Spin: More Women need to start being honest with men.

[SheWantTheD]

im 100% honest and that shyt dont work


i met females and straight up told them
that i wasnt looking for a relationship
and just looking for someone to kick it with
have fun and enjoy life

they will be like "oh ok, I understand"
and just start chilling with me

but they end up having the intentions of getting into a relationship and going against everything i said

even when i reiterate that we are not exclusive
and even tell them they need to find someone else to kick it with when we are not together
they act like they understand

but they have their agenda

like they gone break me


thats why i dont even wanna hear this crybaby ass shyt some females on
cause
i can be straight up from day 1

then when their scheme falls apart then they wanna
act psycho


but let a simp ass dude be all in love with their ass
and they aint even interested

 

[Lady.Libra.]

No it isn't if a woman told me that I'd take it even harsher because she obviously just sees it as a game and is obviously not serious. No woman says "You deserve someone better than me" unless they aren't interested in the dude. Do y'all know how arrogant y'all are in today's time? Let a man tell you "I'm outta your league anyway, I can get women of higher quality than you". You gonna tell me that you are going to agree and take that favorably unless you have extremely low self-esteem?

Just to put a spin on it - Why wouldn't you be grateful that she spared you?! W/you, she can't win for losing...just maybe she does have extremely low self-esteem. Would you deal anyway? If you do, then you have no one to blame but yourself when the inevitable challenges rear their heads.
Sometimes rejection is A GOOD THING. You never know the situations you dodged!


As for the OP, my response depends on how I am approached:
- I don't speak English
- I don't speak Spanish
- I'll take your number instead
- I'm flattered but no thank you
- I don't date men
- You've caught me at a bad time...too bad

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Why do some nikkaz feel so gatdamn entitled that a woman who is a complete stranger has to be up front and honest with you

 

[Elle Driver]

That's why my ultimate rejection line is "You can do better than me". Its a self esteem booster thats strokes their ego without that harsh feeling of rejection.

What if they oddly get turned on by that.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Just to put a spin on it - Why wouldn't you be grateful that she spared you?! W/you, she can't win for losing...just maybe she does have extremely low self-esteem. Would you deal anyway? If you do, then you have no one to blame but yourself when the inevitable challenges rear their heads.
Sometimes rejection is A GOOD THING. You never know the situations you dodged!


As for the OP, my response depends on how I am approached:
- I don't speak English
- I don't speak Spanish
- I'll take your number instead
- I'm flattered but no thank you
- I don't date men
- You've caught me at a bad time...too bad

Who said rejection was a bad thing? All I'm saying is stop lying about having a boyfriend or whatever else and just tell the dude you aren't interested. I doubt all the women in here have had bad experiences even half the time they told a dude they weren't interested (which I doubt they ever really did).

 

[SheWantTheD]

Why do some nikkaz feel so gatdamn entitled that a woman who is a complete stranger has to be up front and honest with you

It's called common courtesy as a human being. Expecting people to be honest is asking for too much nowadays? This simp shyt y'all dudes preach is something else

 

[SheWantTheD]

okay, take this one young dude that dude that approached me last summer.You can tell that he was just getting around to asking out girls becasue he had his homie there to help him out. he asked me for my number and everything. But I told him "no" becuse he needed to get used to the fact that all women wernt always going to say "yes".I know it sounds egostistical but..............

This is one of the most retarded things I've ever read in my life. You rejected the dude because he needs to learn that women aren't always going to say yes to him?

 

[Ooh Marty]

marty that's u for real for real in ya avi







da fukk u been shy about then

Yes it's me

And I wasn't shy

Too many people thought the project pat girl was me so I wanted to prove them wrong

 

[Lady.Libra.]

Who said rejection was a bad thing? All I'm saying is stop lying about having a boyfriend or whatever else and just tell the dude you aren't interested. I doubt all the women in here have had bad experiences even half the time they told a dude they weren't interested (which I doubt they ever really did).

As a woman being subjected to ONE experience is enough to last a lifetime. For me it wasn't the so much the verbal part but feeling like I needed to prepare to get physical with an irrationally angry man. A lot of dudes have sour grape syndrome, man.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Yes it's me

And I wasn't shy

Too many people thought the project pat girl was me so I wanted to prove them wrong

let a nikka get that chicago deep dish gushy

 

[Deutsche Bank]

Lmao, bytches are so full of shyt, and nikkas raised by bytches will never get it. Only a bytch would sit and have a conference on how a motherfukker need to stop lying.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

It's called common courtesy as a human being. Expecting people to be honest is asking for too much nowadays? This simp shyt y'all dudes preach is something else

Why does a bytch owe you information about her personal life?

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Who said rejection was a bad thing? All I'm saying is stop lying about having a boyfriend or whatever else and just tell the dude you aren't interested. I doubt all the women in here have had bad experiences even half the time they told a dude they weren't interested (which I doubt they ever really did).

Does it really matter what a chick tells you?

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

This is a trap. As a woman that had to sleep with a rifle under her bed for a year because a dude stalked me at my apartment, I can tell u this is a trap.

Dudes will not be able to understand the place of vulnerability a woman has to operate from when it comes to self-preservation. I was with a homeboy once and saw how blunt he turned down some dude trying to convince him to buy something, whereas I would have been extra accommodating while trying to convey my not wanting the product.

Why? It's safety. So people need to stop telling women to be blunt and upfront when rejecting dudes when there have been several incidents that have resulted in fatalities with women not wanting these dudes. Some dudes really do feel very much entitled to ur attention and will get verbally and physically aggressive in their persistence.

Luckily this isn't most men, but hell it only takes one incident.
You can ignore them, respond kindly that ur not interested, be a bytch...it doesn't matter b/c ur answer isn't yes.

I'm all for honesty, but my safety comes first.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Why does a bytch owe you information about her personal life?

See this is what I don't get. I'm not obligated to do anything for a complete stranger.

That being said, I'm super respectful of dudes who approach respectfully because it takes a lot of courage. I can't stand a bytch trying to posture by rejecting someone disrespectfully. But I also have no patience for a dude or ANYBODY for that matter assuming that I owe them anything other than what i want them to know.