Stay at home parent is a bullsh*t occupation

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You choose to be a parent it isn't forced upon you. You pretty much are forced to work a job if you want to live as an adult in this world.

working a job is selling your life away to a company. Being a stay at home parent is taking care of children you want and choose to have and deciding to stay at home and do it full time. And while you do this more than likely someone else has to shoulder the burned for you not making income.

Are you contradicting yourself or you havent decided what side of the fence you would like to be on
 

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Try it for a day and then come back and see if you feel the same way. At least at work you get some kind of break. Parents don't get breaks when it comes to kids. Like someone said it 24/7 365. What job you know has those hours?




Im a stay at home parent and i dont care what nobody says that aint a easy as job like i said earlier in the thread. I was in the army doing long hours a lot of work but that aint got shyt to being a stay at home parent.

I got 3 kids and another due anytime. Would i rather work sure but i cant due to my illness. Do i bring in income? Yes

Aint nothing wrong staying at home raising your kids as long as your spouse cares what everybody else things DOESNT EVEN MATTER.

Now i will say this though if you can get a good paying job then ya u should work to bring in more income but also if you paying so much in daycare it wont even matter cuz it CANCELS IT OUT so your working for free in a sense since your paycheck is going to daycare all the time.
 

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Pathetic thread. Before we became in debt to the banks women stayed at home and cared for their children. When you have 2 parents out of the home and a child being raised by television and day care, you're going to have issues. Sad, this is what its come to. Bashing women, for being mothers. fakkit thread.
 

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These nikkas act like its easy to stay in the house the whole day, take care of children and keep your sanity. Then when your spouse comes home you are stuck inthe house for the rest of the day. I couldnt imagine shyt would be the pits. I would rather leave the house and get some fukking sun (what some of you fukks lack) for a few hours as opposed to staying at home all day cooking, cleaning and watching children
This is the life they choose I'm not acting like its easy I'm acting like you choose it so don't act like its some extra shyt you should get credit for. I'll give a nikka credit for beating cancer not poppin out a baby they wanted to have and sitting at home with them all day.
 

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My baby mama stay at home now cuz we would spend about what she makes on daycare....so she just stays home for now and does hair when I get home and can watch my daughter......my daughter so far is well behaved,I stick her in front of a movie and shell sit there while I text and post on the coli,I could do this shyt all day......she gets into bad moods but that's nuthin to a boss....stay at home mom difficulty depends on how bad your kids are....if my baby mama think she gon be stayin at home soon as my daughter goes off to school she got another thing comin....I get off work at 4ocklock right now so wtf?u think the school gon watch her all day then u watch her for a few hours b4 I get home:childplease:..

She told me she bored at home all day and wanna go back to work...I told her if she find a job makin what I make which ain't that much that's cool,but I ain't seen one application or heard about 1 job interview tho:rudy:...when I asked about it she said she wuz still lookin but didn't know if she could trust me at home all day by myself,first I thought she wuz implyin I wuz a pedophile:damn:....then she said bcuz I cheated on her before is the reason:childplease:...what that got to do with shyt?:laff: just say u don't wanna go back to work...don't bring cheating that u know about from a long time ago up,u not stupid as that.



u don't do shyt for real I know it and you know it stop bluffin....if u think its hard it just means u don't like kids and kids maybe don't like u:russ:...sorry had to vent,hate seein my girl at home chillin when I get back

:laff: my nikka u been supplying me with years upon years of funny stories like this , salute
 

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You choose to be a parent it isn't forced upon you. You pretty much are forced to work a job if you want to live as an adult in this world.

working a job is selling your life away to a company. Being a stay at home parent is taking care of children you want and choose to have and deciding to stay at home and do it full time. And while you do this more than likely someone else has to shoulder the burned for you not making income.

That's common sense but are you refuting what I said or are you agreeing? Yes someone has to shoulder the financial burden but in all of the situations I've seen the husband makes substantial income and prefers his wife to rear their kids. It's a mutual agreement.
 

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Pathetic thread. Before we became in debt to the banks women stayed at home and cared for their children. When you have 2 parents out of the home and a child being raised by television and day care, you're going to have issues. Sad, this is what its come to. Bashing women, for being mothers. fakkit thread.
Problem is people want credit for this like they actually did something or accomplished something shyt is like graduating from high school to me. If you have kids you're supposed to raise them that's basic shyt. Plenty of parents raise kids with both working full time.

as a society we've reached a point where we do basic ass shyt and want credit for it. My grandmother raised like 10 kids and I never once heard her brag about it or want credit now motherfukkers got a kid or two and provide for them and act like that should be on their resume.

shyt is about as silly as a black man with a job that provides for his children trying to act like that makes him a good man when all he's doing is what he's supposed to be doing by default.
 

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Problem is people want credit for this like they actually did something or accomplished something shyt is like graduating from high school to me. If you have kids you're supposed to raise them that's basic shyt. Plenty of parents raise kids with both working full time.

as a society we've reached a point where we do basic ass shyt and want credit for it. My grandmother raised like 10 kids and I never once heard her brag about it or want credit now motherfukkers got a kid or two and provide for them and act like that should be on their resume.

shyt is about as silly as a black man with a job that provides for his children trying to act like that makes him a good man when all he's doing is what he's supposed to be doing by default.

I think the real problem is, you watch too much television and use statements you hear in the media as a blanket for how most people think. Women should stay home in those early years to raise their children and to have the luxury to do so, in this day and age is a good thing. Obviously if its coming from a billionare familiy it may be a tainted applause but overall, i dont see the need to hate on it, at all.
 

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Regardless being a stay at home parent aint bullshyt if both agree upon its SIMPLE AS THAT
 

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Problem is people want credit for this like they actually did something or accomplished something shyt is like graduating from high school to me. If you have kids you're supposed to raise them that's basic shyt. Plenty of parents raise kids with both working full time.

as a society we've reached a point where we do basic ass shyt and want credit for it. My grandmother raised like 10 kids and I never once heard her brag about it or want credit now motherfukkers got a kid or two and provide for them and act like that should be on their resume.

shyt is about as silly as a black man with a job that provides for his children trying to act like that makes him a good man when all he's doing is what he's supposed to be doing by default.



:what: The person raising the kids cooking and cleaning deserve's credit also for the simple fact the one that is working can come home and relax from their job. Being a stay at home parent is A JOB no way around it. if both working and doing it that way thats cool also. you gotta understand NOT EVERYBODY CAN WORK AND PUT THEIR KIDS IN DAYCARE. shyt aint cheap

Nothing wrong with you not agreeing with what people doing but saying its BULLshyt is way off base
 

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:what: The person raising the kids cooking and cleaning deserve's credit also for the simple fact the one that is working can come home and relax from their job. Being a stay at home parent is A JOB no way around it. if both working and doing it that way thats cool also. you gotta understand NOT EVERYBODY CAN WORK AND PUT THEIR KIDS IN DAYCARE. shyt aint cheap

Nothing wrong with you not agreeing with what people doing but saying its BULLshyt is way off base
A job is employment you have an employer and make income. A stay at home parent is not a job. Taking care of your kids is a responsibility and if you decide that its better for you to do it full time instead of going with child care that doesn't magically transform it into a job no more than a home owner deciding to not pay someone else for yard care and instead do it themselves is not a job. There are many different ways to fulfill responsibilities.
 

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Are you contradicting yourself or you havent decided what side of the fence you would like to be on
So working a job is not selling hours of your life to a company in exchange for money or are you claiming I said different about that?
 
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