That's what I'm getting at though, not about taking responsibility, they just not trying to fukk shyt up for themselves, not disturb their current comfort level at home. It's the whole cake eater mentality, I'm gonna keep my slice here that's mine and grab another one over her, this slice ain't gonna know so no issue.
Another reason for the gender bias is cause men seem to get caught much more often, usually do to being a dumbass with their moves. So the "what he know won't hurt him" motive is much more common for women since she's likely getting away with the shyt.
agreed.
a great deal of cheaters are just cakey fukkers.
no matter what they say or excuse they come up with it boils down to them wanting to eat all the cake, theirs and yours too.