The "Black women have limited options to pick from" narrative

thewiz

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okay @agnosticlady can you please post photographic examples of the average black man that is not attractive enough for shallow black women



you know i was just being provocative

but he's acting like the simple solution is finding a black man while in college, but there is a HUGE enrollment disparity between the sexes, and then he'll turn around and say no man should get married before 30, so which is it

@Barnett114 stop it

There's definitely a huge disparity but to me at the end of the day people just need to improve themselves to get who they want or suck it up and get someone on their same level
 

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Then why you on here whining every other day about no one is checking out the nerds :sadbron:

shyt ain't adding up.
Im saying the truth.

You guys just whine when I say this because you guys arent classified as nerdy.

You only care about yourselves basically.
 

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Nah there are good men out there who are passed out on for not being swagged out, or meeting the unrealistic standards of certain women. Some of those men aren't given the time of the day until they start getting older and acquiring more. Then the same women who rejected them or disrespected them start checking in on them again. Then here are certain women who stray away from on point men because they know they have to meet certain standards and come correct. Instead they stay with "meh" men because those men won't require much from them.
On the other hand if a woman is average looking, not fat, genuinely sweet, has some sense, and is respectful she can get a great guy.

That's what I've seen
My point is who gives a shyt if some dudes are passed up? That's life nobody can't get everybody so why the fukk are people bytching over those who don't want them? shyt makes nooooo sense at all no matter how anybody frames it. If they checking for them later so what? Either get with them "revenge" fukk em whatever but crying nah son shyt is weak shyt. Also that average woman shyt is a motherfukking lie or else you wouldn't have as many women bytching just like these dudes. They can get a dude to fukk em and technically be their dude but a quality dude yeah right that isn't the norm at all.

Im good with women. Control your imagination.
No your not. Control your lying. No dude that's good/great at something has as many complaints as you. Never saw that in life and either has anybody else. Maybe if you stop making up shyt like I said you don't care about others plight when I said no such thing or asking girls do they want a dude shaved even though you get girls allegedly you'd be better off.
 

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No your not. Control your lying. No dude that's good/great at something has as many complaints as you. Never saw that in life and either has anybody else. Maybe if you stop making up shyt like I said you don't care about others plight when I said no such thing or asking girls do they want a dude shaved even though you get girls allegedly you'd be better off.
I was never talking about myself in the first place. You took one post of mines and went into this imaginary scenario.
 

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nikka, I build computers, for fun.

Not a job, for fun.

That don't stop females from checking the boy out.

:francis:
Then it doesnt affect you :francis:

Those it does affect deserve a voice if they are good people.
 

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Yeah I've seen women pass up men they think are too good for them, better looking for them, driving a certain car, not being tall enough, and etc. Both black men and black women can be superficial in dating prospects but I see it way more often in black women.

The image of what a black man should be is very superficial.
Especially in the hood.
 

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Then why you on here whining every other day about no one is checking out the nerds :sadbron:

shyt ain't adding up.
Exactly that's like a dude that's rich always talking about they are poor. People would be like fukk this dude talking about. The funniest is when dudes say they concerned about whether other dudes are getting p*ssy. I done heard it all now. Now do I want my dudes not to get p*ssy? No but do I really care one way or another? fukk no hence why I responded to dude asking me do I care about that plight with the response of "not this one" that this dude you quoted took to mean I was talking about him even though we've been going back and forth for a minute. If u was going to talk about him I would have just @ him into the discussion or quoted like Ive been doing smfh. See this @7Revo if I didn't @ or quote you nobody was talking a it you dude.
 

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Exactly that's like a dude that's rich always talking about they are poor. People would be like fukk this dude talking about. The funniest is when dudes say they concerned about whether other dudes are getting p*ssy. I done heard it all now. Now do I want my dudes not to get p*ssy? No but do I really care one way or another? fukk no hence why I responded to dude asking me do I care about that plight with the response of "not this one" that this dude you quoted took to mean I was talking about him even though we've been going back and forth for a minute. If u was going to talk about him I would have just @ him into the discussion or quoted like Ive been doing smfh. See this @7Revo if I didn't @ or quote you nobody was talking a it you dude.
If a guy is rich and is concerned about poor people then he is selfless and not self conceited. All this exposes is that you and Barnett only care about yourselves.

I show some care for others and you and him with your projection think its all about me lol.
 

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Then it doesnt affect you :francis:

Those it does affect deserve a voice if they are good people.

You have to understand there's a difference between a nerd and a geek.

I'm a fukking nerd but that has never hindered me. I ain't swagged out either. I own 4 pairs of shoes, wear non name brand clothes. My free money and time goes into building computers.

:francis:

You got dudes trying to talk to females they have absolutely nothing in common with, true birds. Females just lay around waiting to get smoked out.

They don't talk to the females they have things in common with because she don't look like the birds trying to get smutted out.

:francis:
 
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