Stephen Jackson “why do we see black NFL draftees with white girls, no white boys with black girls?”

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You know why...

Instead of pointing out that quite a bit of black dudes (in this case, football players) prefer white girls. Instead of just accepting it as fact, you got people making a multitude of excuses for these guys.
In the defense these huys are met with endless criticism. Its valid to be looking for excuses.
 

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In the defense these huys are met with endless criticism. Its valid to be looking for excuses.

It's the excuses that cause a lot of the criticism...

First they blamed black women for why they date out. Then it morphed into "Preference" combined with a lot of insulting language. Now it's a combo of the previous two, but add "accessibility" and "it's white people's fault" and "white women know how to get what they want."
 

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Black women already doing that. Some blk men are the main ones working in tandem with whites to destroy those attempts. Like blk dudes gaslighting white chicks to talk trash about blk female hair.
Meanwhile black women doing stuff like this
Teacher Goes Viral For Rocking Student's Braided Hairstyle
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Meanwhile we still got blk dudes in the media lying and defaulting to black women whenever the rest of the world notices how hung up a lot of blk dudes are on white p*ssy.
This thread is an example of that.
Dude posed a simple question and super lies and bullshyt was the answer.
“Can’t fund blk women”
“They don’t want me so I guess I gotta PAWG.”

So what would really be helpful is brehs telling them truth. When somebody asks you why you like white women, stop lying on blk women. Just fukking stop. Just say you like what u like. And if somebody asks why, be real and say that’s what’s popping in the culture. But throwing out excuses and insulting blk women to justify your own self hate is ridiculous.

Dudes in here literally trying to say they couldn’t find any blk women. But the other side of the story is something I posted about my experiences in higher ed years ago which is a lot of blk males are hostile to blk women in college. They don’t want to occupy blk spaces and covet their roles as tokens.

Nobody is saying blk men have to take up the mantle of blk female self esteem. We are doing that our damn selves with countless blk girl magic media. But what would be helpful is if our men didn’t join in with white supremacists to use dark skin as an insult. If they didn’t go out of their way to wake up hating anything dark and female. At the very least do no harm, and take accountability for your own PREFERENCES! Instead of trying to blame black women when ya’ll get called out for the self-hate all while acting hypocritical when the new generations of young blk women start following the EXACT same playbook in IR dating that they grew up seeing blk dudes do.
Black men literally have an image of chasing after white women and do you know some dudes were trying to blame that on black women too! As if countless athletes and blk music artists didn’t help perpetuate an entire subculture of light/brite/white is good and “blk bytches and dark butts” are bad.

Changing the culture is hard work but it’s even more difficult when you gotta work against racism and lies from your own people AND white supremacy. Start with not being afraid to hold white bytches accountable when they violate or being honest about attraction to non-blks. And being real like this dude was

Confessions Of a Former Self Hating Black Man who Used to Bash Black women on Social Media
Or at the very least stop using dark skin and kinky hair as an insult. Several solutions. Also stop believing lies whites tell about their superiority and white women being paragons of femininity while black women are hood rats.:deadmanny:

Damn that article and the responses that followed made me very sad. I don’t know what to even say—white people truly succeeded in breaking down black families and black unity. It’s 2020 and these issues are rampant, they just sitting back watching us hate each other and ourselves, blaming and bashing each other for them. Sad shyt. And sadly i suspect that in the next 30 years there will be less black families and more mixed ones. Which means there will never have been a point in our history in this country where we truly had a large portion of black 2 parent middle class functional, families and households like they do. Like we never are going to have that—how sad. :francis: The black experience in this country has truly always been a broken one, and it’s sad because there have been so many opportunities for us to come together and we just can’t. No code.
 

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It's the excuses that cause a lot of the criticism...

First they blamed black women for why they date out. Then it morphed into "Preference" combined with a lot of insulting language. Now it's a combo of the previous two, but add "accessibility" and "it's white people's fault" and "white women know how to get what they want."
I get all that.

But dudes aint wanting to hear the diatribe of complaints that come with just saying " Yo i like white women."

BW dont let that shyt just walk. It always turn into
SELF HATE
YOU HATE YA MAMA
YOU WEAK
and dudes aint trying to here all that.

Better to make up some bs and jeep the peace. Everyman knows telling a woman the truth is cruelty.
 
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First they blamed black women for why they date out. Then it morphed into "Preference" combined with a lot of insulting language. Now it's a combo of the previous two, but add "accessibility" and "it's white people's fault" and "white women know how to get what they want."

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You quickly pick up people who knew football players or played in college vs whose just basing everything in here off of what they see.

Because they are raised by the same white coaches who idolize white women/girls - football is discipline culture that breeds more bonds than sons have with their fathers in all backgrounds. Picking white has zero to do with black women and more to do with the men who are currently impactful in there lives.

Everything around us is based on conditioning - this is a byproduct of history; Black parents are just has excited to push their kids into predominate white schools for the potential to make their sons millionaires - knowing the consequences of it are the one's at fault. These young men are making life long term decisions when they are 18-22 years old. If they were older in age like the rest of society when they are picking out a mate, can afford to take care of themselves - their decisions would be vastly different.

Edit: This is why they trap them young, I don't believe they would make the same decisions if they were older and wiser where they see how they can influence their people/kids
 
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