Spin: Why don't women admit they cheated after they do?

[Youseenmywork]

For what it's worth women don't trust women...so why should men ?

 

[Kenny West]

As a man, one of the worst things about gettin cheated on is the p*ssy u turned down while bein a good nikka, thinkin ya girl been faithful as well.

Then, when u break up with her, you seek the bytches you turned down and be like "guess what? A nikka single now. What's up?"

But now that u single, you aint as desired by them as you were when u were spoken for

BRUH

 

[Blackout]

Women do not have to admit to anything. A real man still accepts a woman after he's been cheated on and will even pay for the baby.

 

[New Username]

Because women see their cheating ways as logical

 

[Neuromancer]

I only cheated once in my life - and I felt terrible about it. BUT, I only cheated after I found out he did and I had proof. After I confronted him and he denied it --- I let him know he couldn't lie his way out of it. Then he admitted it - and I was like it's over and yeah...by the way I cheated too. I wanted him to feel the pain I did.

I would never do it again - I didn't have to stoop to his level. But, I was in my feelings and couldn't believe he would step out on me.

If the roles were reversed would you have admitted it if confronted?

 

[xoxodede]

See...I wouldn't have done it in the first place - so it wouldn't be anything to admit.

I kept asking him what was wrong, and trying to talk it out - but he just kept saying he was stressed - and we were good. He was stressed cause he was stepping out and trying to keep up the lie.

 

[platinum f1a$k]

I knew something was up when she started changing and acting funny. Somebody I kno who used workout with dude told me she was all on his ig page. When I looked it up he had it marked private so I got a chick I work with to follow him and he accepted the request. She sent me screenshots of them together. Showed my cousin whose a family lawyer and he told me I had enough evidence to file for adultery

could you go deeper about "when she started changing and acting funny"?

 

[True Blue Moon]

I'll just repost this from another thread...

Women aren't held accountable for a code the same way that dudes are. I often say that they're socialized as freelancers, whereas dudes have a more agreed upon and understood modus operandi. Take this thread for instance. You got brothers in here sharpening each other up and if one of us is being a bytch, out of love, we'd correct him. I've noticed that especially when it comes to relationships, breakups, etc., women don't ever learn lessons, because their circle of influence gases them up to believe it's the dude's fault and only the dude's fault.

Any time I'm within earshot of those girl talk pow wows it's always "fukk him. He doesn't deserve you," which may be true in a sense, but there's no lesson learned. It's kind of how we communicate though. Men grow through challenge and women grow through praise. They both have their place, but in my opinion, women are rarely as raw with each other as they need to be in these types of moments, because their focus is to soothe the hurt and pump each other up, but in doing that and only that, the lesson will get lost.

But on the flip side, if me, you and some brehs had some beers and talked about the shyt, we'd have some time to say fukk her, we'd have some time to talk about the new p*ssy you're about to get, but we're also gonna go through the major points in the relationship where things went south so we can tell you how you fukked up too.

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

bytches are crazy and can lie they ass off

 

[Chrishaune]

Believe in a white man's God brehs.

It would be beneficial for you to read the Bible and get an understanding of what it says for yourself. "A white man's" God is far from the truth. God is the ruler of everything, and whether you believe it or not doesn't change that fact. His only goal is to help us.....but to a man, we have to be willing to understand God and his purposes for us before that can take place.

 

[Neuromancer]

It would be beneficial for you to read the Bible and get an understanding of what it says for yourself. "A white man's" God is far from the truth. God is the ruler of everything, and whether you believe it or not doesn't change that fact. His only goal is to help us.....but to a man, we have to be willing to understand God before that can take place.

Blah. Blah blah. Get outta my thread zealot.

 

[Chrishaune]

Blah. Blah blah. Get outta my thread zealot.

it's a forum breh.......all opinions can be heard. So we're starting threads and become afraid when somebody comes with a differing opinion. That's what we're doing now??? This is life.

 

[Neuromancer]

it's a forum breh.......all opinions can be heard. So we're starting threads and become afraid when somebody comes with a differing opinion. That's what we're doing now??? This is life.

Afraid of a person who believes in fiction. No sir. And this is the internet. If that's life for you I feel sorry.

 

[Neuromancer]

it's a forum breh.......all opinions can be heard. So we're starting threads and become afraid when somebody comes with a differing opinion. That's what we're doing now??? This is life.

Also you're derailing my thread with unrelated garbage.

 

[lespaulultra3]

I went through this shyt with my ex wife. To this day, she doesn't admit to cheating. Never mind the fact that that I physically seen her with my own eyes. Never mind I saw all the texts and emails. I think it comes down to respect. If a woman respects her man and really loves him. She will tell the truth about what she did and try to rebuild. I became so pussified in my marriage to the point where I was caring for her needs and the kids needs without taking care of my own. She lost respect for me and thought that she could fukk any dude and just lie and say it didn't happen. If anything, I vowed to never let another woman disrespect me on that level again.