Spin: More Women need to start being honest with men.

YouMadd?

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This isn't about sympathy it's about clarity, you're of the opinion that a person should make assumptions based on what time of day they receive a phone call and my opinion is that being straightforward removes all doubt, confusion or need for assumptions.



Some women will be turned off by it, that's the entire point, you don't have to waste your time with those women, some women won't be turned off by it and those are the women you proceed with because you both want the exact same thing, no games have to be played, there's no room for her to ask "what are we" because you've made it clear up front, you didn't have to lead her on and make her think the situation could become something more than what it is.
The disconnect here is a lot brehs aren't brave enough to do that, they aren't smooth enough to do it, or they are just downright unattractive, so they have to finesse p*ssy.
 

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Ya know, the movie Hitch with Will Smith gives solid advice when it comes to this type of stuff.

:ehh:

Well at the beginning, when he start talking to the dude from King of Queens, shyt was just a goofball comedy.
:francis:
 

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I have nothing to add... just reading like what?????!!?????
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I take that back sometimes women have to lie to men, because sometimes being honest doesn't yield good results.

In most cases honesty is the policy.
 

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All i know is, thanks to the very small amount of nutso men(that would go off for being turned down) and the very large amount of women that assume there are more nutso men than there really is, I simply stopped doing anything more than the bare minimum *unless*

1. Shes super bad, and shooting my shot is critical
Or
2. Shes made it known very clearly that she is into me.

I hate games, I hate chicks calling shyt creepy one minute, then accepting something ACTUALLY creepy because she feels more connected to this dude or is in a better mood. Approaches have hundreds of variables and you never know as a man when alarm bells are going off in a chicks head.

If you're very attractive, very rich or very famous:

NOT CREEPY

If you're average in all categories:

IT DEPENDS :usure:

If you're ugly/old/fat and below average in all categories:

CREEPY


That's all there is to it :aicmon:
 

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I can't even imagine the amount of threads that would pop up in TLR if women started telling the cold hard truth about WHY they were rejecting that man.

Too broke
Too ugly
Too short
Stinks
dikk little
No swag
Acts like a bytch
Acts like a simp
No car / cheap looking car
No crib / cheap looking crib
No degree / no high earning job
No other woman wants him


Did I get them all :russ:
 

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:yeshrug:Your loss. You were bout to find out what that "Tip drill" song was about.
Damn homie....:mjcry:
Ive had things said to me so bad, that if happened to another man, I wouldnt be shocked if he struck the chick who said it. Im short and funny looking. Up until i brought sexy back, some ladies were RUTHLESS. shyt they got away with, a dude would have had to scrap for saying. I "ethered" is my middle name:francis:
 
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