Spin: More Women need to start being honest with men.

Kenny West

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I've given the upfront shyt a try and that shyt does not work, im telling you right now

Women don't like clarity, they like plausible deniability. being upfront makes you easier to manipulate, keep it a stack


I'm honest in the game simply because I don't want to keep track of lies but dawg hoes don't admire that shyt at all and it's makes it a little bit tougher to

I do like how the thread reached a consensus that it's ok for women to lie to men but not vice versa.
im 100% honest and that shyt dont work:scust:


i met females and straight up told them
that i wasnt looking for a relationship
and just looking for someone to kick it with
have fun and enjoy life

they will be like "oh ok, I understand"
and just start chilling with me

but they end up having the intentions of getting into a relationship and going against everything i said

even when i reiterate that we are not exclusive
and even tell them they need to find someone else to kick it with when we are not together
they act like they understand

but they have their agenda

like they gone break me:scust:


thats why i dont even wanna hear this crybaby ass shyt some females on
cause
i can be straight up from day 1

then when their scheme falls apart then they wanna
act psycho:what:


but let a simp ass dude be all in love with their ass
and they aint even interested:jbhmm:

100% dead on. Had the exact same situation last fall with this crazy broad. Made my intentions known up front, WAY before we had sex. we fukked ONCE ( I got head a bunch of times tho). Despite both of us knowing from the jump she would start the "If I do THIS will you be in a relationship? Ok what about in (x) amount of years..."

a couple months later I'm getting paragraphs sent to me of her cussing me out via text on some "Why did you have to waste my time blah blah blah"

Thread is bullshyt, but it's not like you could persuade women in large numbers to adhere to ANY type of code on their own volition anyway. And one that calls for honesty? impossible
The road to ruin is pathed with good intentions...
I like where your head's at, but honestly this is bad advice. Women should absolutely lie to men and tell them they have boyfriends to avoid awkward confrontations.
I'm a polite guy who approaches women all the time so i'm used to rejection and honesty wouldn't bother me.:ehh:
But lets be real, there are plenty of guys who take the cold approach too far. Why deal with all the unnecessary explaining just to tell a man you are not interested? :francis:
Letting him know you have a boyfriend allows him to save face. So when he goes back to his boys he can say some shyt like "she has a bf, but she was feeling me :upsetfavre:"




Honesty isn't as important as being nice/polite. :manny:

Well telling a woman she's good enough to fukk but not good enough to cuff is awfully impolite, sooooo :sas2:

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Does it matter if she:

-Tells you she has a bf
-Tells you she don't like light skin nikkaz
-tells you Shes a lesbian
-tells you she likes tall nikkaz
-she like nikkaz with dreads.

What does it matter if at the end of the day, the bytch ain't feeling you

@SheWantTheD you're just gonna ignore this huh? :mjlol:
 

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Great post by the way...more on this, wow what a reaction to a ex-husband!! If you don't mind saying why is he ex-husband and not just husband?:jbhmm:

He's an ex for a variety of reasons, a big one being slinging dikk all over the place and having a second pseudo family across town.
I've mentioned him and my first marriage chronicles on here in various threads.
It's all good, I'm over the moon happy with husband #2. That was a hurtful learning experience, we were both young and I accept my part in what happened and didn't happen.
:yeshrug:
 

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He's an ex for a variety of reasons, a big one being slinging dikk all over the place and having a second pseudo family across town.
I've mentioned him and my first marriage chronicles on here in various threads.
It's all good, I'm over the moon happy with husband #2. That was a hurtful learning experience, we were both young and I accept my part in what happened and didn't happen.
:yeshrug:

Thanks for sharing, not trying be in you biz just trying to learn from other's mistake so I never...been married 9 years Been together for 11 Good luck on your current marriage glad it's going well for you.
 

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Kents main problem is that he is very very stubborn and unwilling to take responsibility for his shortcomings. He blames females for everything. He projects and is unwilling to work on his flaws. He is one of the most socially unaware individuals walkin the face of the earth. Let's be honest, dude is slightly slow/mentally ill/ is autistic or suffers from some other mental condition.
What do you mean? What do you suggest Kent do to become more successful with women? The broad advice people give is that it's a numbers game and to keep approaching women. Some will like you and some won't. That's what he does and it still doesn't work. He got the way he is by having no success with women.

What does he blame women for that he has control over? He has no control over a woman playing games, being flakey, cancelling dates, using men for attention, etc The only thing he can do is not deal with those type of women.
 

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Thanks for sharing, not trying be in you biz just trying to learn from other's mistake so I never...been married 9 years Been together for 11 Good luck on your current marriage glad it's going well for you.

No problem. Have a good one.
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What do you mean? What do you suggest Kent do to become more successful with women? The broad advice people give is that it's a numbers game and to keep approaching women. Some will like you and some won't. That's what he does and it still doesn't work. He got the way he is by having no success with women.

What does he blame women for that he has control over? He has no control over a woman playing games, being flakey, cancelling dates, using men for attention, etc The only thing he can do is not deal with those type of women.

He has to work on himself. It doesn't matter how many chicks he tries to holler at. If he doesn't fix himself he will keep failing. He always blames women for the reason why he can't get one. He says dumb shyt like, "all these girls want is thugs" "girls don't want nice guys" Dude is a fukkin weirdo and most chicks see him as a weird ass socially akward lame.

The first thing he needs to do is stop feeling sorry for himself and stop blaming females. He needs to take responsibility. First he needs to start hittin the gatdamn weights hard. Get as big and swol as he can get. At least with that females will notice him.

Chicks only play games with dudes that they are not interested in. :manny:
 

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ive said it many times here. women should stop fukking till theres a ring and a date involved,
or till their honeymoon.
everytime i say that brehs come out the woodwork with :whoa:
"we dont want you to stop fukking us, we just want to call you stupid bytches who should choose better for fukking if youre not fukking me"
:russ::pachaha::bryan:Like that's going to happen! Women LOOOOVEEEE DYCK AND ATTENTION. And if this were to happen the dynamics of relationships would change.

Men would begin to have way more power, because he knows he ain't getting none so why should he put in work or do this or that?
 

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A woman's daughter just got shot cause she turned a guy down, kill yourself :camby:
You off yourself you muhfukkin' SIMP. "I don't blame women for playing games, it's so hard out here. Women never do men wrong, they are sweet little angels and men are devils doing them wrong undeservedly".

FOH :russ::pachaha::bryan::camby:

Edit: You took one isolated incident and painted men with a broad stroke and used it to justify bullshyt behavior. I can pull up isolated incidents showing women to be ain't shyt, does that justify when men play games or do women wrong? Your a got damn simp bruh and it's a damn shame. :snoop: :camby:
 
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He has to work on himself. It doesn't matter how many chicks he tries to holler at. If he doesn't fix himself he will keep failing. He always blames women for the reason why he can't get one. He says dumb shyt like, "all these girls want is thugs" "girls don't want nice guys" Dude is a fukkin weirdo and most chicks see him as a weird ass socially akward lame.

The first thing he needs to do is stop feeling sorry for himself and stop blaming females. He needs to take responsibility. First he needs to start hittin the gatdamn weights hard. Get as big and swol as he can get. At least with that females will notice him.

Chicks only play games with dudes that they are not interested in. :manny:
All your reasons have no basis and can be easily refuted. There are men without those qualities who pull women. And you have never seen Kent interact with women, so how would you know if he's socially awkward or weird around them? He uploaded a video where he was in Seattle and he was talking with a couple guys and one chick. He seemed like a regular ass dude talking with them. Nothing socially awkward about him at all in the video. Women don't want nice guys, they get bored quickly with these type of guys. The guy needs some sort of edge about him and a backbone, the ability to lead etc.
 

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:russ::pachaha::bryan:Like that's going to happen! Women LOOOOVEEEE DYCK AND ATTENTION. And if this were to happen the dynamics of relationships would change.

Men would begin to have way more power, because he knows he ain't getting none so why should he put in work or do this or that?

You know I'm an old married lady.
Just trying to help you young women and men with your angst
:lolbron:
 

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yall cant win

you have to worry about a man physically attacking you

just because you arent attracted to him or because you dont like the rude way he came at you


yet dudes can chill out in public and cat call women or insult women openly







yall need to start macing dudes when they dont accept NO
I get cat called as a man, and I've had women AND men grope and touch me unwarranted.
 
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