Spin: More Women need to start being honest with men.

[ultraflexed]

Why does a bytch owe you information about her personal life?

A simple: no, or no thanks....is not asking for information, he saying he doesn't want to be lied too, if she not feeling him she could be like not interested, how is that asking for personal information.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

A simple: no, or no thanks....is not asking for information, he saying he doesn't want to be lied too, if she not feeling him she could be like not interested, how is that asking for personal information.

At the end of the day. If a chick is interested, she will keep the convo going and she will give the number or exchange numbers. Why do you feel that you are owed the truth from a stranger

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

I'm just trying not to get killed

It's so sad that it's to the point that this is an actual possibility if you reject someone/tell them you aren't interested.

 

[VFib]

You must be an anomaly or some sort of 1 in a million exception for "I'm not interested" to work for you

Like I said before, if he keeps talking I keep walking.

I'm nice but not nice enough to care about your feelings.

 

[ultraflexed]

Common courtesy...we're losing that as a people.
Holding doors open, pulling out chairs,
Simple hellos or good mourning, have a good day.

At the end of the day we owe each other, but really is that what we're reduced to now day. I use to walk single ladies our to there cats at c night after work, didn't have too, hold doors open for complete strangers....didn't have too

Common courtesy is just general respect for one another.

I don't need to know why she says no, if she's not feeling me she not feeling me.

But guys are too sensitive now days and can't take the L so I understand why girls feel they have say there taken..

 

[Ghost_In_A_Shell]

This is one of the most retarded things I've ever read in my life. You rejected the dude because he needs to learn that women aren't always going to say yes to him?

he was also asking other girls around me as well...he was not looking for an serious relationship so no............

 

[ultraflexed]

he was also asking other girls around me as well...he was not looking for an serious relationship so no............

So was he suppose to just talk to you then after you diss him wait until tomorrow to try again?

Maybe if you had given him the number he would ended his hunt most guys get turned down 7-8 times before hearing that yes, if he just gave up after being rejected he would never get anywhere.

 

[SheWantTheD]

he was also asking other girls around me as well...he was not looking for an serious relationship so no............

You don't know that. How do you know he just wasn't approaching women for practice? Most of them probably said no especially if they could tell that his home boy was helping him approach and talk to women. He could turn out to be a cool dude and anything could happen, now you don't know cause you rejected him.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Like I said before, if he keeps talking I keep walking.

I'm nice but not nice enough to care about your feelings.

I don't disagree with your actions. The women on this thread are saying that telling a dude straight up "I'm not interested" resulted in them being cursed out, thrown things at etc when that's most likely bs 99% of the time.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Why does a bytch owe you information about her personal life?

Re-read my comment.

 

[SheWantTheD]

See this is what I don't get. I'm not obligated to do anything for a complete stranger.

That being said, I'm super respectful of dudes who approach respectfully because it takes a lot of courage. I can't stand a bytch trying to posture by rejecting someone disrespectfully. But I also have no patience for a dude or ANYBODY for that matter assuming that I owe them anything other than what i want them to know.

It's called common courtesy as a human being. So now expecting common courtesy from your fellow human beings is an obligation?

 

[SheWantTheD]

As a woman being subjected to ONE experience is enough to last a lifetime. For me it wasn't the so much the verbal part but feeling like I needed to prepare to get physical with an irrationally angry man. A lot of dudes have sour grape syndrome, man.

Man, I don't want to hear that. You can apply that to every situation in life. Because you had one bad experience, you should completely write off whatever it was that resulted in the bad experience. It's like people who say men or women ain't shyt because they've been done wrong by someone. So now they should just give up on relationships.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Re-read my comment.

Does it matter if she:

-Tells you she has a bf
-Tells you she don't like light skin nikkaz
-tells you Shes a lesbian
-tells you she likes tall nikkaz
-she like nikkaz with dreads.

What does it matter if at the end of the day, the bytch ain't feeling you

 

[SheWantTheD]

So was he suppose to just talk to you then after you diss him wait until tomorrow to try again?

Maybe if you had given him the number he would ended his hunt most guys get turned down 7-8 times before hearing that yes, if he just gave up after being rejected he would never get anywhere.

Yup, and how many of those numbers are actually going to turn into anything?

 

[Paradise]

It's called common courtesy as a human being. So now expecting common courtesy from your fellow human beings is an obligation?

All of this...

That is part of the problem these days people... we just don't respect each other.

People with the I don't owe him/her an explantation.... technically you don't but being rude about it just makes you look like a jerk.

Politeness will get you far in this life.