That’s because like I said. A lot of brehs are simply content where they are. Once they reach a certain level they burrow in, and build a fort. After a while they become OG’s they see people below them rise above them.
Every job I’ve applied to the first thing I do is check the upper management demo and it’s all white people sprinkled in with a few Asians. IT had an Asian or an India looking dude.
Women held exec support, HR or legal counsel roles.
I’ve been at enough companies to know that most of them follow the same pathway. And Linkedn has made it 10000 times worse. Just getting in the door becomes more problematic. That’s why I never signed up on that site and I always put “two or more races” for ethnicity. I would always at least get interviews.
It’s been an issue since the beginning.
I was talking to a breh I work with today and flat out told him if you are straight, non c00n, have hair on your face, long hair/braids/locs, have sense of self and your voice doesn’t sound like Elmo then you have a target on you out of the gate.
And you have to accept that there’s a finite distance you can go in the company and it won’t take 5-10 years to realize it. By year 2 or 3 you’ll see mediocre CACs getting unnatural career pushes and promotions.
No way they are giving you a flawless performance review so you can become a manager and maybe hire more brehs/brehettes. They are content with abysmal diversity numbers because they pay it forward to each other as long as they get someone who reminds them of their nephew or is the daughter of their frat buddy from Ohio State.
The objective is to make sure they get the next generation of the middle class/middle America employed and in a position to do the same thing in 20 years. And something tells me a bunch of brehs fit the idea they have in mind for it.
All good on my end. Thankfully my current agency is primarily skin-folk & Hispanics. It helps promos are built in etcIs it just me?
I really got fukked over on my performance review this year and it will probably cost me about 30k after tax due to being given a lower bonus.
As a black person I always knew id never fit in with these white/asian folks and that they will always look for the simplest reason to fukk you over or cut you loose. But i am seeing it now more than ever.
The thing is it isnt just me. It seems like a lot of black ppl i know are struggling big time lately with being respected or rewarded at work across different fields
Law
Finance
IT
Tech
How are things on yalls end? Are yall noticing anything similar?
no unionAll good on my end. Thankfully my current agency is primarily skin-folk & Hispanics. It helps promos are built in etc
Why do you specifically think you were fukked over? Not saying it’s your fault but I notice people tend to overlook their own mistakes when things don’t go as planned. You part of a union ?
Yes that’s kinda what I’m thinking.I did that once. But it was for a purpose.. It just took too long. I went from supervisor to assistant manager, to general manager. The pay went from $13 an hour when I started to $55,000 a year to $65,000 a year to $91,000 a year by the time I left. I was able to flip that into an area manager position at a different company for $113,000 a year. But the process took 10 fukking years. And I'm not even in that industry anymore. I left the 2nd gig after 18 months because the work life balance was trash and the company as a whole was poorly run.
Now, I don't really advocate staying at a place for too long (5 or more years) unless it's sector that you can easily find work at. It's all a balancing act. I know people that worked in industries for well over 10 years and in the blink of an eye they get laid off. Trying to find work was hard because they held senior level positions, jobs in their industry either weren't available, or they wouldn't hire them because they were over qualified.
Depending on what industry you in, I would use working their to gain knowledge and eventually leave. Find a better situation at a competitor or start your won business. It's better to leave when you're hot instead of after they've worn you down mentally and physically.
Fam I am 31 and in the last 4 years Ive been working my way out such thinking. Cant let yourself be mentally tortured like that, just do what you gotta do with no fearAt 24… I feel like this. I think it’s genuine psychological torture that we all begrudgingly go along with.
Fam I am 31 and in the last 4 years Ive been working my way out such thinking. Cant let yourself be mentally tortured like that, just do what you gotta do with no fear
Yeah I know but Ironic enough Ive found working with Upper Middle and Upper Class brits in Corporate more pleasant. Working class brits are cutthroat and will come for your head unashamedlyI hear you bro, short stint I had in corporate spooked me. I think it’s stressful for everyone but the added race element for us is just too much.
Spending hours acting in a weird way for these people, ain’t good for the psyche
No matter how low ranking I am or where I work I always attack disrespect head on. I have people above me who tread carefully when they talk to me because I'm respected by their bosses and my own professional reputation shields me.My entire department is black and Latino and we get treated like crap by our company. My director is a brotha and I've read emails to him that made me mad for him. Like whoa "That's a grown ass man you talking to."
How is it for y'all over there? Ya'll country isn't built on capitalism as such so how does it compare? What are the goods and bads?Yeah I know but Ironic enough Ive found working with Upper Middle and Upper Class brits in Corporate more pleasant. Working class brits are cutthroat and will come for your head unashamedly