Jamie, a 30-year-old Sydney barrister, thinks so: ''Women labour under the impression they can have it all. They can have the career, this carefree lifestyle and then, at the snap of their fingers, because they are so fabulous, find a man. But if they wait until their 30s they're competing with women who are much younger and in various ways more attractive.''
The crisis for single women in this age group seeking a mate is very real. Almost one in three women aged 30 to 34 and a quarter of late-30s women do not have a partner, according to the 2006 census statistics. And this is a growing problem. The number of partnerless women in their 30s has almost doubled since 1986.
http://www.smh.com.au/federal-polit...omen-lose-the-dating-game-20120421-1xdn0.html
Maybe a 110 meal ain't nothing once you get to a certain $$$ level where that shyt like a 2 for $20 at Applebee'sNo woman deserves a $110 meal unless she's your mother, grandmother, sister or wife.
Maybe a 110 meal ain't nothing once you get to a certain $$$ level where that shyt like a 2 for $20 at Applebee's
Which is how it should be.I'm at that level, playa. No Coli either. I'm still not spending $100+ on a meal for a woman other than my blood.
If that's what she's already used to, and what she provides for herself, then I have no issue with a woman demanding certain things out of a man she's dating. There's nothing wrong with not wanting to "downgrade".WTF?! Who said she couldn't?! We could take up this whole thread posting hypotheticals based on OP's post. More than likely this is a made up story to get the board riled up.
If that's what she's already used to, and what she provides for herself, then I have no issue with a woman demanding certain things out of a man she's dating. There's nothing wrong with not wanting to "downgrade".
The problem lies with those Liberal Art majors that are beautiful, but work at TGIF, live with their parents, and are thousands of dollars in debt. That take the bus to work, and feeds on Mcdonalds and Subways, yet expects the man she's with to have a car, and his own place, and expensive dinners. You can't supply it yourself, but you expect a man to supply it for you.
It's your money and time, but I don't have a problem with guys wanting to take me out.
Kden.As you get into your mid-30s, men will put in less and less effort to smash. That means fewer traditional dates. They're offering to take you out, now, and may wait to smash after 2-3 dates. Once you're 33+, men are going two dates max. Past 35, one date max.
Pretty much how I feel too. I actually like women that have their own money, it's attractive. That doesn't mean that I won't date a woman who doesn't have any of her own though. There are women who don't have bus fare that look down on nikkas who don't have bus fare . shyt just doesn't make sense to me.If a woman's got it like that, financially, I can understand treating her to expensive shyt. Because at some point, she's going to return the favor if she's an honorable woman. That woman's typically a keeper.
But, taking random women out on expensive dates in 2014 is not a good move by the average man. These chicks have a calendar full of dinner dates, lunch dates, etc. lined up from simps. They can go an entire week, eating out, without spending a dollar if they have a large enough roster of simps.
Pretty much how I feel too. I actually like women that have their own money, it's attractive. That doesn't mean that I won't date a woman who doesn't have any of her own though. There are women who don't have bus fare that look down on nikkas who don't have bus fare . shyt just doesn't make sense to me.
All that dropping hundreds on the first date is for made nikkas, ugly made nikkas, ugly nikkas, and simps. I'm somewhere in between. I think I'm attractive, and I have my own money to play with, but I'm not racked out either because I live in New York and I have bills
So that first date is not breaking my pocket. Women get expensive at night, which is why with me that first date will be lunch or something.
Ask yourself,who out chea is dropping serious bread on random women besides the nikkas who can afford to, and the nikkas who have to because the girls wouldn't fukk with them otherwise?Made nikkas, ugly nikkas, and ugly made nikkas