Stay at home parent is a bullsh*t occupation

[twan83]

No offense but you sound like a bum. If you collecting disability but you in here insisting that raising kids is hard work then maybe its time to get a real job. No self respecting man should be proud of staying at home playing the role of a woman.

Here let me stop u right there

Timeline: 2001-2009
i was in the army as a dental assistant and dental hygienist was on pace to go to DENTAL SCHOOL with my application already filled out

I got a rare complications from a surgery then got diagnosed with a rare auto immune disease with other issues

Had to get medically retired from the army due to them and got disability pay from Veterans Affairs


Far from a bum just got unfortunate situation happened to me simple as that. Working is something i would love to do but its really hard for me to do and docs don't recommend i do it.

Being a stay at home father doesn't mean i have no respect for myself it means that i stepped up to the plate and helped raised all my kids since i couldn't do the working situation at this time maybe later on i can who knows. It is hard even if i wasn't sick due to how busy body they are but me being sick it takes a lot out of me but its something that i love to do. Keeps my mind preoccupied from the pain i go thru everyday

GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT BEFORE U CALL SOMEBODY A BUM.

I served my country and got sick so now i collect a paycheck in return and gonna try to collect more doesn't make me a bum. IT MAKES ME A VETERAN WITH DISABILITIES

 

[Pool_Shark]

They dont want to hear you



They dont they have let EVERY women they have come into contact with lower their testosterone one comment at a time until they've been emasculated to the point they are bitter black bytches who complain about being the VICTIM to women. Get the fukk outta here your fathers/grandfathers if you know them would smack the shyt outta you if they knew of your antics on the internet

The crazy part about it is most of them haven't even been scorned by women. shyt I bet you half of them are virgins that are mad a girl doesn't just spread her legs at first sight. They invented this imaginary society of women that sit at home, bytch and complain all day, want the same rights of men but the special privilege of woman, hate men, and their only purpose in life is too make a mans life as horrible as possible. It's a small minority that they love to magnify and throw all women in this circle. Everytime I see a thread like this I wonder "do these guys even like women?"

Here let me stop u right there

Timeline: 2001-2009
i was in the army as a dental assistant and dental hygienist was on pace to go to DENTAL SCHOOL with my application already filled out

I got a rare complications from a surgery then got diagnosed with a rare auto immune disease with other issues

Had to get medically retired from the army due to them and got disability pay from Veterans Affairs


Far from a bum just got unfortunate situation happened to me simple as that. Working is something i would love to do but its really hard for me to do and docs don't recommend i do it.

Being a stay at home father doesn't mean i have no respect for myself it means that i stepped up to the plate and helped raised all my kids since i couldn't do the working situation at this time maybe later on i can who knows. It is hard even if i wasn't sick due to how busy body they are but me being sick it takes a lot out of me but its something that i love to do. Keeps my mind preoccupied from the pain i go thru everyday

GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT BEFORE U CALL SOMEBODY A BUM.

I served my country and got sick so now i collect a paycheck in return and gonna try to collect more doesn't make me a bum. IT MAKES ME A VETERAN WITH DISABILITIES

Aye don't let these fools get to you that don't even have kids. My sons mom and I take turns watching my son after work and fukk. Sometimes it gets real frustrating other times it's rewarding but I swear theres times.. So props to you for taking care of 3 them shyt must be

 

[Padron1926]

Here let me stop u right there

Timeline: 2001-2009
i was in the army as a dental assistant and dental hygienist was on pace to go to DENTAL SCHOOL with my application already filled out

I served my country and got sick so now i collect a paycheck in return and gonna try to collect more doesn't make me a bum. IT MAKES ME A VETERAN WITH DISABILITIES

This is the arrogant attitude people have a problem with.

You served your country as a dental assistant. While I commend your efforts, how much action did you really see? Any shells explode near your head, you take on any gunfire? The most action you prolly saw was in MW3.

You got sick while in the military from some rare disease not caused by your service. You didnt get a fukkin limb blown off or lose hearing for the rest of your life.

I dont believe you cant work, even if the doctor says so. If you can properly take care of your kids you could be able to do sort of work. Really no office jobs or any jobs where u can work from home, really? U a bum.

 

[twan83]

The crazy part about it is most of them haven't even been scorned by women. shyt I bet you half of them are virgins that are mad a girl doesn't just spread her legs at first sight. They invented this imaginary society of women that sit at home, bytch and complain all day, want the same rights of men but the special privilege of woman, hate men, and their only purpose in life is too make a mans life as horrible as possible. It's a small minority that they love to magnify and throw all women in this circle. Everytime I see a thread like this I wonder "do these guys even like women?"



Aye don't let these fools get to you that don't even have kids. My sons mom and I take turns watching my son after work and fukk. Sometimes it gets real frustrating other times it's rewarding but I swear theres times.. So props to you for taking care of 3 them shyt must be

ya i shouldn't just wanted to tell em whats up thats all and wont be 3 gonna
4 my daughter due anytime now

u aint lyin bout times it be real frustrating though

 

[Dirk Diggler]

This is the arrogant attitude people have a problem with.

You served your country as a dental assistant. While I commend your efforts, how much action did you really see? Any shells explode near your head, you take on any gunfire? The most action you prolly saw was in MW3.

You got sick while in the military from some rare disease not caused by your service. You didnt get a fukkin limb blown off or lose hearing for the rest of your life.

I dont believe you cant work, even if the doctor says so. If you can properly take care of your kids you could be able to do sort of work. Really no office jobs or any jobs where u can work from home, really? U a bum.

Man you dont know that mans situation he could have Lupus or some shyt and its easier for him to stay home than explain to his employer the issues he is going through. My mother in law has that shyt and trust me it aint no walk in the park

 

[winb83]

I told you, i told you these nikkas are fakkits, i don't understand how any man that isn't an emasculated sissy can even cosign the OP.

How can you knock a woman for staying at home, rearing the children, managing the house e.t.c. whilst her man goes out and gets that bread? Thats damn near the perfect synergy between husband and wife, thats what your meant to do as the man of the house.

These lame ass nikkas on here don't posses an ounce of masculinity and its becoming more apparent every day. These nikkas are the type to get into it with another nikka whilst there girl is there and ask their woman for protection, the type to get punched in their goofy ass mouth and say "naw nikka i aint trying to fight back coz fightings dangerous ", the type to take their woman's last name, sht is sickening

Who said I'm knocking them? they're doing what they want with their lives still don't make that shyt a job. Yall negros want cookies cause you popped babies out of women and the two of yall took care of them?

that shyt is about as prestigious as graduating from high school. its you doing what you're supposed to do.

 

[winb83]

You get to keep the roof over your fukking head while babysitting an raising your future seeds WITHOUT having to PAY 1350 per month to send one child to daycare. I dont understand how nikkas that dont have children, scoff at the thought of having leeches bleed their income dry come in here and talk about shyt dealing with nothing you have experience with. This is equivalent to Topaz talking about tearing som p*ssy up. We all know he doesnt know what the fukk he is talking about so why should we even take you serious when you are a bitter black man that chases away women with your social awkwardness. If I didnt know any better from I would scream you were an alias of Reincar.....



You're a fukking idiot the charity work stay at home moms are doing is making sure that motherfukker doesnt break into your house in the next 16 years and you have a reason to shot him and claim that he or she attacked your first FOH with this bullshyt



Stay at home parent go above and beyond what is required by them as a parent taking the easy way out is sending them to daycare for 12 hours so someone else can watch them. IF stay at home parents are doing the right things their children should receive a better education that what they are receiving in daycare. This is providing the stay at home parent is writing lesson plans and doing the equivalent of what it would've took if their child was sent to school. Again stop talking you know nothing of what you speak and every time you reply you prove that you are an a$$hole



Says the nikka that is a borderline asexual. ...

While you were on here being a bitter introvert I was out with my beautiful wife and daughter eating crabs in Eastern Shore. Mingling with other grown folks who have better things to do than sit around and trash shyt they they dont know about


Yall nikkas kill me you all want to fukk raw but dont want any children. You want to fukk women but dont want women who may have gotten knocked up by nikkas like you. Single mothers arent desirable because they have children but they were partaking in sex just like you wanted and an irresponsible nikka like you got her pregnant and now she is dead weight becasue she isnt marrried. But oh wait nikkas that got married to the women they loved and the mother of their children are simps. So what is it motherfukkers. Make up your fukking minds on what yall nikkas want in life becasue from what I see its to be with another man....

You coming at me with this condescending shyt mad as hell cause its motherfukkers out here that look at people that do what you do and just see a guy doing what he's supposed to do. You got a daughter and you took her out good for you. Don't come at me like that's some shyt I should be jealous of cause that's laughable.

hell naw I don't want a single mother stuck with baggage from a previous failed relationship. I have no kids so why the hell would I be wanting to deal with someone else's? Let that nikka deal with his own kids. fukk I look like accepting a ready made broken family? i'm irresponsible when she's the one with kids and i have none? i never represent marriage as a simpish act either. just cause i think signing a binding legal contract that says you'll be with someone for the rest of your life based on how you feel at a particular moment and if the relationship fails you will pay out half plus whatever the state requires beyond that is foolish doesn't mean its simpish.

you wanna get married and slave away at a job while some chick sits at home and pops out your kids and you have to foot the bill for all that be my guest. i'd rather go to work and have all my money for myself and if women look at a man like me and say fukk him that's cool i'm perfectly content with riding solo till the casket drops.

 

[OH SOHH TRILL]

my wifes stay at home and my son goes to "pre-school" (day care) two days a week.

 

[Dirk Diggler]

You coming at me with this condescending shyt mad as hell cause its motherfukkers out here that look at people that do what you do and just see a guy doing what he's supposed to do. You got a daughter and you took her out good for you. Don't come at me like that's some shyt I should be jealous of cause that's laughable.

fukk outta here you wish you could even come to grips with wanting a woman to birth your sorry ass children because if they are anything like your internet persona they will be losers as well.

hell naw I don't want a single mother stuck with baggage from a previous failed relationship. I have no kids so why the hell would I be wanting to deal with someone else's?

You missed the point faggit

Let that nikka deal with his own kids.

From the sounds of it you dont even want the p*ssy that is ready to make this happen for you. STFU faggit. Men on men sex doesnt produce children if you arent aware of that

fukk I look like accepting a ready made broken family? i'm irresponsible when she's the one with kids and i have none?

Again you missed the point.

i never represent marriage as a simpish act either.

Since you seem like the apprentice of the Almighty Misogynist Recincar yes you do sound like his apprentice because you and hime have this woman hating shyt on LOCK....

just cause i think signing a binding legal contract that says you'll be with someone for the rest of your life based on how you feel at a particular moment and if the relationship fails you will pay out half plus whatever the state requires beyond that is foolish doesn't mean its simpish.

Keep thinking like that and you will never move out of your mothers basement. Its nikkas like you where scared money dont make none that sit in the comfort of their own skin and never do shyt with their lives. I bought mt second house in 2006 KNOWING that market would tank a few years later. AM I MAD no while you are watching porn on mute I am in my house watching porn with the volume up and do so because I am not afraid my mother is gonna come in the basement and bust me wacking off WHEN I CHOOSE TO DO SO

you wanna get married and slave away at a job while some chick sits at home and pops out your kids and you have to foot the bill for all that be my guest.

No I got married to the woman who I knew were going to raise my children with morals and values. I didnt marry the type of ratchet ass woman yall nikka complain about day in and day out. Im past that. I found one that was gonna do good by me and children and by you all standards she is a unicorn. So be it........ If she had to stay home and take care of the children there would be no problems here especially when my daughter at 21 months can count to 10, say he ABC's and identify with animals you show her AND if there was a situation where I had to foot the bill for my seed. Whats the problem. The more I do to make her contribute to society is the less taxes they take outta your fukking paycheck. So why is this a problem is beyond me. It sounds like you just wanted something else to complain about while you sit there and bask in your im-masculinity and complain about women to a large group of dudes that dont give a fukk.

i'd rather go to work and have all my money for myself and if women look at a man like me and say fukk him that's cool I'm perfectly content with riding solo till the casket drops.

Again this is why you shouldnt even be talking about shyt like this. When I had my daughter I MADE A SACRIFICE I make enough money to send her to the best daycare's AND TRAVEL WHEN I WANT. :youmad: Just because you a broke ass nikka and cant see a way out having children AND still being financially free doenst mean we need to read this bullshyt from you day in and day out


When you get to 30+ and meet "THAT" woman and she asks you why you haven't been in a relationship do yourself a favor and dont respond. Any response you have to offer is most likely to drive her away and you will be labeled as a weirdo in her contact list

 

[winb83]

fukk outta here you wish you could even come to grips with wanting a woman to birth your sorry ass children because if they are anything like your internet persona they will be losers as well.

i guess i should stand in awe of you a real winner in life then huh? some woman wanted to birth your child so you won? i know nikkas right now that fukked chicks that didn't even know their real name that birth those children and they're fatherless. them nikkas winners cause they had a chick birth their babies?

You missed the point faggit

From the sounds of it you dont even want the p*ssy that is ready to make this happen for you. STFU faggit. Men on men sex doesnt produce children if you arent aware of that

now you're just contradicting yourself. what do i want to fukk bytches that don't want a loser like me or men? make up your mind. dude you're a grown ass man calling me a fakkit like we're in grade school and i'm gonna have a knee jerk reaction and get mad about it. notice to this very point i haven't called you a single inflammatory name. i've got no questions about my sexuality so you question it don't bother me in fact i find it funny cause you're acting like a child name calling cause somebody doesn't agree with you.

Since you seem like the apprentice of the Almighty Misogynist Recincar yes you do sound like his apprentice because you and hime have this woman hating shyt on LOCK....

and he was at one point engaged to be married i however never in my entire life have wanted to be married yet i'm his apprentice? woman hating? if you got a crackhead in your fam and you call him out on his bullshyt are you hating on him? your opinions on what you think i think are not my opinions.

Keep thinking like that and you will never move out of your mothers basement. Its nikkas like you where scared money dont make none that sit in the comfort of their own skin and never do shyt with their lives. I bought mt second house in 2006 KNOWING that market would tank a few years later. AM I MAD no while you are watching porn on mute I am in my house watching porn with the volume up and do so because I am not afraid my mother is gonna come in the basement and bust me wacking off WHEN I CHOOSE TO DO SO

so now you who don't know me from a bum on the streets wanna comment on my living situation? i don't live with my mother and haven't in a long ass time. fukk i look like as a grown ass man living with my mom? hell she doesn't even know where i live to bytch at me about watching porn.

No I got married to the woman who I knew were going to raise my children with morals and values. I didnt marry the type of ratchet ass woman yall nikka complain about day in and day out. Im past that. I found one that was gonna do good by me and children and by you all standards she is a unicorn. So be it........ If she had to stay home and take care of the children there would be no problems here especially when my daughter at 21 months can count to 10, say he ABC's and identify with animals you show her AND if there was a situation where I had to foot the bill for my seed. Whats the problem. The more I do to make her contribute to society is the less taxes they take outta your fukking paycheck. So why is this a problem is beyond me. It sounds like you just wanted something else to complain about while you sit there and bask in your im-masculinity and complain about women to a large group of dudes that dont give a fukk.

man please they give you tax credits for popping out kids and charge people like me a higher tax rate because we don't have kids. if you claim that kid on your taxes people like me with no children subsidize your tax credits for your kids so yes we pay for you to have them.

you and every other guy in the world beat the odds and found the right one. all yall talk like that till you're in divorce court giving up half and paying 30% a month in child support. not a damn man that gets married is thinking oh boy i can't wait till this shyt falls apart one day and i gotta go through all that.

Again this is why you shouldnt even be talking about shyt like this. When I had my daughter I MADE A SACRIFICE I make enough money to send her to the best daycare's AND TRAVEL WHEN I WANT. :youmad: Just because you a broke ass nikka and cant see a way out having children AND still being financially free doenst mean we need to read this bullshyt from you day in and day out

you're talking like i wish i could have kids and take care of them but i'm too broke to. even if that was the case broke people have kids every day. i don't have children because i don't want them. whatever they cost that could be more money in my pockets.

When you get to 30+ and meet that woman and she asks you why you haven't been in a relationship do yourself a favor and dont respond. Any response you have to offer is most likely to drive her away and you will be label as a weirdo in her contact list

i'm damn near 30 plus now and when a woman ask me about relationships i'm gonna tell her i don't do relationships. if she is driven away from that i'd be glad because i don't wanna deal with that.


bottom line:
the fact of the matter is this. you and i share different viewpoints. i can respect yours that's life on your terms but when i voice mine you get to name calling and acting like a child. one minute i'm a loser the next i'm a fakkit and the next i'm bitter but the irony of it all is if i agreed with you wouldn't be calling me any of that.

grow up and learn that everybody in the world doesn't see life they way you do. you don't have to name call and act like you're in grade school cause people have different viewpoints. you can call me whatever you want doesn't change who i am or actually mean anything because you speaking on someone you don't know is just ignorance.

 

[beenz]

I remember when this white chick on tv said Mitt Romney's wife never worked a day in her life and caught mad heat for it. She was right that's not a real job and you don't deserve credit for staying at home all day babysitting your own damn kids. First off you chose to have the kids so that's what you wanted and while you stay at home all day somebody else has to pick up the slack to provide for all yall.

Is dealing with kids stressful? At times yeah but that still doesn't compare to having to get up at 5-6 in the morning and hall your ass off to work and give up huge chunks of your life to a 9-5 job. Then you bring that home and the stay at home gets to spend the fruits of your labor. On top of that for the most part staying at home they get to do what they please in the constraints of taking care of the kids.

stay at home mom really ain't that hard once ur kids hit school age. cuz u chillin for like 6-7 hrs a day.

in the case of romney, he always had paper, so they probably had nanny's and shyt when her kids where young as well. she been chillin for 30 years I'm sure.

 

[Dirk Diggler]

bottom line:
the fact of the matter is this. you and i share different viewpoints. i can respect yours that's life on your terms but when i voice mine you get to name calling and acting like a child. one minute i'm a loser the next i'm a fakkit and the next i'm bitter but the irony of it all is if i agreed with you wouldn't be calling me any of that.

grow up and learn that everybody in the world doesn't see life they way you do. you don't have to name call and act like you're in grade school cause people have different viewpoints. you can call me whatever you want doesn't change who i am or actually mean anything because you speaking on someone you don't know is just ignorance.

This is true but your argument lacks two main points and this deems you not credible to even address the situation

1. You havent been married
2. You dont have kids.

Thanks for playing

 

[beenz]

Damn son you need to get neutered or somethin. Is four enough or do you want more? Me and my wife got 2 and i don't want anymore. She says she wants 4 im tryin to convince her she doesn't

man, I got two myself. one thats bout to be 3 and the other is 9. and we had our god son stay with us this weekend. now this lil nikka is only 3 weeks, but after an overnight with lil dude, man that was like a reality check on EVER having another kid. that lil nikka didn't sleep all night. I was up til 4 with him, then she got up and I went to sleep. I'm straight on all that. I'm glad we on the same page with the NO MORE KIDS stance.

 

[T'Kuvma Da Unforgettable]

This is true but your argument lacks two main points and this deems you not credible to even address the situation

1. You havent been married
2. You dont have kids.

Thanks for playing

you have to be married/have kids to 'raise' kids now?

what bout folks who had to raise their lil brothers/sisters/nieces & nephews?

they dont have credibility to even address the situation?

 

[Ayatollah Watts]

I actually had my wife stop working in 2008 after my daughter was born, having her at home provides me with the comfort of knowing my kids are constantly in good hands. It also allows for their to be constant access to a parent should something go wrong @ school. Plus only one of us is bringing home work stress and makes it easier because 2 people having a rough day at work and bringing it home at the same time isn't what's up.

point being... it's not an occupation, but no one should turn their nose up at it.