KravenMorehead™
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I resent the fact that 95% of the women who actually have the balls to approach you first, are fat and ugly
Girl: Hey I like your shirt!
Me:*Turns around*
Me: :goodness:
Me: Yeah thanks, *turns back around*
*Spin off*COLI LADIES: Your opinion on dudes who don't respond to CLEAR signals you are giving
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Terrance Curtis Beasley
These ni*gas claim Top 5 but we OVOK
My response is a mix of:
"Boy, I already know you like me, come git this."
Maybe he doesnt like you
- Laughing at your shytty jokes;
- Pretending to be interested in something you both damn well know she doesn't care about (like she really cares about BCAAs and deadlifting form or X1 vs PS4 graphics
); - Similar to the one above, pretending needing help for something that yall both know she could handle on her own;
- Making blatant statements for openings to take them out, (e.g. I'm new in town and don't know anyone...)
- Overall body language...(e.g. shes in your personal space, touching you, etc.)
I'm a bytch because I want a man to approach me? How am I missing out if he's sooooo shy that he's scared to speak? If I repeatedly give you a signal and you don't respond it would follow that you're not interested
Some signals are not as clear to the receiver as the sender would think. You could be lookin' at a man because he looks funny, because he looks familiar, because he has somethin' on his face. Assumin' he's shy or not interested it's just that. An assumption.
I get that women want men to take the lead. What I don't get is why women don't want more control of the situation. Why sit around waitin', givin' signals? Initiatin' contact is not a holla. It just gives a man you're attracted to an openin'.
I've had women ask me what I was drinkin', how's the food here, do you know where such & such is, etc. Women a little bolder or more interested have complimented my shirt, hat, shoes, general appearance.
It's just an openin'. A guy checkin' for you will take it from there and you can still feel pursued.
But you sit around givin' signals while men you're not interested in approach you, waistin' everyone's time.
Marci-Senpai
Prosperity, longevity and a sound mind.
lol im guilty of this...a chick stepped up to me in college aggressive as fukk but she tried to play it off by talking religiously...
so one day im sitting outside one of my classes listening to some music this chick was walking by...when she noticed me this chick literally stopped in front of me and played like she was looking for something in her bag for like 3 mins...it was awkward as fukk cus only me and her where outside at the time
but i guess she was tryna gather her confidence up to approach me..
so wen she finally approached me she was like "God told me to tell you that he has the perfect woman for you you dnt have to worry about anything"
i m like "
really?"
so we continue to talk i ask her wats her major and some other shyt..after a while she noticed that im tied tongued and she asked "
youre tied tongued?" i smiled and said yea...when i tell u nikkas this chick literally made the 
face...she was like " dnt worry the woman God has for you is gonna LOVE that"
in my mind im like "this chick really wants the dikk
"
long story short i didnt get her number
was too nervous to ask for it 
so one day im sitting outside one of my classes listening to some music this chick was walking by...when she noticed me this chick literally stopped in front of me and played like she was looking for something in her bag for like 3 mins...it was awkward as fukk cus only me and her where outside at the time
but i guess she was tryna gather her confidence up to approach me..so wen she finally approached me she was like "God told me to tell you that he has the perfect woman for you you dnt have to worry about anything"
i m like "
really?"so we continue to talk i ask her wats her major and some other shyt..after a while she noticed that im tied tongued and she asked "
youre tied tongued?" i smiled and said yea...when i tell u nikkas this chick literally made the face...she was like " dnt worry the woman God has for you is gonna LOVE that" in my mind im like "this chick really wants the dikk
"long story short i didnt get her number
was too nervous to ask for it 
lol im guilty of this...a chick stepped up to me in college aggressive as fukk but she tried to play it off by talking religiously...
so one day im sitting outside one of my classes listening to some music this chick was walking by...when she noticed me this chick literally stopped in front of me and played like she was looking for something in her bag for like 3 mins...it was awkward as fukk cus only me and her where outside at the time
so wen she finally approached me she was like "God told me to tell you that he has the perfect woman for you you dnt have to worry about anything"
i m like "
so we continue to talk i ask her wats her major and some other shyt..after a while she noticed that im tied tongued and she asked "
in my mind im like "this chick really wants the dikk
long story short i didnt get her number
Supercoolmayo
Superstar
lol im guilty of this...a chick stepped up to me in college aggressive as fukk but she tried to play it off by talking religiously...
so one day im sitting outside one of my classes listening to some music this chick was walking by...when she noticed me this chick literally stopped in front of me and played like she was looking for something in her bag for like 3 mins...it was awkward as fukk cus only me and her where outside at the time
so wen she finally approached me she was like "God told me to tell you that he has the perfect woman for you you dnt have to worry about anything"
i m like "
so we continue to talk i ask her wats her major and some other shyt..after a while she noticed that im tied tongued and she asked "
in my mind im like "this chick really wants the dikk
long story short i didnt get her number
This sounds like a post in the "ever been oblivious to women?" thread.lol im guilty of this...a chick stepped up to me in college aggressive as fukk but she tried to play it off by talking religiously...
so one day im sitting outside one of my classes listening to some music this chick was walking by...when she noticed me this chick literally stopped in front of me and played like she was looking for something in her bag for like 3 mins...it was awkward as fukk cus only me and her where outside at the time
so wen she finally approached me she was like "God told me to tell you that he has the perfect woman for you you dnt have to worry about anything"
i m like "
so we continue to talk i ask her wats her major and some other shyt..after a while she noticed that im tied tongued and she asked "
in my mind im like "this chick really wants the dikk
long story short i didnt get her number
God
He's not responding to me because:
- I'm chocolate brown & he must like red/yellow bones.
- I'm not thick enough, my lil big booty isn't end table ass.
- I'm not slim enough.
- He must like white girls
- He must like Spanish girls
- He's on the DL...
My imagination gets the best of me at times....
Girl, you need to love yourself more. I know we can all be self-conscious sometimes but reading this makes me sad.
I don't know, what are signals tho? Like, I feel I'm pretty straight up when I want something. If he doesn't like me, then he doesn't. I keep it moving. The world won't end if one guy doesn't respond to my advances. There are way too many men out there to be hung up on just one.
How aboutt you just walk over there and put a titty up to my lips. Just to be totally sureMy response is a mix of:
"Don't you see me flirting?"
"Are you slow/ playing games?"
"Boy, I already know you like me, come git this."
"Welp, too slow, on to the next."
It's not that big of a deal. Once I go through those thoughts another cute guys crosses my path. & if he's cute enough I'll flirt with the new guy. The dude who didn't pick up on my signals is no longer in my focus.Girl, you need to love yourself more. I know we can all be self-conscious sometimes but reading this makes me sad.
I don't know, what are signals tho? Like, I feel I'm pretty straight up when I want something. If he doesn't like me, then he doesn't. I keep it moving. The world won't end if one guy doesn't respond to my advances. There are way too many men out there to be hung up on just one.
General Mills
More often than not I tend to take that L.
Pisces brehs learn to be careful quick.
We just don't want to be hurt again.
I'd rather show no interest than exhibit fake-interest and curve you after I get what I want.