Spin: Why don't women admit they cheated after they do?

[BmoreGorilla]

Do you really want to get divorced (like you dont want nothing to do with her anymore) or have you been programed to think this is what you "have" to do because of what society says

I guess basically Im just wondering if you've forgiven her

Nah Im done breh. Cant go back after that disrespect. I wish her the best and I care about her well being but that's only becuz I need her to raise my daughter the best she can

 

[Another Man]

I don't think it's a legit question, to ask why "women" specifically don't wanna admit they cheated.

Anyone that does something dishonest is likely to deny it on the off chance that they can still get away with it; don't see what it has to do with gender tbh.

No, it definitely has a lot to do with gender.

More often than not, men will own up to the dirt they do, women will deny it till the death, and when they can no longer deny it, they'll justify it because they have zero self accountability. They can never admit when they're wrong. You have a lot of women out here, for example, who run around doing hoe shyt, but god forbid anyone call them a hoe. Dude earlier put it best, they want the respect of men, but have the accountability of children. They go around doing shyt no one should respect, and still think they're entitled to it. Sorry, doesn't work that way

 

[Poetical Poltergeist]

Women be like...I only cheated because I knew you were gonna cheat on me someday.

 

[Bless't]

when have you known women to admit to ANY kind of wrong?

Higher ups do a lot to make the female gender think the worst thing in the world is "shame".

Admitting to a wrong = Shame

Or if they by chance do admit to doing something wrong...

it's only after the fact. They know full well what they're doing while doing it but do it nevertheless.

Whats the saying?

Its better to ask for forgiveness than permission.

 

[Serious]

My second one is that I feel men are much more likely to bush the relationship for Infidelity compared to women in general, so compared to the jackass playa who know he can sweet talk his way back into his girls bed, the cheating slut know it's very likely she just signed her pink slip for the relationship, especially if her dude got legit options out here.

But it is the pink slip. It's most definitely disrespectful, for a breh to pandering and courting a woman, who isn't fully reciprocal. The disrespect comes from not allowing the man pursue his options as to stay( potentially work things out) or justifiably cut ties and go on his way, instead the man being cheated on, is made out to be a fool,wasting his time and / or money....

 

[Neuromancer]

But it is the pink slip. It's most definitely disrespectful, for a breh to pandering and courting a woman, who isn't fully reciprocal. The disrespect comes from not allowing the man pursue his options as to stay( potentially work things out) or justifiably cut ties and go on his way, instead the man being cheated on, is made out to be a fool,wasting his time and / or money....

But look at all the stories on the Net. If they're to be believed about men staying to work it out.

 

[Gold]

Women be like...I only cheated because I knew you were gonna cheat on me someday.

Heard this word for word

 

[Neuromancer]

Heard this word for word

If this is true you dodge a bullet she sounds insecure.

 

[Dominicansbelit]

I don't think it's a legit question, to ask why "women" specifically don't wanna admit they cheated.

Anyone that does something dishonest is likely to deny it on the off chance that they can still get away with it; don't see what it has to do with gender tbh.

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difference is women are smart enough to hide it

 

[wickedsm]

I got a couple theories. First is that they generally have warped their minds with dillusion to justify their cheating. So it's no longer "I fukked up", it's now "that sorry ass nikka deserves this". You'd be surprised the number of excuse hurdles someone will jump just to be the victim. "He never gave me what I needed, I tried and he wasn't there". Then you break up with his ass, not cheat.

My second one is that I feel men are much more likely to bush the relationship for Infidelity compared to women in general, so compared to the jackass playa who know he can sweet talk his way back into his girls bed, the cheating slut know it's very likely she just signed her pink slip for the relationship, especially if her dude got legit options out here.

with that being said doesnt that show why women would be more likely to lie? [not that i agree]
but if the penalty is worse for one gender being honest , easier for the other gender [less likely to lead to severe repurcussions] why would the party not want the easier way out?

theyre already a cheater, by default a liar.

doesnt have anything to do with "women just dont want to take accountability!"

 

[Neuromancer]

with that being said doesnt that show why women would be more likely to lie? [not that i agree]
but if the penalty is worse for one gender being honest , easier for the other gender [less likely to lead to severe repurcussions] why would the party not want the easier way out?

theyre already a cheater, by default a liar.

doesnt have anything to do with "women just dont want to take accountability!"

Self fulfilling prophecy.

 

[Mac Brown]

Heard this word for word

Ol girl in the avi recently did that to you breh? That's fukked up. Was it a "friend"?

 

[Gold]

Ol girl in the avi recently did that to you breh? That's fukked up. Was it a "friend"?

I don't wanna talk about it yet....


She hit me with the ole... "Well you moved away"


Maybe I deserved it a little

I dunno... i'll make a thread after I'm over it

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

with that being said doesnt that show why women would be more likely to lie? [not that i agree]
but if the penalty is worse for one gender being honest , easier for the other gender [less likely to lead to severe repurcussions] why would the party not want the easier way out?

theyre already a cheater, by default a liar.

doesnt have anything to do with "women just dont want to take accountability!"

That's what I'm getting at though, not about taking responsibility, they just not trying to fukk shyt up for themselves, not disturb their current comfort level at home. It's the whole cake eater mentality, I'm gonna keep my slice here that's mine and grab another one over her, this slice ain't gonna know so no issue.

Another reason for the gender bias is cause men seem to get caught much more often, usually do to being a dumbass with their moves. So the "what he know won't hurt him" motive is much more common for women since she's likely getting away with the shyt.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

No, it definitely has a lot to do with gender.

More often than not, men will own up to the dirt they do, women will deny it till the death, and when they can no longer deny it, they'll justify it because they have zero self accountability. They can never admit when they're wrong. You have a lot of women out here, for example, who run around doing hoe shyt, but god forbid anyone call them a hoe. Dude earlier put it best, they want the respect of men, but have the accountability of children. They go around doing shyt no one should respect, and still think they're entitled to it. Sorry, doesn't work that way

I see this but I think this is really more of a ghetto woman thing