spliz
SplizThaDon
My point is you're supposed to raise your kids if you have them. quit acting like its a job or it entitles you to some type of respect or admiration because whether or not you stay at home all day and do it or work full time and do it all parents are supposed to raise the kids they decide to have. that's their responsibility and they don't deserve and special recognition for doing it.
having kids is not a mandatory part of life. in fact for most its an act of vanity they do to leave something behind in this world long after they're gone. if you have the ability and means to decide to quit working a real job all together and dedicate years of your life to staying at home with your kids good for you but don't try to push that off as having a real job.
being a parent is not a job its a relationship and a responsibility but not a job.
nikka its ALL a job...if I search out to find a JOB in somethin I LOVE to do its still a job no.matter if I wanted it or not...and if u have kids or a family...having a job and providing for that family is what ur SUPPOSED to do as well...so I guess by ur logic u shouldnt get praise for that either...my point is..NO side of the spectrum should be undermined...their BOTH difficult in their own ways and if u holdin shyt down on any side of the spectrum or both u deserve props cause shyt ain't easy out there...kids have new needs and wants and they grow EVERYDAY so if u doin a good job and tryin ya best to raise em the right way than its all love..