Spin: More Women need to start being honest with men.

[Paradise]

Speak for yourself. It hurt me.

"You look like shyt with lips" I couldnt respond. Frozen at being told that.

That was waaaaaaaaay overboard love. Some people are shyt heads that are try to get a rise out of you.

I'm talking about women telling a man that they are not interested and being honest about it.

Saying things to hurt people's feelings and potentially damage that person's self esteem is really childish. To me it is anyway.

Some people are damaged themselves and don't know how to talk to people in a way they would want to be talked to.

Then there is the small group of "born" baddies. The women that are naturally beautiful that are a$$holes because they've been held upon a pedestal so they feel they can talk to men like they are peasants.

I feel like social media created a whole new monster. Regular looking women feel like a "baddie" so they feel like they can be an a$$hole to a man because social media has gassed them up.

You ain't all that cute yaself boo boo... so get off ya high horse and stop pretending you are too good to talk to that man or at least tell him that you are not interested in a polite way.

I know your mama raised you to be a lady so act like one....

 

[Raava]

Your loss. You were bout to find out what that "Tip drill" song was about.

Ive had things said to me so bad, that if happened to another man, I wouldnt be shocked if he struck the chick who said it. Im short and funny looking. Up until i brought sexy back, some ladies were RUTHLESS. shyt they got away with, a dude would have had to scrap for saying. I "ethered" is my middle name

Im sorry you went through that. I could never say that to a person. People are mean for no reason sometimes.

 

[Ghost_In_A_Shell]

okay, take this one young dude that dude that approached me last summer.You can tell that he was just getting around to asking out girls becasue he had his homie there to help him out. he asked me for my number and everything. But I told him "no" becuse he needed to get used to the fact that all women wernt always going to say "yes".I know it sounds egostistical but..............

 

[At30wecashout]

Im sorry you went through that. I could never say that to a person. People are mean for no reason sometimes.

Its ok. It helped me become the #HOH pioneer I am today.......
I try to be a super hero, and they push me into being a villain, Rae.

 

[ultraflexed]

You are straight lying. Dudes out here ain't throwing drinks or calling a chick a bytch for saying "I'm not interested". She most likely had an attitude or tried to clown him in front of others.

Why would I lie? This happened to my girls years back we were at a night club and she was at the bar, I saw the whole thing...she told him no, not in a disrespectful way either, he threw on her, I was right behind when he did, when he turned around I broke his jaw...


Another time I was out with my female cousins, she turned one guy down and he call her butch, so yes it definitely happens.

 

[Shadow]

Can I just say earphones are a god send in these situations

Until you get the earphones snatched out and you got a dude yelling in your ear.

"HEY, BABY GIRL WHAT YOU LISTENING TO? MY NAME KEITH BY THE WAY!"

 

[King P]

Girl.... that would be a mess and a half but it would make for a good thread though.

The truth never hurt nobody...

That's a lie

But lies have hurt plenty of people too

 

[Paradise]

That's a lie

But lies have hurt plenty of people too

I guess you've never heard the saying that goes " I would rather be hurt by the truth than comforted with a lie..."

Words hurt too I know this better than anybody... but I would rather you hurt my feelings now than string me along and hurt my feelings in the long run.

 

[SheWantTheD]

They sure are.

Just saying I'm not interested usually works for me.

If they keep talking I keep walking. I'm not going back and forth about why I am not interested in you.

You must be an anomaly or some sort of 1 in a million exception for "I'm not interested" to work for you

 

[SheWantTheD]

If your only intentions are to have sex with a woman and you make that clear to her and she finds it to be rude, then you two are probably not compatible, you don't have to walk up and say "I want to fukk", but in the course of the conversation you can tactfully say, "I'm not interested in any meaningful relationships but I'm attracted to you and I'm interested in having sex with you". If she's with it, she'll let it be known, and if she isn't she'll let it be known.

I'm not suggesting that women can't understand it any other way, what I'm actually saying is clarity is always better than placing the responsibility on someone else to make assumptions.

Your a virgin though, so how would you know?

 

[Raava]

Its ok. It helped me become the #HOH pioneer I am today.......
I try to be a super hero, and they push me into being a villain, Rae.

You can't apply personal experiences to all people. I have had things happen to me but I told myself I wouldn't like people and the world make my lose the best parts of myself. I didn't want to become a b*itch or bitter. Well im sure some people on here would disagree Only on theColi I'm still nice and sweet to people.

I understand how someone could get to be bitter or #HOH because of how messed up someone treated them, it happens. I'm glad you are doing better and it make you focus on yourself vs. being a YouTube ranter.

 

[Shadow]

I guess you've never heard the say that goes " I would rather be hurt by the truth than comforted with a lie..."

Words hurt too I know this better than anybody... but I would rather you hurt my feelings now than string me along and hurt my feelings in the long run.

 

[At30wecashout]

You can't apply personal experiences to all people. I have had things happen to me but I told myself I wouldn't like people and the world make my lose the best parts of myself. I didn't want to become a b*itch or bitter. Well im sure some people on here would disagree Only on theColi I'm still nice and sweet to people.

I understand how someone could get to be bitter or #HOH because of how messed up someone treated them, it happens. I'm glad you are doing better and it make you focus on yourself vs. being a YouTube ranter.

I think you just gave me an idea for my next career move.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

I don't choke on eggplants

marty that's u for real for real in ya avi







da fukk u been shy about then

 

[King P]

I would rather be hurt by the truth than comforted with a lie..."

This is exactly how I feel.

Here's one of the biggest reasons I feel some type of way about a chick lying

My thing is that sometimes I wonder how many females really think "I wonder if he knows I'm lying". Or do they just not care if we know or not.

If you're trying to avoid any potential harm to yourself, then fine it doesn't matter. I can accept/understand/respect it. But when you're out here talking about you're doing it in an effort to be nice or not hurt somebody's feelings, that's when I gotta go

I'd rather you be upfront and just curve me then to sit there and insult my intelligence