Stephen Jackson “why do we see black NFL draftees with white girls, no white boys with black girls?”

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I'm not against swirling , and I have dabbled during my pwi days as well. But it wasn't because black women were too choosy or shallow.

This is what I disagree with. I've seen plenty of ugly nikkas with more attractive spouses. Derrick Brown might not get a dime black woman but he' could get a black woman that's better looking than him.

You're talking about dimes and the white girl he's wit right now is barely a 7.

Thank you.

 

[Taadow]

I’m not gonna read this thread because I know better...

I just wanna know if anybody said the real answer yet, which is:



They only show the family of the first round (or so) of the NFL Draft, so that means the draftees
that are elite. The elite ones 9.9/10 are from elite schools/programs, most of which are in country-ass places
in the Midwest or The South - where football is GOD to White people. Consequently...

(A) White broads in these areas watch/know football.
You know Coach’s daughter from Remember The Titans? That’s white broads. Real talk.
So starting from High School, if you’re Varsity on the football team and the team is good,
you get jeffed in a major way. You don’t even have to holla anymore; they’ll come to you - they know
who you are. I could tell stories. That’s status. Bytches LOVE status. On top of that, you might able to parlay that to a million-dollar pro career? It’s a wrap, you might as well hire security.

(B) All football events are like Church. It is a solemn ceremony, which shall proceed in a ritualistic manner.
Everyone dresses a certain way, the athlete perhaps has a statement, and everybody else fades into the background whilst he says it and perhaps takes a couple questions.

It is not exactly the same for Black folk.

 

[Eddy Gordo]

Black women already doing that. Some blk men are the main ones working in tandem with whites to destroy those attempts. Like blk dudes gaslighting white chicks to talk trash about blk female hair.
Meanwhile black women doing stuff like this
Teacher Goes Viral For Rocking Student's Braided Hairstyle

This aint what im talking about. This may improve self esteem in the moment but it doesnt improve image. You have to start association bw with things that relate to positive male identity.
Meanwhile we still got blk dudes in the media lying and defaulting to black women whenever the rest of the world notices how hung up a lot of blk dudes are on white p*ssy.
This thread is an example of that.
Dude posed a simple question and super lies and bullshyt was the answer.
“Can’t fund blk women”
“They don’t want me so I guess I gotta PAWG.”
If thats they experience
So what would really be helpful is brehs telling them truth. When somebody asks you why you like white women, stop lying on blk women. Just fukking stop. Just say you like what u like. And if somebody asks why, be real and say that’s what’s popping in the culture. But throwing out excuses and insulting blk women to justify your own self hate is ridiculous.
Not all of them lying. As many women have poor experiences with bm the same is true vice versa.
Social conditioning to a white standard isnt everything.
Dudes in here literally trying to say they couldn’t find any blk women. But the other side of the story is something I posted about my experiences in higher ed years ago which is a lot of blk males are hostile to blk women in college. They don’t want to occupy blk spaces and covet their roles as tokens.
I dont think that counts q hostility.
Nobody is saying blk men have to take up the mantle of blk female self esteem. We are doing that our damn selves with countless blk girl magic media. But what would be helpful is if our men didn’t join in with white supremacists to use dark skin as an insult. If they didn’t go out of their way to wake up hating anything dark and female. At the very least do no harm, and take accountability for your own PREFERENCES! Instead of trying to blame black women when ya’ll get called out for the self-hate all while acting hypocritical when the new generations of young blk women start following the EXACT same playbook in IR dating that they grew up seeing blk dudes do.
Black men literally have an image of chasing after white women and do you know some dudes were trying to blame that on black women too! As if countless athletes and blk music artists didn’t help perpetuate an entire subculture of light/brite/white is good and “blk bytches and dark butts” are bad.

Changing the culture is hard work but it’s even more difficult when you gotta work against racism and lies from your own people AND white supremacy. Start with not being afraid to hold white bytches accountable when they violate or being honest about attraction to non-blks. And being real like this dude was

Confessions Of a Former Self Hating Black Man who Used to Bash Black women on Social Media
Or at the very least stop using dark skin and kinky hair as an insult. Several solutions. Also stop believing lies whites tell about their superiority and white women being paragons of femininity while black women are hood rats.

You gotta give people something to base that belief in. Also i dont believe a man wrote that article.

 

[DropTopDoc]

That’s the point, you gotta wanna search for black women. Going up the street and shyt. Or you can walk 15ft in any random direction on campus and see a group of white women. A lot of these football players at PWI aren’t “militant” like that and just go for what’s right there.

no you don’t, I’ve been on Auburn’s campus, and i was right up the street from university of Alabama in undergrad, i wasn’t on campus 24/7 but every time i was on campus i saw plenty black women knew plenty black women from ua, so it’s not a fbi search mission

 

[DropTopDoc]

You are extremely out of touch with reality if you think D1 athletes at a major university are traveling anywhere to go get at some females

you out of touch with reality because it was plenty athletes on our yard at Stillman, and i had cousins that went to Tuskegee who talked about auburn football players on campus, plus a lot of the sororities would team up and throw parties

 

[Eddy Gordo]

no you don’t, I’ve been on Auburn’s campus, and i was right up the street from university of Alabama in undergrad, i wasn’t on campus 24/7 but every time i was on campus i saw plenty black women knew plenty black women from ua, so it’s not a fbi search mission

You right. But from the young dude perspective.

Why do they need to get a black girl?

 

[DropTopDoc]

You right. But from the young dude perspective.

Why do they need to get a black girl?

that’s individual choice, but it’s a lot of nikkas giving excuses, some nikkas like white women, some are disillusioned into the belief that that’s a big deal to get one, and sometimes some of these nikkas are too corny for black girls, so the first white girl that bust it open or sloppy top them up, they wifin

 

[3rdWorld]

Embarrassing

No matter how you cut it..

 

[Eddy Gordo]

that’s individual choice, but it’s a lot of nikkas giving excuses, some nikkas like white women, some are disillusioned into the belief that that’s a big deal to get one, and sometimes some of these nikkas are too corny for black girls, so the first white girl that bus it open or sloppy top them up, they wifin

True but its they life. Whatever reasons dudes have they entitled to pursue the women they want.

 

[3rdWorld]

True but its they life. Whatever reasons dudes have they entitled to pursue the women they want.

I wonder if they feel a sense of shame..

Also white girls unlike Black women are more likely to demand to meet your family, and for you to meet her's after just 2 weeks of fukking

 

[Eddy Gordo]

I wonder if they feel a sense of shame..

Also white girls unlike Black women are more likely to demand to meet your family, and for you to meet her's after just 2 weeks of fukking

Why would they be ashamed?

They raised to value marriage and family. Its telling that you think that is strange.

 

[Secure Da Bag]

The real issue to me is that those dudes Black families did not teach them self esteem. So those dudes end up seeking acceptance from White folks.

Given what we saw in the NFL draft, I don't know if we can really blame the parents.

I mean, "His mother has been fighting a 16-year drug addiction" is an actual stat.

 

[Still FloW]

no lies told.. fucc these karen chasing c00ns

 

[The ADD]

Ain’t a lot of good answers here. I would imagine a majority of these relationships start off purely physical and then go from there. Maybe some last past college/draft and some don’t. I get the sentiment but then I don’t think these relationships start from a place much more than physical so is that what black women (broad brush admittedly) would want

 

[Jasonmask]

Why is this thread so fukking long every post is a short story