Stay at home parent is a bullsh*t occupation

[twan83]

A job is employment you have an employer and make income. A stay at home parent is not a job. Taking care of your kids is a responsibility and if you decide that its better for you to do it full time instead of going with child care that doesn't magically transform it into a job no more than a home owner deciding to not pay someone else for yard care and instead do it themselves is not a job. There are many different ways to fulfill responsibilities.

whether its a job or not isn't the issue. A stay at home parent deserves credit just as much as someone working like i said. they dont just watch the kids they maintain the household also.

quit talking bout pay its not about that. like i said some people can't work cuz their paycheck could be equavilent to paying daycare for the whole month. Wont be a point to work. better off staying at home raising your kids to your liking.

 

[Majestic Pape]

I remember when this white chick on tv said Mitt Romney's wife never worked a day in her life and caught mad heat for it. She was right that's not a real job and you don't deserve credit for staying at home all day babysitting your own damn kids. First off you chose to have the kids so that's what you wanted and while you stay at home all day somebody else has to pick up the slack to provide for all yall.

Is dealing with kids stressful? At times yeah but that still doesn't compare to having to get up at 5-6 in the morning and hall your ass off to work and give up huge chunks of your life to a 9-5 job. Then you bring that home and the stay at home gets to spend the fruits of your labor. On top of that for the most part staying at home they get to do what they please in the constraints of taking care of the kids.

To be fair you choose to go work a job as well. Agree with everything else you said though.

 

[Still Benefited]

whether its a job or not isn't the issue. A stay at home parent deserves credit just as much as someone working like i said. they dont just watch the kids they maintain the household also.

quit talking bout pay its not about that. like i said some people can't work cuz their paycheck could be equavilent to paying daycare for the whole month. Wont be a point to work. better off staying at home raising your kids to your liking.

As long as they know they position....its the ones who believe "bein a stay at home mom is the hardest job in the world" or when they do those ridiculous calculations of what a stay at home mom would get paid for all her duties year and it ends bein 200K a year or sum bullshyt

Her stayin at home is simply a matter of these daycare centers commiting robbery,but at least it ain't they kid so its more understandable...watching sumbody elses kids is hard,can't scream as loud,gotta throw a left jab when u wanna throw a right jab.

We appreciate you but just know your position and how lucky you are....complainin sounds like u don't love your kids

I had two baby sitters my whole life,one let me play atari all day,the other made me watch soap operas all day,gave me grits for lunch almost every day,or a damn sandwhich,and gave me baths sumtimes which looking back I don't know if that wuz appropriate...I sat there and watched them soap operas no problem...sounds like a easy job for a lady to me...watch tv all day,cook sum grits,wash a future heart throbs body

I never told moms til I grew up cuz she told me "do whatever she tells you" before she left me there,I thought that's what babysitters do and I got a suspicion it is what most of em do

 

[Listen]

Im glad my wife has been able to stay home with my second son.

I also.want her ass back in the work place in some capacity after my oldest starts Kindergarten next month.

 

[twan83]

As long as they know they position....its the ones who believe "bein a stay at home mom is the hardest job in the world" or when they do those ridiculous calculations of what a stay at home mom would get paid for all her duties year and it ends bein 200K a year or sum bullshyt

Her stayin at home is simply a matter of these daycare centers commiting robbery,but at least it ain't they kid so its more understandable...watching sumbody elses kids is hard,can't scream as loud,gotta throw a left jab when u wanna throw a right jab.

We appreciate you but just know your position and how lucky you are....complainin sounds like u don't love your kids

I had two baby sitters my whole life,one let me play atari all day,the other made me watch soap operas all day,gave me grits for lunch almost every day,or a damn sandwhich,and gave me baths sumtimes which looking back I don't know if that wuz appropriate...I sat there and watched them soap operas no problem...sounds like a easy job for a lady to me...watch tv all day,cook sum grits,wash a future heart throbs body

I never told moms til I grew up cuz she told me "do whatever she tells you" before she left me there,I thought that's what babysitters do and I got a suspicion it is what most of em do

na far from complaining here my stance is that staying at home parent should get some appreciation thats all its not easy depending on what kind of kids you got

I appreciate whoever does it cuz they are maintaing the house while dealing with the kids.

As for myself im a stay at home parent due to disability reasons though. Working i would prefer honestly but its really hard for myself to do so i stay at home take care of my 3 kids and maintain the house while my wife works plus i got another one due anytime now

I bring in income regardless due to my service in the army and getting retired due to my disability

 

[twan83]

Im glad my wife has been able to stay home with my second son.

I also.want her ass back in the work place in some capacity after my oldest starts Kindergarten next month.

Like i said if you both agree to one staying at home its cool

but i also would prefer that if i was in your situation depending on how much she could make. if she working and its pure day care check going

this is just my opinion no point working 40 hr weeks with your check GONE to daycare


thats just my opinion on that stance but your right though once hit kindergarden daycare is part time only so it shouldn't hurt the WALLET

 

[CrimsonTider]

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I could tell u don't have kids or don't spend enough time with them sayin shyt like this...and I'm sayin this as a man with kids....none of them shyts is easy and both have diff sets of challenges...it all depends on what the person does at home or at work as well...the people who stay at home and leave a dirty house...nothin is done..no food served ever...they need to stfu...same as the person who goes to a cushy ass job that isn't very demanding...

You do realize the woman that work. Do all the shyt the Stay at home mom does and makes bread.

 

[spliz]

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You do realize the woman that work. Do all the shyt the Stay at home mom does and makes bread.

And they should be commended for it...there's father's who do it too..I'm one of em...

 

[winb83]

whether its a job or not isn't the issue. A stay at home parent deserves credit just as much as someone working like i said. they dont just watch the kids they maintain the household also.

quit talking bout pay its not about that. like i said some people can't work cuz their paycheck could be equavilent to paying daycare for the whole month. Wont be a point to work. better off staying at home raising your kids to your liking.

Single parent on government aid with no job and stays at home all day raising her kids, does she then too deserve credit for managing a household and being a stay at home parent?

 

[winb83]

To be fair you choose to go work a job as well. Agree with everything else you said though.

You don't have many options if you want to live and you're an adult with no one to take care of you you'll have to work to provide for yourself.

having kids is totally optional you can choose to not have them and it won't affect your quality of life negatively. Skip out on a job and life could become unliveable.

 

[Real Talk of NY]

I'll say this, every household I know with a stay at home parent, the kids turned out very well. Most of these kids, and adults are so fukked up today because they didnt have good parents in their lives. I cannot disrespect any parent who puts their kid first over making money.

 

[CrimsonTider]

Single parent on government aid with no job and stays at home all day raising her kids, does she then too deserve credit for managing a household and being a stay at home parent?

They wont respond to this because their answer would prove they are full of shyt.


Is the point that you are trying to make is a stay at home mom cant talk about how she has a real Job, works hard etc. Because women and men that go to work and have kids do what a stay at home mom does and a work a REAL JOB?

 

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stay at home mom my azz, sh't is not a full time job when you had nannies and butler's doing the job for you.

screw ann romney. she never knew struggle and never really worked a day in her life

 

[Mowgli]

They wont respond to this because their answer would prove they are full of shyt.


Is the point that you are trying to make is a stay at home mom cant talk about how she has a real Job, works hard etc. Because women and men that go to work and have kids do what a stay at home mom does and a work a REAL JOB?

You nikkas are fakkits thats really all you're proving. Where are stay at home mothers trying to get credit for having a real job. WHere are you having these conversations. These are talking points you heard on tv and your imagination. Its pathetic.

 

[winb83]

They wont respond to this because their answer would prove they are full of shyt.


Is the point that you are trying to make is a stay at home mom cant talk about how she has a real Job, works hard etc. Because women and men that go to work and have kids do what a stay at home mom does and a work a REAL JOB?

My point is you're supposed to raise your kids if you have them. quit acting like its a job or it entitles you to some type of respect or admiration because whether or not you stay at home all day and do it or work full time and do it all parents are supposed to raise the kids they decide to have. that's their responsibility and they don't deserve and special recognition for doing it.

having kids is not a mandatory part of life. in fact for most its an act of vanity they do to leave something behind in this world long after they're gone. if you have the ability and means to decide to quit working a real job all together and dedicate years of your life to staying at home with your kids good for you but don't try to push that off as having a real job.

being a parent is not a job its a relationship and a responsibility but not a job.