Stay at home parent is a bullsh*t occupation

[winb83]

You nikkas are fakkits thats really all you're proving. Where are stay at home mothers trying to get credit for having a real job. WHere are you having these conversations. These are talking points you heard on tv and your imagination. Its pathetic.

when that woman went on tv and said Mitt Romeny's wife never worked a day in her life there was a real public outcry and rage about her words. the president of the united states went on TV to pander to women saying being a mom is the "hardest job in america" or some shyt like that.

you're a motherfukking lie if you say that stay at home mother that stays her ass at home all day taking care of the babies she wanted to have while her husband works all day doesn't look at him and feel she is his equal interms of work and productivity and doesn't feel entitled to blow the money he earns working his ass off on bullshyt she wants. in reality she stays at home to fulfill a role she desires forgoing contributing to the houses' finances.

this shyt may have spilled over into tv but that's how people actually feel. i got a co worker right now who was basically talking over lunch that his stay at home wife doesn't want to go back to work now that the kids are in school. he's busting his ass and she don't really want to work and probably never did in the first place. the kids were an excuse to do what she wanted.

 

[Mowgli]

when that woman went on tv and said Mitt Romeny's wife never worked a day in her life there was a real public outcry and rage about her words. the president of the united states went on TV to pander to women saying being a mom is the "hardest job in america" or some shyt like that.

you're a motherfukking lie if you say that stay at home mother that stays her ass at home all day taking care of the babies she wanted to have while her husband works all day doesn't look at him and feel she is his equal interms of work and productivity and doesn't feel entitled to blow the money he earns working his ass off on bullshyt she wants. in reality she stays at home to fulfill a role she desires forgoing contributing to the houses' finances.

this shyt may have spilled over into tv but that's how people actually feel. i got a co worker right now who was basically talking over lunch that his stay at home wife doesn't want to go back to work now that the kids are in school. he's busting his ass and she don't really want to work and probably never did in the first place. the kids were an excuse to do what she wanted.

Again, we're talking about cacs here. People obama has to pander to, cacs and women. Women, being a special class in America are sensitive when their accomplishments are criticized. Obama, being a married man knows that sometimes you have to choose your battles because minimizing the efforts of women at every turn is not good for the mental health of the nation. Especially when it comes from a leader. Raising children that become great people is not a hands off job. It takes work and when done correctly we have some of the best and brightest in this nation.

 

[colicolicoli]

People that post all day on message boards from their job bytching about homemakers having it easy is hilarious.

 

[CrimsonTider]

being a stay at home wife is easy


being a stay at home mom isnt its that simple



really though ive worked my fair share of 40 hours of straight labor and its not as tough for me because im in good condition its pretty much all physical endurance so its easy for me


but staying home watching kids all day specially if you got like 3 all different ages one crying ALL DAY

one quiet getting into everything breakng all types of shyt up gettin into shyt they not spose to gettin food all over everywere one trying to eat off the floor bout to poison him/herself

its like a whole different type of work have ya brain on the brink of a meltdown trying to stop yourself from arguing and yelling at a child like they know better or something but they cant even tell you what time it is

changing pampers biohazard status


i guess from a womans perspective labor work would be more difficult because most women arent built like that though

You realize women who work do everything you said and grind at the job.

lol at you thinking because what you did at work was easy then everyone else works an easy job.

People that post all day on message boards from their job bytching about homemakers having it easy is hilarious.

NO one is saying they have it easy per say. Im saying it s a luxury compared to women on their daily grind and pressure to make bread for the household and raise their kids

 

[malbaker86]

Try it for a day and then come back and see if you feel the same way. At least at work you get some kind of break. Parents don't get breaks when it comes to kids. Like someone said it 24/7 365. What job you know has those hours?

My god son stays w/us now and he's 5 months old and he doesn't do much of ANYTHING. Even when my cousin watches him while we're at work, she tells us that all they did was chill and watch tv. It's not as hard as some are making it out to be.....

My mother in law is a stay at home mum and she'll tell you the same

 

[T'Kuvma Da Unforgettable]

taking care of kids is easy as fuk

any bytch saying its hard just admitted she's terrible at taking care of kids IMO

Most of these muthafukkas got bad ass kids

Hoes do nothing but feed em,clean em,let em take naps..2 hrs tops

then they got the whole day watching soaps,reading Steve Harvey books and sucking off the mail man

Most of these bytches dont even know how to cook..

 

[BlvdBrawler]

raising a child is a 24/7 365 a 9-5 is nothing in comparison

Nah.

They're comparable. Different in non-trivial ways.

 

[twan83]

Single parent on government aid with no job and stays at home all day raising her kids, does she then too deserve credit for managing a household and being a stay at home parent?

ok just got back home from my date to answer your question then NO. If your just being flat out lazy and not trying to better yourself or household then i dont agree with it.

My thing was that some of us stay at home with a agreement with our spouse or some of us are too ill to work and maintain that job.

Now its true some kids are easy to watch than others while some are just bad as hell regardless of how the parent raises them.

Look at it this way let's say the dad works mom stays at home if kid get sick mom is already home and dad doesnt need to miss work. now if both parents work somebody gotta stay home and miss work and the paycheck gets smaller and who knows how long the kid stays sick or how serious it is. This is where a stay at home parent advantage comes in.

There are disadvantages and advantages to being that but nobody is saying hey its a job necessarily but being a stay at home parent do deserve credit cuz it can make things easier for the other spouse like the example i gave you now

 

[Malta]

That Bill Burr clip is hilarious, I agree with him on it not being the most difficult job on the planet, but it is very important. Women on here can't catch a break, nikkas complaining about them actually raising children now?

 

[winb83]

People that post all day on message boards from their job bytching about homemakers having it easy is hilarious.

they don't have is easy per say but there's a certain ease about being at home all day not having employment and letting somebody else handle the bills. you have task to do at home and children to pay attention to but i work with guys who have 2-3 kids and a stay at home and they're always stressed out about bills and money because they have to be the sole source of income.

i cook, i clean, and take care of my house now while working 40-55 hours a week. having somebody else do that or split those task would mean next to nothing to me. i can clean up my while shyt inside of 2.5 hours once a week and wash clothes while doing it.

lets be real here most of these stay at homes have TVs, DVDs, video games, pets and other items to distract their kids and cooking and cleaning do not take a full 8 hours of time. unless you're home schooling your child what the hell are you really doing all day?

i bet there's a lot of talking on the phone. a lot of down time watching tv or using a computer. probably a few trips here and there to fill the time. once a certain level of discipline has been reached the kids in home should be very manageable.

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

they don't have is easy per say but there's a certain ease about being at home all day not having employment and letting somebody else handle the bills. you have task to do at home and children to pay attention to but i work with guys who have 2-3 kids and a stay at home and they're always stressed out about bills and money because they have to be the sole source of income.

i cook, i clean, and take care of my house now while working 40-55 hours a week. having somebody else do that or split those task would mean next to nothing to me. i can clean up my while shyt inside of 2.5 hours once a week and wash clothes while doing it.

lets be real here most of these stay at homes have TVs, DVDs, video games, pets and other items to distract their kids and cooking and cleaning do not take a full 8 hours of time. unless you're home schooling your child what the hell are you really doing all day?

i bet there's a lot of talking on the phone. a lot of down time watching tv or using a computer. probably a few trips here and there to fill the time. once a certain level of discipline has been reached the kids in home should be very manageable.

 

[winb83]

ok just got back home from my date to answer your question then NO. If your just being flat out lazy and not trying to better yourself or household then i dont agree with it.

My thing was that some of us stay at home with a agreement with our spouse or some of us are too ill to work and maintain that job.

Now its true some kids are easy to watch than others while some are just bad as hell regardless of how the parent raises them.

Look at it this way let's say the dad works mom stays at home if kid get sick mom is already home and dad doesnt need to miss work. now if both parents work somebody gotta stay home and miss work and the paycheck gets smaller and who knows how long the kid stays sick or how serious it is. This is where a stay at home parent advantage comes in.

There are disadvantages and advantages to being that but nobody is saying hey its a job necessarily but being a stay at home parent do deserve credit cuz it can make things easier for the other spouse like the example i gave you now

the government plays the role of the spouse here. someone else provides and she stays at home to raise the kids. its not much different than a married stay at home from the functionality of what she does. a married stay at home isn't out trying to better her household either.

as for the missing work thing most jobs that are worth a shyt have sick time and vacation time. you can "miss work" and still get paid.

 

[spliz]

My god son stays w/us now and he's 5 months old and he doesn't do much of ANYTHING. Even when my cousin watches him while we're at work, she tells us that all they did was chill and watch tv. It's not as hard as some are making it out to be.....

My mother in law is a stay at home mum and she'll tell you the same

And not every kid is the same...

 

[Brock Landers]

If you're dealing with one child it's manageable and certainly beats roofing outdoors, but if you fukk up and are stuck with 3 kids under the age of 4...

 

[spliz]

ok just got back home from my date to answer your question then NO. If your just being flat out lazy and not trying to better yourself or household then i dont agree with it.

My thing was that some of us stay at home with a agreement with our spouse or some of us are too ill to work and maintain that job.

Now its true some kids are easy to watch than others while some are just bad as hell regardless of how the parent raises them.

Look at it this way let's say the dad works mom stays at home if kid get sick mom is already home and dad doesnt need to miss work. now if both parents work somebody gotta stay home and miss work and the paycheck gets smaller and who knows how long the kid stays sick or how serious it is. This is where a stay at home parent advantage comes in.

There are disadvantages and advantages to being that but nobody is saying hey its a job necessarily but being a stay at home parent do deserve credit cuz it can make things easier for the other spouse like the example i gave you now

Son u talkin to a bunch of people who never been married but try to tell a married person how being married is...and people who don't have kids tryna tell a parent about how it is to raise kids...just leave nikkas in they ignorance...muhfukkas is wet behind the ears g....no real life experience...