Stephen Jackson “why do we see black NFL draftees with white girls, no white boys with black girls?”

[Jasonmask]

It should have ended at they are c00ns leave it at that, and anyone attempting to rationalise it falls under the same bracket.

Yeah I saw the first couple of pages, seems like posters are just going in circles count me out

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

The "predominantly white schools" argument is an excuse.

Many of these major universities are in cities/towns with a sizable black population.

Tuscaloosa(Alabama): 42.73% Black
Baton Rouge(LSU): 54.54% Black
Athens(Georgia): 27.54%
Gainesville(Florida): 23% Black
Tallahassee(FSU): 35% Black
Columbia(South Carolina): 42.20% Black
Atlanta(Georgia Tech): 54% Black
Durham(Duke): 41% Black
Raleigh(NC State): 30% Black
Nashville(Vanderbilt): 28.6 Black
Oxford(Ole Miss): 22.2% Black
Starkville(Mississippi State): 34.06% Black
Louisville(Louisville): 22% Black
South Bend(Norte Dame): 26.6% Black
Syracuse(Syracuse): 29.5% Black
Winston-Salem(Wake Forest): 35% Black
Pittsburgh(Pittsburgh): 26.1% Black
Columbus(Ohio State): 28% Black
Waco(Baylor): 21% Black


They could find a black female if they wanted one.

And they fukking the shyt out of a lot of sisters(around the way so to speak) I think a lot of you so called nikkas out here don't really get out much....

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I get all that.

But dudes aint wanting to hear the diatribe of complaints that come with just saying " Yo i like white women."

BW dont let that shyt just walk. It always turn into
SELF HATE
YOU HATE YA MAMA
YOU WEAK
and dudes aint trying to here all that.

Better to make up some bs and jeep the peace. Everyman knows telling a woman the truth is cruelty.

this is why I said what I said in the other thread. Bw are strong—we have no choice but to be, that’s why it’s my belief that if BW truly let go of the notion that bm are their men and just accepted that some are and some are not, and instead focused on the men who want us (whether they’re black like us or a different race) and let the Brehs who don’t want bw go—out of mind, energy, and so on—with no negative or bitter feelings, not internalizing it or seeing it as something wrong with us, bw would truly be good.

And honestly so would those Brehs who pawg, because they would no longer feel as if they needed to explain themselves.

That is the only solution I see—bw gotta let go of a lot of these brehs and let go of the hurt they feel when Brehs choose others over them. Just let those Brehs pawg in peace and do you. And Brehs that pawg? Y’all gotta stop bashing and blaming us.

 

[Nikki_04]

this is why I said what I said in the other thread. Bw are strong—we have no choice but to be, that’s why it’s my belief that if BW truly let go of the notion that bm are their men and just accepted that some are and some are not, and instead focused on the men who want us (whether they’re black like us or a different race) and let the Brehs who don’t want bw go—out of mind, energy, and so on—with no negative or bitter feelings, not internalizing it or seeing it as something wrong with us, bw would truly be good.

And honestly so would those Brehs who pawg, because they would no longer feel as if they needed to explain themselves.

That is the only solution I see—bw gotta let go of a lot of these brehs and let go of the hurt they feel when Brehs choose others over them. Just let those Brehs pawg in peace and do you. And Brehs that pawg? Y’all gotta stop bashing and blaming us.

I agree, black women should stop caring. Why would you want a man who don't want you.

But I know it's hard for some women to let it go when it's thrown in your face on the daily. I have even heard "others" question black men about it.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I agree, black women should stop caring. Why would you want a man who don't want you.

But I know it's hard for some women to let it go when it's thrown in your face on the daily. I have even heard "others" question black men about it.

Right that’s why I said its something that’s going to require our strength, but lord knows if anyone has it, it’s us. That’s why I know we can do it.

And yes others know about how some bm don’t like us and yes they find it problematic and cringeworthy too. Even feel sorry for us, but I can’t stress it more what those men do isn’t a reflection of our worth.

And life has a way of working a lot of shyt out, and humbling people who once threw stones at those they deemed beneath them, those they saw they were too good for. They’ll eventually be confronted—whether it’s through an experience they have, or their own children, trust me, life will work it out for those Brehs. That’s why my advice is to let those Brehs pawg in peace, love ourselves, think highly of ourselves and find men who feel and think the same.

 

[African Peasant]

Now self esteem. You nikkas say it all the time. These dudes like ww as status symbols aka trophies. Dudes getting trophies and having low self esteem? Where they do that at? shyt if anything for lame dudes especially these chicks helping they self worth.

Black men arent black women. The effects differ.

Yep, the effects differ, but they are still both affected.

Two things.

One: black men CAN'T escape our global fate. As an individual, you can't escape the reality of your group. As you pointed out, globally we're weak, so despite your personnal accomplishments you will remain in that realm. The collective self esteem issue of black people affect black individuals.

Two: you're under the same illusions than these boys; you think that chasing and getting white women will heal that self esteem issue. White p*ssy won't cure the perception we have of our selves. It's like a junkie getting his dose; it did not cure his drug issue, he just obtained what his drug issued pushed him to obtain. Black women on the other hand are also junkie but they can't get their dose. That's the main difference.

This pattern is even more visible among certain black men: some of them are proud to have boys who are not exactly like them; some of them, when they have kids with different mothers, clearly privilege the boy with a non black woman.

Where is the arrogance? So arrogant that you're trying to run away from yourself, to erase yourself? Behind that "winning" facade, self esteem issues are still there.

The arrogance we're talking about is just a symptom of a lack of self esteem.

 

[Eddy Gordo]

Yep, the effects differ, but they are still both affected.

Two things.

One: black men CAN'T escape our global fate. As an individual, you can't escape the reality of your group. As you pointed out, globally we're weak, so despite your personnal accomplishments you will remain in that realm. The collective self esteem issue of black people affect black individuals.
Breh they separate concepts. The view of black people as a collective doesnt necessarily tie to these guys SELF esteem. A man can recognize that black people aint winning at the collective level. But he winning individually. Then he can go home and not lose a ounce of sleep over it. Same thing with collective image vs personal image.
Two: you're under the same illusions than these boys; you think that chasing and getting white women will heal that self esteem issue. White p*ssy won't cure the perception we have of our selves. It's like a junkie getting his dose; it did not cure his drug issue, he just obtained what his drug issued pushed him to obtain. Black women on the other hand are also junkie but they can't get their dose. That's the main difference.
Black men dont have self esteem issues. Black women do. They the ones complaining about not getting chose and dudes not apprectioning black beauty and everything else. Black women not being validated by men leads to their self esteem issues. By all accounts brehs getting chose. They are being validated by the white girls so they wont have SELF esteem issues.
This pattern is even more visible among certain black men: some of them are proud to have boys who are not exactly like them; some of them, when they have kids with different mothers, clearly privilege the boy with a non black woman.
Im gonna need to see some examples of this. Because i have never seen grown men congratulate one another on have some lite brite kid. I have seen women compliment the baby good hair.
Where is the arrogance? So arrogant that you're trying to run away from yourself, to erase yourself? Behind that "winning" facade, self esteem issues are still there.
They not running away from self. These dudes love themselves. They running from the collective image of black people. They trying to operate solely as individuals.
The arrogance we're talking about is just a symptom of a lack of self esteem.

That was a lot of juelzing.

A black person can value themselves without valuing black people. We see it everywhere.

 

[Umoja]

That was a lot of juelzing.

A black person can value themselves without valuing black people. We see it everywhere.

Nah, the jeulzing is on your end and I have seen enough of you to know that you are a buck dancing c00n.

 

[African Peasant]

That was a lot of juelzing.

You're contradicting yourself. And you seem to think that individuals can exist in an autonomous realm outside of the group they belong to. It does not work like that.

You say that collective self esteem and individual are separate concepts then you say that black men are running away from the collective image of black people? What are they running from if those things are seperate? That's your contradiction.

IN fact, black men have low self esteem BECAUSE they are A PART of that group with a bad collective image. That's why a lot of white washed black men have a mental breakdown when they are reminded by life that they are still back. The group you belong to is one of your defining features, wheter you like it or not. Thinking otherwise is foolishness.

The low self esteem issue does not come from the fact of not being chosen by white men or women. That's another false idea black men do have. This illusion leads them to think that black women are the only ones suffering from low self esteem. As I said, chasing white people is already the sign of low self esteem. It does not matter if they accept you (like black men being accepted as lovers by white women) or reject you (like black women). It does not matter because getting white p*ssy or white dikk does not solve the issue. White people are not the cure. Once, it's an illusion.

And some of these black men cherishing and pursuing kids that specifically don't look like them and loving them for that reason is a crystal clear sign of low self esteem. You never saw a black man bragging about his kid being lite bright? Well... One example: Meek Mill used to do that on IG. I don't have time to find those post. But it's common. I've met a lot of cats like that. There was even a thread made in here last year about cat bragging in the hospital about his new born being biracial or some shyt like that.

You can run but you can't escape.

 

[Eddy Gordo]

Nah, the jeulzing is on your end and I have seen enough of you to know that you are a buck dancing c00n.

Did i tell a lie?

 

[Wild self]

Damn that article and the responses that followed made me very sad. I don’t know what to even say—white people truly succeeded in breaking down black families and black unity. It’s 2020 and these issues are rampant, they just sitting back watching us hate each other and ourselves, blaming and bashing each other for them. Sad shyt. And sadly i suspect that in the next 30 years there will be less black families and more mixed ones. Which means there will never have been a point in our history in this country where we truly had a large portion of black 2 parent middle class functional, families and households like they do. Like we never are going to have that—how sad. The black experience in this country has truly always been a broken one, and it’s sad because there have been so many opportunities for us to come together and we just can’t. No code.

I blame people wanting "exotic" kids.

 

[3rdWorld]

Why would they be ashamed?

They raised to value marriage and family. Its telling that you think that is strange.

Because the draft is like a flood light, and whole entire world can witness how all these Black guys want to get away from their own people so bad..That looks terrible, and no other race does this. Quit trying to justify extreme c00ning.

 

[Amerikan Melanin]

I really hate all this interracial shyt cause it’s damn near forced on us. It’s only black people being encouraged to date others and then openly disparage the black dating pool.

 

[Eddy Gordo]

Because the draft is like a flood light, and whole entire world can witness how all these Black guys want to get away from their own people so bad..That looks terrible, and no other race does this. Quit trying to justify extreme c00ning.

Well why they want to get away so bad?

 

[Eddy Gordo]

You're contradicting yourself. And you seem to think that individuals can exist in an autonomous realm outside of the group they belong to. It does not work like that.
No i dont think that. But that is how people operate out here.
You say that collective self esteem and individual are separate concepts then you say that black men are running away from the collective image of black people? What are they running from if those things are seperate? That's your contradiction.
They are seperating themeselves from the collective identity to reinforce their own identity. Its why teenagers have a rebelllious phase and black Republicans are so vocal. Or guys like lupe fiasco or childish gambino push what they do. Its not a contradiction. Basically why any individual or subset are so loud in reinforcing thier differnces from the larger culture.
IN fact, black men have low self esteem BECAUSE they are A PART of that group with a bad collective image. That's why a lot of white washed black men have a mental breakdown when they are reminded by life that they are still back. The group you belong to is one of your defining features, wheter you like it or not. Thinking otherwise is foolishness.
They dont want it to be a defining feature which is why they run from it.
The low self esteem issue does not come from the fact of not being chosen by white men or women.
Black women low self esteem comes from not being the percieved first pick of there own group.That's another false idea black men do have. This illusion leads them to think that black women are the only ones suffering from low self esteem. As I said, chasing white people is already the sign of low self esteem. No its a sign of social conditioning not necessarily low self esteem. It does not matter if they accept you (like black men being accepted as lovers by white women) or reject you (like black women). It does not matter because getting white p*ssy or white dikk does not solve the issue. White people are not the cure. Once, it's an illusion.
Why would the group being accepted and validated have low self esteem?
And some of these black men cherishing and pursuing kids that specifically don't look like them and loving them for that reason is a crystal clear sign of low self esteem. You never saw a black man bragging about his kid being lite bright? Well... One example: Meek Mill used to do that on IG. I don't have time to find those post. But it's common. I've met a lot of cats like that. There was even a thread made in here last year about cat bragging in the hospital about his new born being biracial or some shyt like that.
Go find it. I aint taking your word for it. Google can tell me the temperature of the surface of mercury. It can find some posts.

You can run but you can't escape.

My mother once told me the only two things you HAVE to do in life.
1. Stay Black
2.Die

I told her micheal jackson broke your first rule.
And jesues your second