lol....jedis arent bytch asses, the thing is they are more like the sith then they want to admit...they practice/preach a lot of shyt the sith do, just the opposite end of the spectrum......jedis are about doing shyt the 'right' way, which includes controlling emotions (good ones, ignore bad ones), not enjoying life too much (leads to the dark side), knowing one's self (only the good part), etc.....but when they experience something that goes against that, they dont know how to deal with it cause they've ignored/locked away/denied that part of themselves....that's why they tend to run away to figure shyt out.....cause fighting would lead to the dark side....that's the reason some can go to the dark side of the force so easily once they get a taste of it....they finally get to experience the shyt they've been denied....
the thing about the force: it's not really a right/wrong to that shyt....that shyt is about balance, but for whatever reason, no one wants to achieve balance lol....at least not within themselves.....everyone goes extreme, and wants to be on the all light or all dark side of it....the day we get a person that gets balance in his/herself, we will get the ultimate jedi/sith....think rey has a chance to be that.....