know they have to go after what they want.

 

[The ADD]

I disagree. Most men may have wants and desires, but they don't tend to carry around a sense of entitlement, thinking their ideal chick is supposed to fall in their lap.

Most dudes know they have to go after what they want.

I see your point but tend to disagree with the current landscape:

In theory men shouldn't have that attitude because generally speaking if you have your stuff together the women will be available. A lot of guys don't realize they haven't reached that point and have issue because they aren't getting what they want.

 

[philmonroe]

I've never heard a dude say he deserves any woman! Only people we've seen on that tip have been wackos like that Elliot kid.

Most men know they have to have something going for them to get the type of women they desire. Even then, they know they still have to put in some legwork and stay sharp if they want to be successful and maintain in the game.

That's the opposite of a lot of women. Too many of them think that, just because they exist as a woman, they deserve a certain caliber of men.

You're not stupid unless you want to tell me something I didn't previously assume so you know what I'm saying when I say dudes say that. They imply it by their whining even if not outright saying it.

I disagree with dudes knowing on here that they have to have something going for,themselves. IRL yeah but here fukk no or else honestly we wouldn't have the threads of you have to be a celebrity or thug to get girls as often as we do in some variation. Them chicks just as delusional and they don't get sparred at least from me but this is a mainly male site so that's what I'm speaking on the shyt I see most which is dudes whining. When chicks do it on here I say the same shyt I'd say to a dude kicking that garbage. I'm consistent on that front

 

[philmonroe]

I see your point but tend to disagree with the current landscape:

In theory men shouldn't have that attitude because generally speaking if you have your stuff together the women will be available. A lot of guys don't realize they haven't reached that point and have issue because they aren't getting what they want.

Nah they realize it but trying to use smoke bombs of thugs and nobody want them to distract from the truth which is they aren't usually at base level as far as having their life together. Don't care what nobody says if you have a car, apt/house, job/career/some legal from of money coming in and know how to talk to girls you'll be good most times esp if you mid 20's + with no kids. Now things like attractiveness does come into play so you won't get everyone but you'll get enough where you won't be on here bytching that's a fact.

 

[Will Ross]

I've never heard a dude say he deserves any woman! Only people we've seen on that tip have been wackos like that Elliot kid.

Most men know they have to have something going for them to get the type of women they desire. Even then, they know they still have to put in some legwork and stay sharp if they want to be successful and maintain in the game.

That's the opposite of a lot of women. Too many of them think that, just because they exist as a woman, they deserve a certain caliber of men.

Thank you that is why hood dudes will spend all thisr money trying to look like they have success

 

[mamba]

I see your point but tend to disagree with the current landscape:

In theory men shouldn't have that attitude because generally speaking if you have your stuff together the women will be available. A lot of guys don't realize they haven't reached that point and have issue because they aren't getting what they want.

Are there male whiners? Of course.

But, we're being dishonest if we are to try to equate that with the sense of entitlement that most women carry around in terms of what they deserve in a man.

 

[The_Truth]

[QUOTE="The_Truth, post: 14985928, member: 18610"]They do the same to us.....so fukk 'em. That's how I roll now.

How so?[/QUOTE]
Black women constantly compare black men to nonblack men, telling us all the ways we don't measure up to them. Okay, then. That's why I just say fukk 'em now.

 

[The ADD]

Are there make whiners? Of course.

But, we're being dishonest if we are to try to equate that with the sense of entitlement that most women carry around in terms of what they deserve in a man.

I don't disagree but this shouldn't be an issue for a man to be concerned with. So your point isn't moved but the issue that makes it a concern in general shouldn't exist as it currently does.

 

[Yup]

How so?

Black women constantly compare black men to nonblack men, telling us all the ways we don't measure up to them. Okay, then. That's why I just say fukk 'em now.[/QUOTE]
And black men don't do it to black women.

 

[The_Truth]

Black women constantly compare black men to nonblack men, telling us all the ways we don't measure up to them. Okay, then. That's why I just say fukk 'em now.

And black men don't do it to black women.

[/QUOTE]
So, we're even. That's what I saying.

 

[Yup]

So, we're even. That's what I saying.[/QUOTE]

Most bw say it in a reactionary way due to frustration with the way y'all diss them so much.

 

[The_Truth]

[Most bw say it in a reactionary way due to frustration with the way y'all diss them so much

So all the BW who say stuff like this were prompted by BM first, huh?

 

[Yup]

So all the BW who say stuff like this were prompted by BM first, huh?

Not all but a good portion yes.

 

[The_Truth]

Not all but a good portion yes.

*I've been waiting for a good time to try out this smiley. Now I have one.*