You always have to be onThen the other two jobs are the two that have been insane. Unfortunately, I've interviewed for so many jobs over the past two or three years because when I was at one employer, I was really unhappy and was trying to leave. I got tons of interviews and, made it to final rounds, but just never could stick the landing.
Then I took a job at a startup. The startup five months later shut down and I got laid off. So then I had to do a new round of applying and interviewing. Then I took my most recent job, which was a terrible fit and I was very unhappy. So within three months of starting that job, I started applying and interviewing for more jobs. I feel like I've just been in a nonstop job interview cycle for two years now. It's all so insane.
Having so many interviews makes me question the hiring process
I don't even have to prepare really anymore because I've done it so many times. Particularly in this round, nobody's asked me a question that I haven't already been asked. So I have all the examples ready. It's like, "Oh, tell me about a time when blah blah blah." It's like, "Oh, yeah, I know what to say for that one." I've got all the like scenarios worked out. So I guess in that sense, it is a little bit easier.
I was thinking about this the other day: Is this really the best way to determine whether you're a good fit for a job — having a couple of 30-minute conversations? I mean I don't know what the alternative is. My last job was such a bad fit. It was like, is there anything I should have seen? I don't think so. It's not like companies are going to tell you, "Oh yeah, we make you work long hours and we're not going to train you. We're not going to give you any support." It's not like anybody's ever going to be honest about that.
Then there's this other job. I had the first screen with HR. I had an initial conversation with the hiring manager. He was like, "Oh, I'd love to continue this conversation." So I had another conversation with him in which I was a little more prepared and studied up on their product and their company and had a little more sort of a targeted conversation there.
Then he had me talk to two people at the company who were supposed to be more sort of culture fit — more casual conversations. I feel like they say that. "Oh, yeah, it's just a casual conversation for you to ask questions." But it's not like you can ever be casual when you're trying to get a job. You're always performing. And you always have to be on because they're evaluating you. And yeah, sure, you're evaluating them. But the stakes are not even.
So I had two of those interviews. I was like, "OK, cool. Probably we're done." And then the following week, it was like, "Oh, I want you to talk to two more people." Initially, that job was my top choice of the four. But for some reason, when that happened, it really just left a sour taste in my mouth. It really turned me off because I just feel like you're wasting my time. How much more do you need?
I get it, particularly at a small company. It's a startup. Every hire carries a little bit more weight versus if you're just another employee at IBM or Google or whatever.
Still, it just feels like it's a waste of everyone's time. Since I've been interviewing for two years, there was one where they had me do an initial HR screening. Then I had a conversation with the hiring manager and they made me do five interviews of 45 minutes each. They were spaced out over a week or two. And then I just never even heard back from them. It was unbelievable because it was such a waste of my time — but also such a waste of their employees' time.
I'm going through this again now. I had to do three panel interviews of 45 minutes each, which seems to be more of a thing at bigger companies. I'm always like, "Oh, if I'm doing these 45-minute panels, that's a lot of time to invest." Having your employees spend an hour each talking to somebody, I've got to be a finalist, right? But I don't know. Surely they're not putting 10 people through these hourslong processes.