Kenny West
Veteran
I've given the upfront shyt a try and that shyt does not work, im telling you right now
Women don't like clarity, they like plausible deniability. being upfront makes you easier to manipulate, keep it a stack
I'm honest in the game simply because I don't want to keep track of lies but dawg hoes don't admire that shyt at all and it's makes it a little bit tougher to
I do like how the thread reached a consensus that it's ok for women to lie to men but not vice versa.
100% dead on. Had the exact same situation last fall with this crazy broad. Made my intentions known up front, WAY before we had sex. we fukked ONCE ( I got head a bunch of times tho). Despite both of us knowing from the jump she would start the "If I do THIS will you be in a relationship? Ok what about in (x) amount of years..."
a couple months later I'm getting paragraphs sent to me of her cussing me out via text on some "Why did you have to waste my time blah blah blah"
Thread is bullshyt, but it's not like you could persuade women in large numbers to adhere to ANY type of code on their own volition anyway. And one that calls for honesty? impossible
Well telling a woman she's good enough to fukk but not good enough to cuff is awfully impolite, sooooo
Women don't like clarity, they like plausible deniability. being upfront makes you easier to manipulate, keep it a stack
I'm honest in the game simply because I don't want to keep track of lies but dawg hoes don't admire that shyt at all and it's makes it a little bit tougher to
I do like how the thread reached a consensus that it's ok for women to lie to men but not vice versa.
im 100% honest and that shyt dont work
i met females and straight up told them
that i wasnt looking for a relationship
and just looking for someone to kick it with
have fun and enjoy life
they will be like "oh ok, I understand"
and just start chilling with me
but they end up having the intentions of getting into a relationship and going against everything i said
even when i reiterate that we are not exclusive
and even tell them they need to find someone else to kick it with when we are not together
they act like they understand
but they have their agenda
like they gone break me
thats why i dont even wanna hear this crybaby ass shyt some females on
cause
i can be straight up from day 1
then when their scheme falls apart then they wanna
act psycho
but let a simp ass dude be all in love with their ass
and they aint even interested
100% dead on. Had the exact same situation last fall with this crazy broad. Made my intentions known up front, WAY before we had sex. we fukked ONCE ( I got head a bunch of times tho). Despite both of us knowing from the jump she would start the "If I do THIS will you be in a relationship? Ok what about in (x) amount of years..."
a couple months later I'm getting paragraphs sent to me of her cussing me out via text on some "Why did you have to waste my time blah blah blah"
Thread is bullshyt, but it's not like you could persuade women in large numbers to adhere to ANY type of code on their own volition anyway. And one that calls for honesty? impossible
The road to ruin is pathed with good intentions...
I like where your head's at, but honestly this is bad advice. Women should absolutely lie to men and tell them they have boyfriends to avoid awkward confrontations.
I'm a polite guy who approaches women all the time so i'm used to rejection and honesty wouldn't bother me.
But lets be real, there are plenty of guys who take the cold approach too far. Why deal with all the unnecessary explaining just to tell a man you are not interested?
Letting him know you have a boyfriend allows him to save face. So when he goes back to his boys he can say some shyt like "she has a bf, but she was feeling me "
Honesty isn't as important as being nice/polite.
Well telling a woman she's good enough to fukk but not good enough to cuff is awfully impolite, sooooo
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