I guess how I view it is some people can just eat their routine diet and do their routine workouts and steadily move towards their goals at a slow & gradual pace. My approach is usually very specific, deliberate, and I'm looking for results almost on a daily basis. Like if I'm eating clean and working out hard, I expect to see immediate & significant results.
I see some folks with more of a casual approach but I need to be very regimented & anal to achieve my goals. It's mainly because I generally lack self control in my eating & working out. So I need specific rules to abide by and hold myself to for me to succeed. Like if I'm dieting, I'm all in until I hit my goal. I won't eat pizza, or dessert, or anything pleasurable I generally consider to be cheat foods. Why? Because I lack self control. I need to get up every single morning and go to the gym, because I lack the control to miss a day here and there and not let it become a bad habit.