Spin: Why don't women admit they cheated after they do?

[4Eyez]

Reading some of these stories got me feeling down and out for ya brehs

How do ya feel about having a lengthy relationship with someone and finding out she messed with several other dudes shortly after you two split up?

 

[4Eyez]

Tried making it short...

I noticed I wasn't a priority of hers anymore and vice versa (definitely more on her side, not justifying anything, just saying). One morning I had us sit and have a serious talk about our relationship. She asked for a break. After living together for nearly two years I couldn't understand what that meant. I thought we loved each other...how do you take a break from love? I asked her if she wanted to continue what we had...she didn't say anything. I asked her a few more times...she wouldn't say a word. Finally told her "If you can't say anything...then maybe nothing needs to be said". Packed up my bags and left that same day.

This happened in April last year, she reached out to me sometime in July I think (like I knew she would). I would have fell back into things with her if it wasn't for the empty feeling I had in my stomach and chest when I was around her. It felt like an animals instinct. She caused me a great deal of pain and I viewed her as a predator, someone who could potentially harm me again...

Mind you, I never got a clear reason as to why we split up in the first place. After seeing each other for a few days I asked her "What happened to us? What happened after I left here?" It took TONS of digging but she spilled the beans on everything. Right after I left in April she was messing with dudes left and right...nothing is wrong with that if you're single...I guess I just didn't expect that from her. I thought I meant more to her than that. She could have been cheating for all I know. A week passed and I told her I couldn't be involved with someone I couldn't trust anymore. She lied and denied for so long but it eventually came out. Haven't spoken to her since.

 

[BrothaZay]

I've been cheated on a few times in my life (laugh if you must )

Everytime it was my fault

1 - "You stopped having sex with me" (keep in mind i got injured playing football and couldn't walk but OK)

2 - "You were gonna cheat on me" (I've never cheated in my life, but she was insecure about a friend I had. In hindsight the friend was too close to me, but still, not a reason to cheat on me)

3 - "You moved away" (this one is still a little fresh... i dont want to talk about it )



My point is, once you convince yourself your action is not wrong, you can do whatever the hell you want. That's how women operate. They dont admit it cuz they dont feel like they are in the wrong.

They feel like they earned the right to cheat.
So why admit something that isn't wrong?

My ex cheated and had the nerve to tell me "it was cuz I didnt like u like that so that dont count" even tho she was still having me take her out n shyt, then would have the nerve to say that dont matter cuz "relationships aren't built off money"



clown ass ho

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

I've been cheated on a few times in my life (laugh if you must )

Everytime it was my fault

1 - "You stopped having sex with me" (keep in mind i got injured playing football and couldn't walk but OK)

2 - "You were gonna cheat on me" (I've never cheated in my life, but she was insecure about a friend I had. In hindsight the friend was too close to me, but still, not a reason to cheat on me)

3 - "You moved away" (this one is still a little fresh... i dont want to talk about it )



My point is, once you convince yourself your action is not wrong, you can do whatever the hell you want. That's how women operate. They dont admit it cuz they dont feel like they are in the wrong.

They feel like they earned the right to cheat.
So why admit something that isn't wrong?

EXACTLY!!
They're the best at that mindgame BS...it's the only way they can survive. They do it to themselves all the time and do it to us as a consequence.

 

[Cake]

Who cares. Why spend life trying to understand women? Get money and they'll fukk.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

Its always our fault. My wife was cheating on me and when she got caught used every excuse in the book. I didn't pay enough attention, she cant trust me, etc. Nevermind the fact that I never cheated on her. It was just her insecurities. She even told me once she'd have an easier time trusting me if I wasn't so attractive

She left like I told her to and is still with the dude basically just to save face. Now she's avoiding my lawyer and acting like she wants nothing to do with a divorce

My condolences sir. Sorry to hear this happened to you.
But I'm happy and hopeful for your new start at life and wishing you the best.
Been there, done that.

Sincerely,
Behind-The-Wheel

 

[Max Power]

Expect accountability from women brehs.

 

[Dominicansbelit]

Reading some of these stories got me feeling down and out for ya brehs

How do ya feel about having a lengthy relationship with someone and finding out she messed with several other dudes shortly after you two split up?

ya nikkas need to learn the GAME.. it's called Hypergamy.. women will always fall in love with the better option.. it's only after they have no more options they suddenly become "loyal".. expect the worse but hope for the best

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Damn what's with all the cheating threads popping up?

Anyways......women are too ashamed to display the p*ssyfax on the window.
Women don't like to be labeled as whores.

this right here all day...my wife had smashed all kinds of nikkas before we got married and neglected to inform me of this while we were dating...divorce is in the works...

hell no they not gonna tell you who they really are...despite the nonsense they spew they know exactly how this stuff makes them look

 

[Serious]

but it eventually came out. Haven't spoken to her since.

that she was cheating the whole time?

 

[Serious]

this right here all day...my wife had smashed all kinds of nikkas before we got married and neglected to inform me of this while we were dating...divorce is in the works...

hell no they not gonna tell you who they really are...despite the nonsense they spew they know exactly how this stuff makes them look

so did she do this while you still in the process of dating or did she try to come off like a virgin up until marriage with you.....

 

[4Eyez]

that she was cheating the whole time?

Nah, she claimed she never cheated. How could I possibly truly ever know though?

At first she was saying she never saw anyone or did anything when I left, but I knew she was lying.
After a while she finally admitted to sleeping around pretty much as soon as I left.

Funny thing is, I went into the relationship with no expectations. None. But something beautiful came from it.
Then when I let my guard down everything backfired.

Unfortunately, we gotta remind ourselves to keep our guard up brehs...

 

[The Wolf Among You]

Thread is making me remember things I don't want to.

 

[Swagnicious]

The minute you confirm beyond reasonable doubt that a bytch is cheating in a serious relationship....leave. If you keep a bytch around you after that for whatever reason,then you deserve whatever happens in the future. Dumbest thing you can do as a man in that scenario is listen to a bytch running on with empty words, when her actions already spoke a thousand of them

fukk getting her to say it out loud; fukk talking about it, fukk all the crying, arguing and all the "how could you do this to me" bullshyt. Throw her in the bushes and move on. Who gives a shyt what her reasoning was, or whether she'll admit it out loud?

BUSHES

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

Y'all brehs opening up old wounds