So what was the reason that you didn't become fast like all the other girls, did your mother have nothing to do with it or you just came to a moment of enlightenment all by yourself?I'm sorry but this is so stupid. You know how much more attention the fast ass girls got from all the boys I liked when I was growing up? Are you telling me i would have a legitimate gripe against black men if i decided to act as fast as them for dudes' attention? On some you made me this way shyt
Let me end up pregnant and try to talk some "I was just doing it to get these guys to notice me " and see how many of y'all would even consider that an acceptable reason. Please.
If your mother had something to do with it like I suspected then you just proved my point.
A mother to her daughter
is as important as
A father to his son
These are both important relationships in the dynamics of a family structure. A father must be there so his son relate to him in the context of male problems and struggles.
When you have the father and son relationship totally missing from this dynamic the boy will usually fall off because they don't have anyone to relate to. They end up growing up in a house full of women and begin to think like women. As a result they rebel.