So, I never got a car and never learned how to drive
I started "running streets" young, and was in jail by the time I was 18, and just had to go through all the steps to get back to a functional life, in my early 20's, so by the time I was 22, I just got public transportation to work, and little by little, started making more money and paying cabs. I lived in a metro area but it wasn't like NY.
So, around 2015 or so, rideshare became more ubiquitous and i started using in 2017, and have for years. Granted, I run by Lyft bill the fukk up sometimes, but in general, it works, and I hire moire private drivers now, because it's just a better experience.
Besides peoples perception,(that I must be broke, or not able to afford car) I don't care at all, despite some minor inconveniences. I even take public trans on a fairly regular basis.