Spin: Why don't women admit they cheated after they do?

#1 pick

The Smart Negroes
Supporter
Joined
Jul 13, 2012
Messages
76,692
Reputation
11,197
Daps
197,458
Reppin
Lamb of God
Its always our fault. My wife was cheating on me and when she got caught used every excuse in the book. I didn't pay enough attention, she cant trust me, etc. Nevermind the fact that I never cheated on her. It was just her insecurities. She even told me once she'd have an easier time trusting me if I wasn't so attractive:what:

She left like I told her to and is still with the dude basically just to save face. Now she's avoiding my lawyer and acting like she wants nothing to do with a divorce
:snoop:
:mjcry:
 

#1 pick

The Smart Negroes
Supporter
Joined
Jul 13, 2012
Messages
76,692
Reputation
11,197
Daps
197,458
Reppin
Lamb of God
I've been cheated on a few times in my life (laugh if you must :dame:)

Everytime it was my fault :duck:

1 - "You stopped having sex with me" (keep in mind i got injured playing football and couldn't walk but OK)

2 - "You were gonna cheat on me" (I've never cheated in my life, but she was insecure about a friend I had. In hindsight the friend was too close to me, but still, not a reason to cheat on me)

3 - "You moved away" (this one is still a little fresh... i dont want to talk about it :mjcry:)



My point is, once you convince yourself your action is not wrong, you can do whatever the hell you want. That's how women operate. They dont admit it cuz they dont feel like they are in the wrong.

They feel like they earned the right to cheat.
So why admit something that isn't wrong?


:mjcry:
This is why Chris Brown has over 100 million views on YouTube. No they ain't
 

25YOUTHS!!

Superstar
Joined
Jul 12, 2012
Messages
3,879
Reputation
3,110
Daps
14,561
Reppin
NULL
You should check out that thread in the salon somewhere to the women folk admitting to wanting not so attractive dudes. shyt is ass backwards to mating! :mindblown:
Naw shyt makes sense biologically, but it just doesn't jive with the "image" females wanna portray.
It's a case of wanting their cake and eating it too.
They wanna fukk a guy in the 20% but have the ugly dude with resources raise the seed.
Shyt won't work if she settles down with a guy in the 20% b/c according to their own logic he won't be faithful to her but rather go around cheating.
They'd rather settle down with an ugly dude and be the side-piece for an attractive nikka.

Females drive human behavior and evolution :francis:
 

Tenchi Ryu

Ashtray B!tch
Joined
Nov 17, 2014
Messages
88,510
Reputation
25,454
Daps
401,351
Reppin
Chicago - SouthSide - Wild 100s
I got a couple theories. First is that they generally have warped their minds with dillusion to justify their cheating. So it's no longer "I fukked up", it's now "that sorry ass nikka deserves this". You'd be surprised the number of excuse hurdles someone will jump just to be the victim. "He never gave me what I needed, I tried and he wasn't there". Then you break up with his ass, not cheat.

My second one is that I feel men are much more likely to bush the relationship for Infidelity compared to women in general, so compared to the jackass playa who know he can sweet talk his way back into his girls bed, the cheating slut know it's very likely she just signed her pink slip for the relationship, especially if her dude got legit options out here.
 

Made Myself A Boss

#Trolltruck
Joined
Sep 8, 2014
Messages
7,555
Reputation
-6,270
Daps
15,433
Reppin
dMv/ JA
Its always our fault. My wife was cheating on me and when she got caught used every excuse in the book. I didn't pay enough attention, she cant trust me, etc. Nevermind the fact that I never cheated on her. It was just her insecurities. She even told me once she'd have an easier time trusting me if I wasn't so attractive:what:

She left like I told her to and is still with the dude basically just to save face. Now she's avoiding my lawyer and acting like she wants nothing to do with a divorce
:snoop:

Do you really want to get divorced (like you dont want nothing to do with her anymore) or have you been programed to think this is what you "have" to do because of what society says

I guess basically Im just wondering if you've forgiven her
 

↓R↑LYB

I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
Joined
May 2, 2012
Messages
44,204
Reputation
13,743
Daps
171,154
Reppin
Pawgistan
Its always our fault. My wife was cheating on me and when she got caught used every excuse in the book. I didn't pay enough attention, she cant trust me, etc. Nevermind the fact that I never cheated on her. It was just her insecurities. She even told me once she'd have an easier time trusting me if I wasn't so attractive:what:

She left like I told her to and is still with the dude basically just to save face. Now she's avoiding my lawyer and acting like she wants nothing to do with a divorce
:snoop:

Since y'all not together, drop them nudes breh :mjpls:
 

Bless't

Living the dream
Joined
May 16, 2012
Messages
16,555
Reputation
3,054
Daps
36,159
Reppin
NULL
I've been cheated on a few times in my life (laugh if you must :dame:)

Everytime it was my fault :duck:

1 - "You stopped having sex with me" (keep in mind i got injured playing football and couldn't walk but OK)

2 - "You were gonna cheat on me" (I've never cheated in my life, but she was insecure about a friend I had. In hindsight the friend was too close to me, but still, not a reason to cheat on me)

3 - "You moved away" (this one is still a little fresh... i dont want to talk about it :mjcry:)



My point is, once you convince yourself your action is not wrong, you can do whatever the hell you want. That's how women operate. They dont admit it cuz they dont feel like they are in the wrong.

They feel like they earned the right to cheat.
So why admit something that isn't wrong?


:mjcry:
Grand opening, grand closing.

Reminds me of a great Jack Nicholson quote from As Good As It Gets.

"how do you write women so well?"

Nicholson responds, "I think of a man... and take away reason and accountability."


:russ:




That quote will always stick with me the rest of my life when it comes to women skirting or rationalizing any wrong they do.
 
Top