Stay at home parent is a bullsh*t occupation

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My point is you're supposed to raise your kids if you have them. quit acting like its a job or it entitles you to some type of respect or admiration because whether or not you stay at home all day and do it or work full time and do it all parents are supposed to raise the kids they decide to have. that's their responsibility and they don't deserve and special recognition for doing it.

having kids is not a mandatory part of life. in fact for most its an act of vanity they do to leave something behind in this world long after they're gone. if you have the ability and means to decide to quit working a real job all together and dedicate years of your life to staying at home with your kids good for you but don't try to push that off as having a real job.

being a parent is not a job its a relationship and a responsibility but not a job.

nikka its ALL a job...if I search out to find a JOB in somethin I LOVE to do its still a job no.matter if I wanted it or not...and if u have kids or a family...having a job and providing for that family is what ur SUPPOSED to do as well...so I guess by ur logic u shouldnt get praise for that either...my point is..NO side of the spectrum should be undermined...their BOTH difficult in their own ways and if u holdin shyt down on any side of the spectrum or both u deserve props cause shyt ain't easy out there...kids have new needs and wants and they grow EVERYDAY so if u doin a good job and tryin ya best to raise em the right way than its all love..
 

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If you're dealing with one child it's manageable and certainly beats roofing outdoors, but if you fukk up and are stuck with 3 kids under the age of 4...:wow: :russ:

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I GOT MY WORK CUT OUT :sadbron:

But i love my kids and being a stay at home father :dj2:
 

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I GOT MY WORK CUT OUT :sadbron:

But i love my kids and being a stay at home father :dj2:

Damn son you need to get neutered or somethin. Is four enough or do you want more? Me and my wife got 2 and i don't want anymore. She says she wants 4 im tryin to convince her she doesn't:snoop:
 

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Damn son you need to get neutered or somethin. Is four enough or do you want more? Me and my wife got 2 and i don't want anymore. She says she wants 4 im tryin to convince her she doesn't:snoop:

Na im done Fam.
Always wanted 4 nothing more :myman:

but wasnt expecting 3 girls though :sadbron:
 

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Being a stay at home parent is much easier than having to work a real job. The media has somehow convinced people that it's harder than going to work, but anyone that believes this is crazy. Most of my co-workers that have stay at home wives tell me that their women don't even cook or clean half the time. Really, what the he'll are they doing all day?
 

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nikka its ALL a job...if I search out to find a JOB in somethin I LOVE to do its still a job no.matter if I wanted it or not...and if u have kids or a family...having a job and providing for that family is what ur SUPPOSED to do as well...so I guess by ur logic u shouldnt get praise for that either...my point is..NO side of the spectrum should be undermined...their BOTH difficult in their own ways and if u holdin shyt down on any side of the spectrum or both u deserve props cause shyt ain't easy out there...kids have new needs and wants and they grow EVERYDAY so if u doin a good job and tryin ya best to raise em the right way than its all love..
if raising kids is a job who hires you to do it and who pays your salary. it only becomes a job when you raise someone else s kids and they pay you for it.

you know what you should get credit for? charity work, donating money to charity, volunteering to help disadvantaged youths, starting your own successful business. graduating from college with a masters degree. beating cancer. things that aren't common things that you have to go out of your way for.

you don't get credit for working a job and providing for a family because if you have a family that's what you're supposed to do anyways. just because the people that don't do what they're supposed to do are pieces of shyt doesn't make you special for doing what you're supposed to do.

taking up your basic responsibilities in life is nothing worth applauding just because some shytty people choose to abandon them.
 

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Every time I turn around, OP is whining about women.

Just do us a favor and come out the damn closet. All this hatred for women is :scusthov: and not healthy.
i like how when you say things people apply their own spin to it then try to represent it as how you feel or what you said.

the simps that lower their heads and play along with how society wants them to behave nobody really cares but when you actually start talking about the shyt you see and calling it out then people toss labels like bitter or wanna call you a homo.

Jay-Z says bytch in a song and oh he hates women but he's not talking about every woman alive just a common subset but the listeners they glaze over that part.

i got nothing against a strong woman that holds her own and views her self as equal to a man and carries that weight not looking for handouts or freebies and not feeling entitled to shyt just because she has a vagina. the type of woman that isn't trying to flip between chivalry and equality depending on which one has the most favorable outcome. but really how common is that? if calling out bullshyt is what you define as bitter i'll be that.
 
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if raising kids is a job who hires you to do it and who pays your salary. it only becomes a job when you raise someone else s kids and they pay you for it.

You get to keep the roof over your fukking head while babysitting an raising your future seeds WITHOUT having to PAY 1350 per month to send one child to daycare. I dont understand how nikkas that dont have children, scoff at the thought of having leeches bleed their income dry come in here and talk about shyt dealing with nothing you have experience with. This is equivalent to Topaz talking about tearing som p*ssy up. We all know he doesnt know what the fukk he is talking about so why should we even take you serious when you are a bitter black man that chases away women with your social awkwardness. If I didnt know any better from :hamster: I would scream you were an alias of Reincar.....

you know what you should get credit for? charity work, donating money to charity, volunteering to help disadvantaged youths, starting your own successful business. graduating from college with a masters degree. beating cancer. things that aren't common things that you have to go out of your way for.

You're a fukking idiot the charity work stay at home moms are doing is making sure that motherfukker doesnt break into your house in the next 16 years and you have a reason to shot him and claim that he or she attacked your first FOH with this bullshyt

you don't get credit for working a job and providing for a family because if you have a family that's what you're supposed to do anyways. just because the people that don't do what they're supposed to do are pieces of shyt doesn't make you special for doing what you're supposed to do.

Stay at home parent go above and beyond what is required by them as a parent taking the easy way out is sending them to daycare for 12 hours so someone else can watch them. IF stay at home parents are doing the right things their children should receive a better education that what they are receiving in daycare. This is providing the stay at home parent is writing lesson plans and doing the equivalent of what it would've took if their child was sent to school. Again stop talking you know nothing of what you speak and every time you reply you prove that you are an a$$hole

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taking up your basic responsibilities in life is nothing worth applauding just because some shytty people choose to abandon them.

Says the nikka that is a borderline asexual. ...

While you were on here being a bitter introvert I was out with my beautiful wife and daughter eating crabs in Eastern Shore. Mingling with other grown folks who have better things to do than sit around and trash shyt they they dont know about


Yall nikkas kill me you all want to fukk raw but dont want any children. You want to fukk women but dont want women who may have gotten knocked up by nikkas like you. Single mothers arent desirable because they have children but they were partaking in sex just like you wanted and an irresponsible nikka like you got her pregnant and now she is dead weight becasue she isnt marrried. But oh wait nikkas that got married to the women they loved and the mother of their children are simps. So what is it motherfukkers. Make up your fukking minds on what yall nikkas want in life becasue from what I see its to be with another man....
 

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if raising kids is a job who hires you to do it and who pays your salary. it only becomes a job when you raise someone else s kids and they pay you for it.

you know what you should get credit for? charity work, donating money to charity, volunteering to help disadvantaged youths, starting your own successful business. graduating from college with a masters degree. beating cancer. things that aren't common things that you have to go out of your way for.

you don't get credit for working a job and providing for a family because if you have a family that's what you're supposed to do anyways. just because the people that don't do what they're supposed to do are pieces of shyt doesn't make you special for doing what you're supposed to do.

taking up your basic responsibilities in life is nothing worth applauding just because some shytty people choose to abandon thpeopleem.
Life is a job g..get it straight..takin care of ur kids is ur duty and JOB as a parent...not in the literal sense but a job nonetheless..I find it funny that a bunch of nikkas with ZERO children can tell parents how it is to take care of a kid...or multiple..yea..it's a responsibility u chose..and me as a parent seeks no credit or approval from anyone..same way u shouldn't seek credit from people if u have a JOB and take care of ur family..I do both g...I know what it is...all I see all day is a bunch of muhfukkas always talkin about shyt they have no expeience in dealing with..NONE of it is easy..NONE..some situations can be easier than others granted...but I know alotta cats in here gonna get a reality check if they ever do have a family..or children they have to take care of...
 

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You nikkas are fakkits thats really all you're proving. Where are stay at home mothers trying to get credit for having a real job. WHere are you having these conversations. These are talking points you heard on tv and your imagination. Its pathetic.

I told you, i told you these nikkas are fakkits, i don't understand how any man that isn't an emasculated sissy can even cosign the OP.

How can you knock a woman for staying at home, rearing the children, managing the house e.t.c. whilst her man goes out and gets that bread? Thats damn near the perfect synergy between husband and wife, thats what your meant to do as the man of the house.

These lame ass nikkas on here don't posses an ounce of masculinity and its becoming more apparent every day. These nikkas are the type to get into it with another nikka whilst there girl is there and ask their woman for protection, the type to get punched in their goofy ass mouth and say "naw nikka i aint trying to fight back coz fightings dangerous :troll:", the type to take their woman's last name, sht is sickening :smh:
 

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I told you, i told you these nikkas are fakkits, i don't understand how any man that isn't an emasculated sissy can even cosign the OP.

How can you knock a woman for staying at home, rearing the children, managing the house e.t.c. whilst her man goes out and gets that bread? Thats damn near the perfect synergy between husband and wife, thats what your meant to do as the man of the house.

These lame ass nikkas on here don't posses an ounce of masculinity and its becoming more apparent every day. These nikkas are the type to get into it with another nikka whilst there girl is there and ask their woman for protection, the type to get punched in their goofy ass mouth and say "naw nikka i aint trying to fight back coz fightings dangerous :troll:", the type to take their woman's last name, sht is sickening :smh:

The type to be jealous that their wife is on work leave after having a baby.

"well what you doin around the house all day. Theres only so much work you can do feeding the baby and putting it to sleep"
 
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I told you, i told you these nikkas are fakkits, i don't understand how any man that isn't an emasculated sissy can even cosign the OP.

How can you knock a woman for staying at home, rearing the children, managing the house e.t.c. whilst her man goes out and gets that bread? Thats damn near the perfect synergy between husband and wife, thats what your meant to do as the man of the house.
:wow: They dont want to hear you

These lame ass nikkas on here don't posses an ounce of masculinity and its becoming more apparent every day. These nikkas are the type to get into it with another nikka whilst there girl is there and ask their woman for protection, the type to get punched in their goofy ass mouth and say "naw nikka i aint trying to fight back coz fightings dangerous :troll:", the type to take their woman's last name, sht is sickening :smh:

They dont they have let EVERY women they have come into contact with lower their testosterone one comment at a time until they've been emasculated to the point they are bitter black bytches who complain about being the VICTIM to women. Get the fukk outta here your fathers/grandfathers if you know them would smack the shyt outta you if they knew of your antics on the internet
 

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I told you, i told you these nikkas are fakkits, i don't understand how any man that isn't an emasculated sissy can even cosign the OP.

How can you knock a woman for staying at home, rearing the children, managing the house e.t.c. whilst her man goes out and gets that bread? Thats damn near the perfect synergy between husband and wife, thats what your meant to do as the man of the house.

These lame ass nikkas on here don't posses an ounce of masculinity and its becoming more apparent every day. These nikkas are the type to get into it with another nikka whilst there girl is there and ask their woman for protection, the type to get punched in their goofy ass mouth and say "naw nikka i aint trying to fight back coz fightings dangerous :troll:", the type to take their woman's last name, sht is sickening :smh:

i feel what your saying its just switched in my situation cuz of my illnesses i have she get the bread and i stay at home doing the cleaning and watching the kids but i also bring in bread cuz of those of illnesses :win:
 

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I GOT MY WORK CUT OUT :sadbron:

But i love my kids and being a stay at home father :dj2:

No offense but you sound like a bum. If you collecting disability but you in here insisting that raising kids is hard work then maybe its time to get a real job. No self respecting man should be proud of staying at home playing the role of a woman.
 
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